Grunkle Harm
@harmcox.bsky.social
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Midwestern writer, movie watcher, perv about town. He/him. Here for fun. Trans himbo. I don't DM. Contact me via email. Writing lives on my site: harmcox.ghost.io. Venmo is @harmcoxrules.
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harmcox.bsky.social
Hello new friends! I'm Harm Cox and I'm a transmasc culture writer that loves horror movies and porn.

I just got laid off from my last reliable gig so your subscriptions and donations mean the world to me. If you want to support trans folks, here I am 🙏
Apocalypse From Now On
The apocalypse is new to some of you. For queer people, it's been here a while. Who wants to die for art?
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harmcox.bsky.social
*pounds on the table* THIS MAN IS CORRECT
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owenbrazas.bsky.social
Did Screaming Mad George do the effects and/or make-up?

If so, the film is worth your time.
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lillywachowski.bsky.social
it is disorienting when you lose someone who you navigate your life to, like a star blinking out of the night sky.
a life lived in fearlessness, she carved out space for so many of us.
an amazing woman.
check out this doc by some of my pals.
Watch MAJOR! Online | Vimeo On Demand
The award-winning documentary "MAJOR!" follows the life and campaigns of Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, a Black transgender elder who has been fighting for…
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harmcox.bsky.social
dude, my kingdom for a locking single-seat bathroom, every bathroom should provide this luxury
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... oh my god now I cannot unsee it
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my current best intention is to be there, if my anxiety plays nicely that day I would love to see you there!
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translash.org
We honor the legacy of Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, a fierce protector of our collective freedom. Our hearts are with her loved ones and all who carry her vision forward.

"We will honor Miss Major forever." - @imarajones.bsky.social
An illustration of Miss Major surrounded by candles with blue background and a famous quote of hers written in gold. The quote reads“I don’t need their permission to exist; I exist in spite of them. I want you to train and teach and love on and create families within my community and gender non-conforming people, so that we can understand that we have a culture, we have a history, we have a reason to be here. We have a purpose. We’re entitled to be loved, and seek happiness, and share that with the people that we care about.” -Miss Major Griffin-Gracy
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thetransfemininereview.com
Reading Miss Majors Speaks was an incredibly moving experience last year. I can't recommend this book enough for those unfamiliar with her work.

Rest in peace 🖤
Miss Major Speaks Conversations with a Black Trans Revolutionary by Toshio Meronek and Miss Major
harmcox.bsky.social
There is no piece of literature with inherent universal value; you should read widely and develop your own canon. Zines about building a DIY dick pump out of a bike repair kit mean more to me culturally and are more relevant to my life than Walden, and I'm good with that.
rachelfeder.bsky.social
Tell me your most unhinged literary opinion, as a little treat
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discoelysiumbot.bsky.social
KIM KITSURAGI - “You need to get your shit together.”

YOU - “But I don't wanna get my shit together!”

KIM KITSURAGI - “Then the world will turn away from you, and leave you behind.”
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toomanymouths.bsky.social
reading theory and knowing queer history is important because it will keep you from relitigating the most rancid discourse the 1970s had to offer really, really badly
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I love FROM BEYOND so much I did a whole horny photo shoot about it and have written several essays about it's delightfully accidental horny kinky queerness; strong recommend you check this one out! harmcox.ghost.io/photo-galler...
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A Franklin's gull at Montrose Beach
A Franklin's gull walks on sand. A Franklin's gull stands on sand near water, with a ring-billed gull in the background. A Franklin's gull flies over sand.
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I don't really like gender-segregated spaces as a trans person. They always involve a judgment call as to who is allowed to be somewhere, it is always based on appearance, and there's always someone who has not processed their internalized bigotry who can't wait to police the boundaries. I'm good.
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harmcox.bsky.social
OH SHIT I FORGOT THIS WAS TODAY THANK YOU SO MUCH
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jamiroqueer.bsky.social
it’d be bad timing today, but if you haven’t seen this one you should. Remarkable, brilliant work that goes places Woody Allen never had the space for
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Today on the blog, I consider Scott Thompson's support for Graham Linehan and what it means for me as a transmasculine comedy fan who worshipped Buddy Cole back in the day. What do trans folks do when our heroes let us down? We find ways to cope. harmcox.ghost.io/death-to-sco...
Death to Scott Thompson, Long Live Buddy Cole
It feels fitting to leave Thompson behind in the graveyard he made for Cole to vamp in. The evil that men do live after them, the good is oft interred with their bones. So let it be with Scott Thompso...
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anagerm.bsky.social
this is so fucking good ahhhhh
harmcox.bsky.social
Today on the blog, I consider Scott Thompson's support for Graham Linehan and what it means for me as a transmasculine comedy fan who worshipped Buddy Cole back in the day. What do trans folks do when our heroes let us down? We find ways to cope. harmcox.ghost.io/death-to-sco...
Death to Scott Thompson, Long Live Buddy Cole
It feels fitting to leave Thompson behind in the graveyard he made for Cole to vamp in. The evil that men do live after them, the good is oft interred with their bones. So let it be with Scott Thompso...
harmcox.ghost.io
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kmellifera.bsky.social
As yet another icon lets us down, this essay is a perfect reflection
harmcox.bsky.social
Today on the blog, I consider Scott Thompson's support for Graham Linehan and what it means for me as a transmasculine comedy fan who worshipped Buddy Cole back in the day. What do trans folks do when our heroes let us down? We find ways to cope. harmcox.ghost.io/death-to-sco...
Death to Scott Thompson, Long Live Buddy Cole
It feels fitting to leave Thompson behind in the graveyard he made for Cole to vamp in. The evil that men do live after them, the good is oft interred with their bones. So let it be with Scott Thompso...
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harmcox.bsky.social
thank you for being a reliable second pair of eyes AND picking my favorite pull-quote ♥️
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toomanymouths.bsky.social
this essay is brilliant and heartbreaking and sharp as a fucking razor and everybody should go read it immediately
I could not come up with a better epitaph than that. Because whether Scott Thompson likes it or not, I’m one of the fags that loved his work back in the day. And I’m also disgusted by fags debasing themselves by trying to become respectable, especially when it’s an old bitter queen like Scott. He can cry about being censored by the left all he likes, but that’s a meaningless stance when you’re carrying water for the Trump administration. There’s only one faggot in this conversation who agrees with the President of the United States, and it sure as hell ain’t me.
harmcox.bsky.social
Today on the blog, I consider Scott Thompson's support for Graham Linehan and what it means for me as a transmasculine comedy fan who worshipped Buddy Cole back in the day. What do trans folks do when our heroes let us down? We find ways to cope. harmcox.ghost.io/death-to-sco...
Death to Scott Thompson, Long Live Buddy Cole
It feels fitting to leave Thompson behind in the graveyard he made for Cole to vamp in. The evil that men do live after them, the good is oft interred with their bones. So let it be with Scott Thompso...
harmcox.ghost.io
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