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The ✨Autacity✨ | AuDHD | Autistic Burnout | Aphantasia | PTSD | PDA

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“i didn’t fake autism to be quirky, i incorporated quirky into my autistic personality to fake neurotypicalism” - me, ♾️ times since 2019
What many people fail to understand about obtaining a DX of ASD is that even if a person is Autistic they must *also* present “clinically significant” challenges due to their Autistic traits along a minimum number of categories in the subjective estimation of the diagnostician.
No one is diagnosed with autism on the basis of being “just quirky.” That’s a characterization far more likely to be used to deny a diagnosis to autistics who aren’t young white boys. @epballou.bsky.social at
TPGA:

thinkingautismguide.com/2018/05/auti...

Why #ProfoundAutism is BS #Neurodiversity
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Trying to remember to upload more of my photos that people can download for free.

Not everything has to be monetized. Download whatever you like and use wherever you want!

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October 27, 2025 at 9:54 AM
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when you're autistic you think everyone is the same age as you.
October 26, 2025 at 2:05 PM
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Victor Hugo knew in 1862:

Valjean: all I did was steal some bread
Javert: my duty’s to the bread
October 26, 2025 at 2:19 PM
#TIL that it’s pronounced bio-pic and doesn’t rhyme with myopic 🙃
October 24, 2025 at 1:42 PM
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Taylor Swift should have written a follow-up song called "We Are Never, Ever Getting Together in the First Place"
October 24, 2025 at 1:26 PM
people will seemingly go to great effort to avoid using the word disabled, no matter how disabled they or their loved ones are

i don’t get it
September 9, 2025 at 7:56 PM
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Democracy dies behind paywalls
August 28, 2025 at 8:25 PM
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i’m not low support NEEDS

i’m low support GETS 😑

(credit to fabulous autistic comedian on ig whose name i can’t remember 🤦🏻‍♀️)
August 23, 2025 at 5:16 PM
i’m not low support NEEDS

i’m low support GETS 😑

(credit to fabulous autistic comedian on ig whose name i can’t remember 🤦🏻‍♀️)
August 23, 2025 at 5:16 PM
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1/3 Small talk is not always harmless. For autistic + ADHD people, it’s a test we never agreed to take. “How are you?” (but don’t want the truth). “Where are you from?” (but won’t take the answer). “What do you do?” (so they can measure your usefulness). #Autism #ADHD
August 17, 2025 at 7:12 PM
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most autistic adults will benefit much more from practical “life coaching” *from a fellow autistic person* than psychiatric or psychological therapy of any kind

fin
August 17, 2025 at 1:41 PM
most autistic adults will benefit much more from practical “life coaching” *from a fellow autistic person* than psychiatric or psychological therapy of any kind

fin
August 17, 2025 at 1:41 PM
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people who say you shouldn’t treat anyone differently are telling you what they think about difference, that it’s automatically bad or less

👉 one should of course treat people differently, depending on their situation, preferences, needs…because different does not inherently mean better or worse 🌈💫
August 16, 2025 at 11:01 AM
people who say you shouldn’t treat anyone differently are telling you what they think about difference, that it’s automatically bad or less

👉 one should of course treat people differently, depending on their situation, preferences, needs…because different does not inherently mean better or worse 🌈💫
August 16, 2025 at 11:01 AM
the tyranny of the GODDAMN EMOTION WHEEL IS OVER!!! ***I*** get to name and define my own emotional experiences and if you don’t want to learn *MY* language 1/100th as well as i know yours? then fuck right off i’m not picking out splinters from your wheel for your benefit anymore bye now
August 13, 2025 at 2:17 PM
having a bite of pickle separately with each bite of sandwich >>>> having pickle slices on the sandwich
August 11, 2025 at 2:40 PM
listen autism deniers and/or instant infantilisers: just because i don’t CARE doesn’t mean i don’t understand. i KNOW why you do it, i know allll the reasons, i just don’t care about them anymore. JUST DON’T TELL ME I’M NOT AUTISTIC OR START INFANTILISING ME THE MOMENT I DISCLOSE TO YOU 🗣️🗣️🗣️
July 25, 2025 at 3:46 PM
i must’ve had some killer masking skills cos as they all get stripped away (honestly i wish i could keep them 😞 fuck my stupid brain) people just don’t like me anymore, or noticeably less in any case
July 24, 2025 at 12:29 AM
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What’s the “easy” task that gives you SO much trouble to get done that it’s ridiculous?

I’ll start: renewing prescriptions, OMG. Please tell me your magic for doing this instead of putting if off so long it’s a real problem

#ADHD #adhdlife #makesmecrazy
July 22, 2025 at 3:07 PM
#til that iv’s are placed with a needle only to insert a fine flexible plastic tube 🤯 wtf?? i’ve had many iv’s & my veins suck so i’m always worried about the gd needle in there…does everyone but me already know this?? i have major vein anxiety (no prob with needles)…maybe they could’ve told me? 😭
July 22, 2025 at 2:35 PM
the jumbotron would catch me…not, cos i never go out of my house 🙃
The Jumbotron would catch me with my Christmas tree still up in May
The jumbotron would catch me eating shredded cheese out of the bag.
July 18, 2025 at 10:14 PM
therapy, every session:

psychiatrist: and how does that make you feel?

me: disrespected

psych: no, but how does being disrespected make you feel?

me: DISRESPECTED

psych: that’s not a feeling

me:

psych:

me (thinking to myself)…i need to #AskAutistics wtf is happening here??? 🙏🫵❓❓❓
July 16, 2025 at 11:29 AM
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so funny haha how whenever i post anything about autism under my real name, no one interacts with it. like i just shit on the floor and they need to scrupulously and rapidly avoid it 😒
July 7, 2025 at 2:33 PM
so funny haha how whenever i post anything about autism under my real name, no one interacts with it. like i just shit on the floor and they need to scrupulously and rapidly avoid it 😒
July 7, 2025 at 2:33 PM