Kate, Queen of the Squirrels
@pavlovcat.bsky.social
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She/her. Michigander, AuDHD - Living with POTS, MCAS, celiac, & perimenopausal rage. Fuck fascists. Free Palestine. Your 1 stop shop for TMI, soap box diatribes, native plant nerdery, cats, and cross-stitch. I only repost images with alt-text.
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🌱🌿 Five Things You Can Do To Save the Butterflies:

1. Stop using pesticides and herbicides (unless you're trying to manage aggressive invasive species). Everything else I list will be designed to attract life to your yard and that's pretty pointless if you kill them after they arrive.
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Halloween is coming to the spooky forest 🦊
A fox walking into a magical foggy forest.
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Day 12 of #Birdtober is the gyrfalcon! I love birds of prey, but I do not know why I insisted on doing all these feathers and such a difficult angle tonight. 😅 I’m happy with it though!

#BirdArt #SciArt #birds #illustration #DigitalPainting #Procreate #DailyChallenge #ArtChallenge #BirdOfPrey
A digital painting of a creamy gyrfalcon from slightly below and to its side. It looks over at the viewer. Its wings are spread and their pattern can be seen underneath. One eye glints in the sun which shines from our left. The feathers are mottled in white and darker brown spots in sweeping lines across body and wings.
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Who’s stitching something spooky for Halloween? 🐈💀🎃 If you’re in the mood for stitching something full coverage with a touch of creepy-cute, this is perfect for you!
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#HalloweenCrossStitch #SpookyCrossStitch #CrossStitch #HalloweenCrafts #HomemadeHalloween
A cross stitch of a grey tabby cat wearing a witches’ hat, with a pumpkin and skull at her feet. The design is in autumnal colours.
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Last call for the Steller's Jay and feather bookmark patterns!

These designs will be archived early 10/15 to be replaced by a new, seasonal design. Now is the sweet spot to join! $6 bucks for these and a gabillion other patterns. www.patreon.com/c/badstitch
#CrossStitch #StitchSky #StellersJay
A round, orange trinket tray with a cross stitch bottom shows a steller's jay perched on a oak branch that is turning with the autumn season.  A bright blue and black feather bookmark rests next to the trinket tray.  There are small items staged around the tray and bookmark, such as some beaded bracelets, some berries, and a folded pocket knife. Last Call. BAD Stitch.
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Did you stitch that over one on linen?
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Thank you! Owl Forest has such charming patterns and beautiful flosses.
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Moving the qsnap. I might change the colors on the two little butterflies. I'll wait to finish everything else first but they seem to stick out a bit at this point.

#CrossStitch
A partially finished cross stitch showing a fox wearing a dress and making tea in a cozy underground room. There's a cellar full of mushrooms hung up to dry that are being nibbled by mice. Vines  of flowers create a border outside of the burrow and two crows walk on top of the burrow. Several butterflies are flying around the flowers.
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It's finally starting to cool down here but the drought won't break. Most of the state has 0% soil moisture.
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Help Kerry get a medical service pupper!!
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ok confession time

I’ve been in the ICU for most of the last week & I’m struggling so so so hard

the doctor has suggested I
get a dog to help me, but I cannot afford the cost of a hypoallergenic dog, let alone the cost of a service dog

do we think this is even worth the attempt to fundraise? y/n
Me in the ICU
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I'm feeling a little stabby today, I admit.
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Mine seem to happen right before I get my period. Apparently bleeding out of a single orifice isn't enough.
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I just sneezed and a nose bleed erupted. That got real ugly for a second.

Perimenopause can fuck all the way off.

Honestly. Dealing with it along with chronic illness is like being attacked by fire ants while you have the flu.
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Me: I'm holding myself back again while husband is in this season of personal growth. My fire's gone back out.

Me a few days later: Hey, this thing you did felt bad to me.

Husband: DARVO

Me: Ah yes, I see nothing has changed in the way you relate to me. Fantastic.
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respond appropriately. They tell themselves it's not actually that hot or that the pain they're feeling is a sign they need to toughen up. The injury from the hot pan ends up more severe as well as a long term injury to their nervous system from training it not to respond to pain.
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I like the analogy of touching a hot pan. The externalizer responds immediately and strongly, sometimes causing damage to things or people around them. The long term consequences are having to repair damage and possibly shame about not being in control of the response.

The internalizer does not
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I'm sure there will be future weird dreams that are related. My subconscious is doing its own shadow work and uses dreams to provide progress updates.
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I went from 11 ct. aida to 40 ct. linen because I'm afflicted with a similar form of delusion. Now 40 ct. is my favorite, so it worked out!
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Have had a bit of a hiatus with my needlework for health reasons and it's been months since I felt well enough to pick up a project.

But today, I finally finished my #blackwork from @loosethreadstitch.bsky.social
Photograph of a blackwork embroidery depicting a stem of pink and white orchids, with green buds at the top of the stem. The blackwork is stitched on deep green Aida fabric.
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I love that fabric and I'm sorry for your loss.
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I've stitched three gifts and hated every minute. Somehow women especially have had it drilled into their heads that even their hobbies should benefit other people.

Now I only stitch for me.
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Lol. It was out of character for mine.