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Miss Pearl 🍁

@omisspearl.bsky.social

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Find me at omisspearl.com Author, blogger, dominant and occasionally community (dis)organizer. I talk about lifestyle femdom and stuff. Often I tilt at windmills. No, I will not be your dominant. (she/they) 18+ posts may occur.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · Sep 6

New blog post is live!

"The Unbearable Submissive Ego Of Domme Songs"

www.omisspearl.com/nonfiction/t...

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 6h

Copy just arrived!

Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 10h

*enthusiastic waving*

Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 11h

Do I know anyone attending Charmed next year?

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Loutre Fantôme 🔞 @loutrefantome.bsky.social · 13h

This is for the edging prompt of kinktober (more like bondage prompt but idc). Claude has reached a new level of cuteness here 🤤

Two colored drawings of Claude tied with blue ropes.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 14h

Because you demonstrate that being the pro porn expert in public spaces gets you massive violence, career destructive stigma and your publishers betray you.

Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 14h

Because the people who are getting fucked over by these bans are usually several flavours of marginalized and precarious. Consumers generally feel they will always be able to pirate titty and resent paying for the same reason they resent paying farm labour or childcare.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 14h

Furthermore tolerance of the internet being for porn depended on the Internet being an obscure, heavily male coded and wealthier space. It duplicates the old rules about the OG Greek/Latin erotic texts not being as censored as the translations.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 14h

Our brief period of freedom existed in a general free speech bubble we mistook for linear left wing progress. And in reality that was very fragile and unevenly applied. Earlier eras still stigmatized sexy. Nudes were seen as shameful to the subject photographed.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 14h

Because most people are deeply uncomfortable talking about sexuality in terms of a product with a price tag, and because the conversation is completely captured by the belief porn is an addictive vice. Massive social bias. Even kink communities espouse anti porn rhetoric.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 15h

Back from the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival Halloween thing. Fun seeing people dress, up, but one of those occasions when it helps to know more people. Otherwise you are just sort of vibing in a big, loud crowd.

Lots of happy couples/poly clusters.

Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 15h

No confirmed Paladin yet, though serious guards remain helpful. No background femdom either, though Swordheart and Nettle And Bone had serious vibes, but it's not clear if this heroine will get a love interest.

Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 15h

Lest you think spotting familiar beats is a criticism, I enjoy writing English sonnets because the rigid structure forces creativity. Kingfisher has their touchstones, but this is like attending the symphony and going "Uhgh, brass instruments and violins. Groundbreaking."

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 15h

Part way into Hemlock and Silver. It's got the usual highlights so far:

There is a mid life stage woman of hearty build (and some discomfort about this) helping a young girl from an insidious growing peril. Horses are dubious, chickens and plants are detailed.

It's a comfort read.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 15h

@strainedsilver.bsky.social it you

MissDomme @missdomme.bsky.social · Aug 14

This would be my first instinct <3 what about you? And do you want a sequel? ;)

Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 16h

Delightful!

Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 1d

Would you feel more comfortable if you had a helper equivalent to your level of celebrity, or would the fact that you need a protective detail at all serve as a deterrent to enjoying yourself?

Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 1d

But I think we *do* need to acknowledge that the "men are beasts" version of feminism implicitly dovetails into the SWERF and TERF parts. And the consistent habit "women as pure victims" advocates have of making alliances with more overtly misogynistic groups.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 1d

Gender essentialism never goes well, even when you think you are doing it reactively and defensively.

Similarly the "men can't experience sexism" effort to stop bad faith derails misses sexism injures everyone. You don't need to water down your momentum to acknowledge that.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 1d

I don't like the "misogyny is a problem, but misandry is not" argument, because it supposes the two beliefs exist in opposition to eachother as some sort of universal men VS women competition. Except I have never seen someone sincerely into hating men who wasn't also a raging misogynist.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 2d

I actually think the weird merkin thongs everyone is scoffing at are kind of a neat edgy thing in the context of a world that aggressively denudes pubic hair.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 2d

The fact that my YouTube is stuffed with 23 to 40 year old nice ladies selling me on their autumn resets, fall morning routines, harvest adventures, equinox witch cleansings, etc.... makes this delightfully on point.

Frost || 3D Models & Reviews @3dfrost.bsky.social · 2d

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3D render of a bedroom in orange and brown tones. There are a few pumpkins plus five dildos in shades of purple and pink.

Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 2d

Quebec is so good at this, isn't it?

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 3d

A merkin.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 4d

Rather than contradicting you, what context is the money here being used?

Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 4d

One of my favorite parts of the CBC is a significant portion of it are quirky, interesting human interest stories. They cover the big shit too, but the tone is always "and this is what that means, that's why people are concerned". And I feel like surprise falling fish stories are to help keep calm.

Tealin @twirlynoodle.com · 4d

Meanwhile, in Canada: www.cbc.ca/news/canada/...

'Scared the heck out of me': Falling fish smashes Sask. woman's windshield | CBC News

Of all the things that could smash a car’s windshield in Saskatchewan, a fish that fell from the sky is pretty low on the list of likely suspects. But that’s what happened to Marie Ahlstrom when she w...

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