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Lisa Rabey. I said what I said.
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😍 AKA heroineinabook
🖊️ w/a Scarlet McAdams
💻 Nerd Girl Industries
📚 Mercenary librarian
📍 Michigander for life
✌🏻 Bipolarist
💁🏻‍♀️ Kiera Knightley is my favorite Elizabeth Bennet

https://lisarabey.com
I'm stupidly excited b/c in 31 days, Mr. Lisa and I are going to (mainly) Eastern Europe and on a cruise down the Danube. I'm bringing my pleather pants (which I've incorporated into my daily wardrobe) b/c every time I've been to EU, wearing (p)leather pants was a *thing* and I want to be a *thing*.
February 17, 2026 at 8:02 PM
JFC ALA. My membership is up on March 31. They have been sending a deluge of email since early January for their $55 (my membership fee).

I got three "reminders" in early January in the same week and I responded with a "Can we not be obnoxious on the reminders?" Then it was crickets. Now this.
February 17, 2026 at 2:23 PM
Facts. ❤️
February 16, 2026 at 2:22 AM
I'm leaving the socials for the day I think before I burn some shit down.
February 15, 2026 at 2:06 PM
My ire is up about the male species because I'm watching Love is Blind US S10 (just dropped) and the women want to be moms and housewives. They have literally said they want to be subservient. The men are all like "LOOKING TO BREED AND HAVE A FOOTBALL TEAM." It's just so gross.
February 15, 2026 at 2:02 PM
This is "Judith Slaying Holofernes" (1620) by Artemisia Gentileschi.

Whenever I get my ire up against the male species, this image gets plastered all over my digital world. Wallpaper, social media, etc.

But, even over 500 years later, her work gets confused with Caravaggio and is misattributed.
February 15, 2026 at 1:46 PM
Watching S10 of Love Is Blind US and we have gone back 70 years of women’s rights. You do you I GUESS but there is much more out there than being a housewife.
February 15, 2026 at 1:52 AM
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Happy Valentine's Day from Excessively Diverting!
February 14, 2026 at 3:18 PM
We have a very old Google appliance in our kitchen that is only good for acting as a clock, timer, dad jokes, and weather reports. With the latest OS update, we changed its voice to a posh British female. It sounds better hearing our shit weather report when it comes from a posh British female.
February 11, 2026 at 10:08 PM
I know he had been struggling with his health for a few years so this is sad. :(
Actor James Van Der Beek, best known for the teen drama series "Dawson's Creek," has died at the age of 48.

"Our beloved James David Van Der Beek passed peacefully this morning," his family wrote in a statement on Instagram. "He met his final days with courage, faith, and grace."
February 11, 2026 at 10:06 PM
Oh god yes to all of this. We've got a gaslighter and abuser (Rochester), incel (Heathcliff) and idiot (Romeo). If you believe these are love stories, we need to adjust your meds and have a long talk about healthy relationships.
Please see also:
Wuthering Heights
Jane Eyre
Romeo and Juliet
Just saw a list of books that give "swoon worthy Valentine's Vibes." How many times must we point out that Anna Karenina, about a woman who throws herself in front of a train because of a fuck boy - is NOT a romance. Article adds disclaimer about the methodology. *sigh*
February 11, 2026 at 10:00 PM
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I spent two years writing this book, and now it’s out in the world! Happy book birthday to REBEL OF THE REGENCY; I hope you love it!

Pick up a copy at your local bookstore or shop the links at rebeloftheregency.com
February 10, 2026 at 11:52 AM
I was heading to meet a friend for lunch when an older model truck that has seen better days had “justice for men” spray painted on it. Sure.
February 10, 2026 at 9:21 PM
In this issue of A Most Unreliable Narrator: Fandoms, the Winter Olympics, and Thursday the Pug. Read more 👉🏻 open.substack.com/pub/amostunr...
👩🏻‍💻 A Most Unreliable Narrator Issue #230 🔥I'm the tea you'll be having
When will I have my pinnacle?
open.substack.com
February 8, 2026 at 4:37 PM
Watching the 1930 film The Divorcee (based off of Ursula Parrott's 1929 novel, Ex-wife). While the term "gaslighting" was coined in 1944, I'm watching Ted gaslight his wife Jerry over her discovery of his affair. Ted literally said, "It didn't mean anything." Not much has changed in 96 years!
February 7, 2026 at 10:20 PM
Mr. Lisa and I are going to be in (mainly) Eastern Europe for two weeks at the end of March. I need to learn how to say "Hello" and "Thank You" in German, Slovak, Hungarian, Czech, and Croatian. HELLO MANGO LANGUAGES! (Brought to you by my local library.)
February 7, 2026 at 6:36 PM
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Apologies in correcting you, and being that person, but it is widely considered that the Scots invented curling, with evidence of curling stones from the early 16th c.
February 7, 2026 at 3:18 PM
How is Canada in fourth place? They invented curling!
February 7, 2026 at 3:09 PM
Watching GBR v USA in curling and GBR is ahead by one. Go Brits!
February 7, 2026 at 3:04 PM
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February 7, 2026 at 10:45 AM
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i think we all need to step back and realize that peak art was made when neolithic pot in the shape of a pig was fired
February 6, 2026 at 7:46 PM
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I do want to shout-out my fellow sociologists, who have collectively created a discipline so woke that not a single one of our introductory textbooks can make it past Florida's censors.

Great work everyone.
February 6, 2026 at 3:00 PM
This is the first weekend in months I didn't need to set an alarm, have an appointment, or be somewhere. Thursday & I lazed abt until 8:30, she did her thing, and now I'm drinking coffee and eating Pop Tarts while I work on some pleasure projects. (Unfortunately, Mr. Lisa is on call this weekend. 😔)
February 7, 2026 at 2:55 PM
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this is so funny, god bless louise lucas, Hero of the Commonwealth
February 7, 2026 at 2:20 PM
I will say this about being a #NFFC fan: at least we are not West Ham.
February 7, 2026 at 12:47 AM