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Mistress Jadis Ives

@msjadis.bsky.social

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⛓️Sydney Dominatrix⛓️ 🔥The Empress Elemental 🔥 🔥Sadist & Sovereign🔥 Bespoke BDSM experiences for Kink Connoisseurs 🪞 https://www.msjadis.com/

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 12d

Inspiring and seducing in Sydney
Thursday 9th (Fully Booked)
Friday 10th (Fully Booked)
Saturday 11th (Available)
Sunday 12th (One Spot left)

Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 13d

My job? Well, it involves both inspiring and seducing consent.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 11h

Do we think she's going to be a good Doll for me? feat @athiedoll.bsky.social

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 1d

Heading home this morning after a very busy couple of days! I'm not 100% sure when I will be available again (estimating 4-6 weeks). If you want to be the first to know sign up to my newsletter here. thankful-mode-23696.myflodesk.com/bvg9b6ppn7

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 1d

It's certainly been a great couple of days Sydney! Suspensions, beatings, knife play, soundings, vac beds, body bags and edging galore. Love this for me and all the subs I shared it with. 🖤

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 2d

Thanks!

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It's going to be!

Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 2d

Desire is vulnerability. Your D/s relationship is the perfect place for that vulnerable desire to flourish. Sure, playing it cool is safe, but yearning is it's own reward.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 3d

I sense tradwife corruption role play in my near future.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 3d

Something I don't hear much about in the "gatekeeping in Professional BDSM" conversation is that what is behind the "gate" often is the time, energy, emotional labour, spaces and personal possessions of experienced Dommes... and we are people not just "resources" to be consumed.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 3d

A safe container enables harder, edgier play. People will go further for you when they trust you and feel seen by you.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 4d

Oh we love to tear a fuck hole in fishes. Also sharp knife and slow fishnet cutting is a sensory delight.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 4d

A moment of appreciation for cutting off subs clothes with a hunting knife. 🔪

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 5d

Good Morning Sydney! All set for a busy day of play. I'm very close to booked out for this tour but I do have some shorter spots available over the weekend.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 5d

I'm talking about less experienced Dommes telling me that they don't get requests for more niche or heavier activities.

Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 5d

A lot of subs do feel conflicted about their submissive desires. Being able to play with a Domme who is comfortable, confident and delights in their submission can be very helpful in resolving these inner conflicts.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 6d

Haute! There's nothing like translucent natural for sheer kink factor. 🔥🔥

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 6d

"I don't get requests for that." Me neither. I built relationships (sometimes over years), expanded trust levels and planted seeds, and now I get to do it!

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 7d

I really want to make one of you little piggies roll in this. 🤭🐽🐖

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 7d

subs don't just agree to obey, they want and need to.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 8d

Finding those thresholds.....
feat @athiedoll.bsky.social

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 9d

I don't craft a lot of "persona" around myself as a Domme, because I want my subs showing up to submit to Me, not to some projection of what a Domme should be.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 10d

This is why communication is essential, AND taking the time to get to know your sub's typical reactions before moving towards heavier play.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 10d

There are common themes, but everyone processes pain differently. Some people can look and feel very peaceful while they're processing the most intense sensations, while others have more dramatic reactions.

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peterpenitent.bsky.social @peterpenitent.bsky.social · 11d

Curvy, charismatic and classy, Mistress Jadis clearly combines confidence and competence - a creative and compassionately cruel curator of captivity and cadenced castigation complemented by cackles.

Commended to those craving a carmine caboose courtesy of classic corporal correction.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 11d

or to convert the booking into a double with a more experienced peer. Another option for requests that are not viable is to create a roleplay that captures the emotional resonance of the request without the physical risk.

Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 11d

In some cases, you may be able to modify aspects of the request to bring the risk profile down to a more acceptable level. Some requests may be beyond our personal skill set; in such cases, it’s our responsibility to refer the client to a peer better suited to fulfil it,

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