The Sassy Savant
thesassysavant.bsky.social
The Sassy Savant
@thesassysavant.bsky.social
Black autistic Entreprenerd; I run @soulfulstitchery.bsky.social
https://soulfulstitchery.etsy.com
https://medium.com/@mskjfrom1984
https://thesassysavant.wordpress.com
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Managed to avoid that
December 7, 2025 at 5:58 PM
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The best way to kill a block spin, for the spinner and the spun, is to ask and make them explain, in detail, why they're back. I find that sobering bit of reality tends to knock out the delulu dopamine rush y'all get from someone you enjoyed popping back up. Bc the reasoning usually ain't tight.
December 7, 2025 at 5:53 PM
Always called it the "treacherous threes" because yeeeeeeesh 😬🥴
After the terrible twos comes the talkative threes and there is ZERO filter 😂
December 7, 2025 at 5:54 PM
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Barbara Weathers 🎂

Lead vocalist who defined Atlantic Starr's sound in the 80s.

If Your Heart Isn't In It
1986

youtu.be/5uS6KBlvpmI?...
If Your Heart Isn't In It
YouTube video by Atlantic Starr - Topic
youtu.be
December 7, 2025 at 5:51 PM
Was almost about to do it Wednesday. Ran into an ex-boyfriend riding into Long Beach (we had serious history), but I mentioned that divine intervention prevented that from happening. Welp, time to move on 😙🎶😙🎶😙🎶
Yall spin the block because you’re bored

Or

Because you want another chance to make things right?
December 7, 2025 at 5:50 PM
You can spoil the show all you want for me because Kim K is why I refuse to watch it. They put a known 304 that got famous for being a 304 in it, now she gets to be a 304 in the show
December 7, 2025 at 5:42 PM
Made that mistake eight years ago behind spinning the block. Been dodging bullets ever since
Lmao. Women are absolutely spinning the block.
December 7, 2025 at 5:37 PM
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Don’t do that shit y’all seeing these people doing. Don’t listen and them about how to run your relationship. Talk to your partner and leave that online shit where you found it.
December 7, 2025 at 3:20 PM
Hyde Park in a nutshell.
Yeah, we got a Hyde Park in Los Angeles too. Hood been gentrified 😩
December 7, 2025 at 4:31 PM
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I’m NEVER adding “lol” to my message

So either you gonna know I’m playing or you won’t
a woman in a yellow dress is sitting in front of a fence .
ALT: a woman in a yellow dress is sitting in front of a fence .
media.tenor.com
December 7, 2025 at 4:24 PM
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There’s something to be said about the narrative people create in their own heads that have nothing to do with who you actually are.

Dating is exactly that. Being attracted to someone is basic compared to who you/they are.
December 7, 2025 at 4:24 PM
Let's go Lakers
December 7, 2025 at 4:20 PM
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Man it sucks because I love love and love seeing couples being cute together.

So finding out something ended because someone wasn’t treating the other person the way they deserved, stings.

I hope everyone gets the love they deserve.
December 7, 2025 at 4:16 PM
This is me with my lil' JVC Gumy+ earbuds 😌
Me with my pink headphones.... mf don't call me out like dis 😭
December 7, 2025 at 4:16 PM
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Me with my pink headphones.... mf don't call me out like dis 😭
December 7, 2025 at 4:15 PM
I will not allow any snickerdoodle slander around these parts 🚫
THIS NIGGA SAID OATMEAL RAISIN IS BETTER THAN SNICKERDOODLE
December 7, 2025 at 4:10 PM
You just reminded me that we still gotta wait for Bojangles to hit Los Angeles (yet again) 😩😩😩
When I'm in Da Souf, I do southern things.
December 7, 2025 at 4:00 PM
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December 7, 2025 at 3:53 PM
AI in a nutshell
December 7, 2025 at 4:29 AM
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In some cases, if everyone is perfect, it has a happy ending but we don’t live in a perfect world.

Most of the kids from affairs are 30-40+ still hurting from being ostracized, shunned, ignored, abandoned, feeling optional, treated differently etc… and they’re not wrong for it. Whose fault is it?
December 6, 2025 at 2:25 PM
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When y’all step outside y’all marriage & get someone pregnant or when y’all knowingly have them affair babies with married men just know the person that truly suffers the most & the longest is the innocent child that didn’t ask to be here

I just watched video about that this morning.
December 6, 2025 at 2:25 PM
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The parents. I have a hb dealing with this, him&his wife had 2 already. Mistress got pregnant & wanted to keep the baby. To note she has 3 kids already. Why you would have a baby with a married man is beyond me? But they are like 13 years deep now. Marriage is dead but kid is included with their fam
In some cases, if everyone is perfect, it has a happy ending but we don’t live in a perfect world.

Most of the kids from affairs are 30-40+ still hurting from being ostracized, shunned, ignored, abandoned, feeling optional, treated differently etc… and they’re not wrong for it. Whose fault is it?
December 7, 2025 at 4:24 AM
Platonic my ass 🤨
December 7, 2025 at 4:24 AM
December 7, 2025 at 3:57 AM
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December 7, 2025 at 3:24 AM