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Ren 🖤

@thatllbemybrand.bsky.social

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Raging homosexual | 25 | OFMD, GO & general gay activity | I post NSFW content | Jess’s wife 🏳️‍🌈💛✨🪽 http://linktr.ee/roughwinds

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · Nov 12

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 22h

Now That’s What I Call Gender

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kit 🏴‍☠️👽 @kataurah.bsky.social · 1d

#inktober day 20 - “rivals”

obviously i was going to take advantage of this prompt to draw DT again (and do a better job, hopefully 😬)

#inktober2025 #Rivals

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 3d

Thank you, Lucy! 🥰

And Sandz, we clearly share a brain cell! I wrote this a while ago but am still very proud of it. If you decide to read, I hope you enjoy it! 💛

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kit 🏴‍☠️👽 @kataurah.bsky.social · 3d

#inktober day 19 - “arctic”

i love this bear very much 🥺

#inktober2025 #HisDarkMaterials

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kit 🏴‍☠️👽 @kataurah.bsky.social · 4d

#inktober day 18 - “deal”

“if i only could…”

#inktober2025 #StrangerThings

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 5d

WHAT

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Adopt Our Crew | #AdoptOurCrew @adoptourcrew.bsky.social · 6d

New Deadline article confirms that #OFMD was one of the top three comedy premieres in HBO Max history!

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The Chair Company averaged 1.4M cross-platform viewers in the US across its first three days. It is also among the top three comedy series premieres in HBO Max history alongside And Just Like That and Our Flag Means Death.

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kit 🏴‍☠️👽 @kataurah.bsky.social · 7d

#inktober day 14 - “trunk”

“we got work to do…”
this was a hard one and i’m not happy with it but we carry on (my wayward son)

#inktober2025 #spn #Supernatural

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kit 🏴‍☠️👽 @kataurah.bsky.social · 9d

#inktober day 11 - “sting”

2 days behind and wondering why i’m still doing this when barely anyone really cares anymore, but hey ho, here’s Bilbo 🤷‍♂️

#inktober2025 #TheHobbit

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 9d

G, no contest @radicallysoft.bsky.social 🇮🇹🏳️‍🌈

Katelyn Boo-urns @katelynburns.com · 10d

name an italian more worthy of an american holiday than columbus

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 10d

Guys I want to write again so badly. I used to be so prolific!! I have so many things unfinished/almost finished!! I need Ms. AO3 herself to come and jumpstart my brain

Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 10d

… anyway

A small beige dog side-eyeing the camera, with text that reads ‘bit fruity’

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 10d

I PROMISE I’m shutting up now bc it’s literally 2am but I love them so fucking much, guys. They’re so good to me. I’m so glad gay people & OFMD are real 💛💜

(Also idk if they like this photo bc they haven’t seen it yet so I’m sorry if you hate it, babe, but I think it’s sooo cute)

A slightly blurred photo of Ren and Kit in a pub. Kit has their head tilted downwards away from the camera, with their eyes shut tightly. They are smiling widely, as if they were laughing at something and weren’t ready for a photo. Ren is cuddled up to Kit’s arm and is smiling at the camera in a way she will self-indulgently describe as demure. They look very cute.

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 10d

I will always be amazed that the universe brought us together. I’m so fucking thankful we both watched a gay pirate show & were so normal we had to fly to the US about it. They are a constant reminder that while shit happens, sometimes something (or someone) spectacular is just around the corner 💛

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 10d

I will never be able to sufficiently put into words just how much this show has brightened my life. It brought me queer joy, & a wonderful family, & love in so many forms. Most incredibly of all, it brought me them. That’s my fucking *person*, guys. What the hell.

(This pic is still a favourite 😂)

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 10d

I’m aware this started as an OFMD account, & part of me does still worry about what I’m posting & whether it’s fandom-relevant. But ultimately it’s always been about what makes me happy, & Kit makes me the happiest, so I’m making it everyone else’s problem (plus, We™️ are not *not* OFMD-related…)

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 10d

Grief is messy & painful anyway, but on top of that, there is a lot of other change (/neg) going on in my life rn. And in the midst of this instability, the only constant has been them. Steady, calm, & unwaveringly supportive. They know what I need before I do & are always there with open arms.

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 10d

When it rains, it pours, & unfortunately it’s kinda pissing it down over here at the moment! It’s A Bit Of A Hard Time!

But Kit is consistently fucking great, & while the judgy little voice in my head says I should stfu bc no one needs to see another gushy post from me, I’m choosing to ignore it.

A selfie of Ren and Kit smiling really big at the camera. Like, proper cheesy grins.

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Lucy 🧜‍♂️🏴‍☠️ @butterscup95.bsky.social · 10d

Happy two years to the time Stede Bonnet melted Ed Teach’s icy walls with nothing more than kindness, patience, and breathing the same air. 🥰❤️ #OFMD

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 10d

It felt like SO much more of a leap to take, for some reason. This is so lovely! 🥹 It’s an honour to share this community with you, too 💛

Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 11d

God, we’re gross.

💛💛💛💛💛
@kataurah.bsky.social

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 14d

EWWW feelings. Enough of that

Text reads: Did a lesbian tell you that you're stupid today. Or do I gotta do it. Lmk

Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 14d

It was only in 2023 that I felt confident enough to see if ‘lesbian’ fitted me, & I’ve never felt more me. OFMD helped beyond words. Queer community helped. YOU helped.

Anyway. I wish I could tell little Ren that we can explain these feelings now, and we’re okay, and we’re loved and so very happy.

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 14d

‘Lesbian’ was a dirty word. Only whispered, never said aloud. I knew from a pretty young age that I wasn’t straight, but it was much harder to go from identifying as ‘bi?’ to lesbian than straight to gay. “I don’t mind gays but I’m not sure about lesbians” was something I internalised.

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Ren 🖤 @thatllbemybrand.bsky.social · 14d

Not to be Gay and Soppy on main, but I have had to overcome a lot of internalised shit to get here. In my experience, there was an odd kind of semi-acceptance in the 00s; growing up in my area of the UK specifically, most people seemed to support gay men, but not so much the women.

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