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Lady Victoria NYC ✨🕯️✨
@ladyvictorianyc.ch
NYC Dominatrix for the Discerning Deviant👌😈 In-person since 2015, now playing online only👩🏼‍💻

For playtime 😈🪄:
SextPanther.com/LadyVictoriaNYC
LoyalFans.com/LadyVictoriaNYC

How I train mine IRL 🧘‍♀️:
Patreon.com/TheLVAcademy

Links 🔗:
campsite.bio/LadyVictoria
Wishing a very happy 100th birthday to Dick Van Dyke! 🎉

This 1995 photo by Annie Leibovitz for Vanity Fair with his TV wife Mary Tyler Moore sparks such joy in me 👌😈

May we all be so lucky as to be this frisky and sexy at 70, and cracking jokes on our 100th birthday with no aches or pains ✨🙏✨
December 14, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Happy December ✨🕯️✨

While you're working so hard to make sure everything is taken care of this month, make sure you take care of yourself, too!

You know what they say;

'All work and no play can make you go insane' 🤪

or maybe people don't actually say that, but yet it's so true 🤔
December 13, 2025 at 4:09 PM
Happy Thursday Off to so many of my fellow Americans! ✨♥️✨

Happy Thanksgiving to those who celebrate 🦃

Balancing hard work with rejuvenating play is so vitally important! ⚖️

If you've got A Long Day ahead or have been working too hard lately, you deserve a treat 👌😈

SextPanther.com/LadyVictoriaNYC
November 27, 2025 at 3:51 PM
Can I just say that I'm loving the sexy, smart guys that call me to pre-game dates and satisfy super high sex drives? 🥰

Lets go wild and dive into your deepest, darkest kinks, satisfying that primal drive that might otherwise have you too preoccupied to hear what she's saying 💋

On: Th & Sa 8a-1p
November 22, 2025 at 4:42 PM
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"Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter what fork you use."~ Emily Post
November 6, 2025 at 10:14 PM
Of all the happy posts this morning, I think my favorite is this one where you can hear my hometown cheering 👌🥹

Together, we have the power to protect our world from fascism 💪😼

When my health stabilizes, I’m volunteering to do comms work for @indivisible.org to do my part for the resistance ✨🙏✨
This person took this when they called the race
November 5, 2025 at 3:10 PM
I wish I knew as a newbie sex worker that my birthday would turn into 'boundary pushing day' 🚩💡🚩

Now Lady Victoria celebrates her birthday on April 22nd instead of near my November original.

It's never ok to stiff or shortchange a professional. A birthday is not 'everyone gets free attention' day.
November 4, 2025 at 4:00 PM
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A gentle reminder as we move into the end of the year holidays (and my birthday 🥳) season!

Holiday check ins with any type of service provider are only appropriate if coupled with an appointment request and/or gift notification.
November 4, 2025 at 2:59 PM
Discovering @skeletorinspires.bsky.social has been such a treat today 👌😁

I scrolled back two months and am loving what I see so far 😻👍
November 3, 2025 at 6:37 PM
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For non sex workers:
If you're still using twitter can you share your reasoning in the comments?
November 3, 2025 at 5:54 PM
If someone doesn’t consider my feelings, wants, and needs before interacting with me,

it’s not safe for me to let that person in past my professional boundaries 🙅🏼‍♀️

I prefer respectful patrons who mind boundaries over those who want to be ‘more’ but give no thought to me, my happiness, or wellbeing.
November 3, 2025 at 2:01 PM
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Take a deep breath.
Today is for worship, reflection, and gratitude. Honor the goddesses who guide, discipline, and inspire you.
• Send A tribute •
A tribute is more than a gift—it’s how you say thank you for her existence, her power, her grace.

• Goddesses- link your wishlists in the comments •
November 2, 2025 at 1:22 PM
It's 'trick or treat' season 👻🍭

I love seeing my toys break out their naughtiest tricks to treat me to kinky entertainment 👌😈

It’s also the season of trying on new personas & playing in character; exploring what other roles feel like ✨💃🧎

8a-1p EST Thurs & Sat: SextPanther.com/LadyVictoriaNYC
October 30, 2025 at 3:03 PM
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Any of us who’ve been around for a bit have horror stories regarding personal service. “The lifestyle” has a tendency to hide and dismiss advocacy for accountability in many cases.

It’s refreshing to see threads like this, as, “just vet better” isn’t a solution.
Accepting personal service as a Domina comes with some serious risks.

Money has never stalked me. Money has never assaulted, raped, robbed, or murdered a woman.
Money has never sent me to the hospital with damage to the esophagus after a sub mixed bleach with other chemicals.

Money is safety.
October 28, 2025 at 1:56 PM
I wish I knew as a newbie that predators & parasites would try to convince me that a ‘real Domme’ would labor for free like a slave 🤦🏼‍♀️

Seeking out newbies because the experienced won’t tolerate their behavior is the very definition of a predator, imo.

Money is the safest way to receive service 💰👍
Any sub out here trying to shame “rookie” Dommes into not accepting money as a form of service is not to be trusted idc.

I’m so tired of these old farts getting on the internet & proclaiming they know what BDSM is & isn’t.
October 27, 2025 at 8:56 PM
Love this! ✨🖤✨

I feel like if people understood how much labor is involved in being a good partner to another person,

and that 90% of a relationship is outside of the dungeon/bedroom,

people who are honestly just looking for sexy times would find seeing pros to be the most logical path forward 💡
Unsurprisingly, as someone who spent a decade in a service relationship, I have some strong opinions on 'service' :)

I totally agree that 'service' is well defined as 'being of use to the dominant' (yes I'm coming from a D/s background, if that doesn't fit your identity, use a different word)
IMO, ‘service’ means making someone’s life easier or taking tasks off of their to-do list.

I’ve yet to hear one example for how a person could make my life easier or tackle my to-do list long distance that doesn’t involve money 🤔

Real service is about meeting needs as they really are in real life.
October 25, 2025 at 11:33 PM
Following ‘FemDom’ accounts that appear to be created by a man with absolutely no input from any woman can be fascinating 🧐

I think they’re contributing to the unrealistic expectations that have subs effectively looking for women willing to provide free sex work 🤔

Which of course they don’t find.
October 23, 2025 at 11:27 AM
My cam hours Thursday, October 23rd are canceled ❌

I’ll be back Saturday the 25th 💋💋💋
October 22, 2025 at 9:45 PM
'Tis the perfect season to revel in being a bewitching Lady luring sweet things over to the kinky side 💋💋💋

Let's play with those desires that you just can't deny 🔥😈🔥

I'm online for video calls Thursdays & Saturdays 8am-1pm EST

Come find me if you feel called 😘
SextPanther.com/LadyVictoriaNYC
October 16, 2025 at 4:27 PM
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One of the benefits of sessioning with a ProDomme is that it can provide a clean container for your D/s desires that does not impact the rest of your life.
October 14, 2025 at 8:21 PM
Cam hours are canceled today, Saturday October 11th, due to flu-like symptoms 🤒🤧
October 11, 2025 at 10:08 AM
While I’m not online tonight and probably won’t be tomorrow,

My friend @thevillainelle.bsky.social will be 😈👍
I’ll be taking calls today & tomorrow for pervs who want to serve.
October 10, 2025 at 8:59 PM
Scheduling heads-up:

•My Patreon update & correspondence are delayed
•I may cancel tomorrow’s cam hours.

I got Novavax & flu shots last week, now I’m sneezing up a storm & feel like I have the flu 🤧🤕🤒

It was made to fight JN1, which was dominant when I fell ill, so I’m hoping it’s a good thing🤞🍀🙏
October 10, 2025 at 6:11 PM
I disagree with the idea that ‘Money is not service’ 🤔

Money happens to be the only way to serve my real life needs right now as a hermit who doesn’t see people in-person 🤷🏼‍♀️

Those who take care of me financially are doing the most valuable service they could possibly do for me at this time ✨🙏✨
Money is not service
October 8, 2025 at 2:22 PM
Does anyone know of a way to see posts from *all* of our friends?

I keep up with the ‘Mutuals’ feed most days, yet I’m missing posts by friends who are following me back 🤔

Please tell me there’s a trick to it 🍀

For now, I appreciate how the notifications for posts feature is neatly organized 👌
October 8, 2025 at 11:19 AM