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Lizzy
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Queer fiction, linguistics, ephemera. Penhallow/Trevelyan stan. 🏳️‍🌈 she/her Header by @ThreatNotation on Twitter
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“Lave” is perhaps the most fanfiction word I know, like I’m genuinely not sure I’ve *ever* encountered it outside of fanfiction and novels written by fanfiction authors
words in a published romance novel intimate scene that immediately make me ring the ‘i know what you are’ bell: mewl, croon, keen, lave, syrupy, intrusion
If you want the opposite of this, I recommend Helen DeWitt’s books! She does not spoon feed you
also this book suffers from what im going to call "anime syndrome" in that any potential place for subtlety, nuance, and trusting your reader is replaced with a hammer of TELL DONT SHOW

please.....i beg you......i am picking up what you're putting down 😭😭
Or this comment about a Dutch woman who was approved for medical aid in dying due to depression, despite being physically healthy. The commenter implies that being tall is one of the top three reasons this woman should find her life worth living!
That said, I have noticed people being oddly fixated on height in contexts besides heterosexual dating as well. For example, I saw a lesbian couple explaining how they chose their sperm donor (from a sperm bank), and they only mentioned like two things about him, one of which was that he’s tall.
4. Correlation with other desired traits. e.g. being tall is correlated with higher income, so people may subconsciously perceive tall men as wealthy.
3. Many people (including queer people) find contrast attractive/appealing in a partner (e.g. butch/femme lesbian relationships). A significant height difference is a type of contrast.
2. Cis people’s version of gender dysphoria. Being tall makes many women feel unfeminine, and being short makes many men feel emasculated. (Compare to, say, having acne, which might make you feel unattractive but not in a particularly gendered way.)
I think it’s a number of reasons:

1. Cultural pressure on women to be small. Having a tall partner makes you feel small in comparison.
Wild Nights with Emily
2025 reboot of Angels in America: “Why is democracy failing in America?”
With the assumptions in place, the main event: why are people distrustful of democracy?

Put simply: because they're told to distrust it. They're told it's betrayed them, that it's failing. That's why people are becoming disillusioned—& it's why some support parties who say so. But WHO'S SAYING IT?
I imagine it’s more like, they *say* (and genuinely believe) that they don’t want you dead, but they also vote for candidates who run on policies that will increase your risk of dying.
Even if you don’t pick up on the child abuse, he’s still a kid grieving the death of his brother! Imagine if you knew a 16yo in real life whose little brother died. If adults kept complaining that this 16yo was “whiny” bc he was sad about his brother, you’d think they were sociopaths.
This is why I roll my eyes when people try to gotcha SF/F authors with stuff like “Why does Gideon say ‘That’s bananas’ when there are no bananas in the Ninth House?”
I don't know why I didn't realize before now that "pipe dream" is a drug reference
I feel the same but about the word CLITIC
Okay, New York Times Spelling Bee, I'll make you a deal. Let's each put in a hundred bucks every time you don't recognize the perfectly legitimate word TONTINE, and then whichever of us lives longest gets it.
My hometown had a teen suicide epidemic. We didn’t need to be warned about it, we lived it before we were old enough to vote. If someone had said, “Hey, the rest of your life will be like this,” I might have felt like I didn’t want to be around to experience it.
People love to say that being single gives you so much freedom, and I’m sure in some ways that’s true, but it also creates logistical difficulties around everything from accessing health care to what kind of clothes you can wear.
This morning when I was in the coffee shop waiting for my order a woman came up to me and asked if I could do up the button on the back of her shirt because she lives alone and doesn't have anyone to help her

It made me kind of sad but also glad that I could do a small nice thing for a stranger
Tangent: this is also how I feel about consent education. Like, it’s good and we should do it, but also, in many cases, it’s not that rapists don’t *understand* that you didn’t consent, it’s that they don’t *care* that you didn’t consent. In some cases they even *enjoy* that you didn’t consent.
I saw someone ask for recommendations of books about queer characters getting divorced, and someone replied, “It’s not about queer characters and it’s not about divorce, but I recommend XYZ.” The respondent had clearly read & understood the request, they just chose to ignore the parameters.
I wonder to what extent it’s actually people not *understanding* the post and to what extent it’s people simply choosing to ignore what the post actually said in favor of going off about their personal hobbyhorse
so one of the things I’ve started to realize with having a notable following On Here is exactly how much of a reading comprehension problem we have in this country
The Last Samurai by Helen DeWitt (2000)
My wife questions the wisdom of introducing a two year old to Spinoza, but how else is she to master Hegel? Kindergarten is only a few years away
When I was 14 and starting to realize that I wasn’t straight, I read a middle-aged lesbian’s MySpace post about how she was happy to be gay, and it made me feel like I could be okay.
To me, “eldest daughter” implies that the daughter is the first-born child, whereas “oldest daughter” implies that she is the oldest of the daughters but may have an older brother.
Then why does Norway have a lower fertility rate than the U.S.?
Even artificial wombs wouldn’t be a silver bullet for birth rates though—you still need to get the gametes from somewhere, and egg retrieval is an invasive procedure, and someone still has to raise the kids.
Lady Bird Johnson died in July 2007 which means she could have used an iPhone in the last two weeks of her life
you ever think about those real weird overlaps. like tennessee williams might have listened to the ramones