From my book: Domme Chronicles: Erotic tales of love, passion, & domination.  [...]

Étienne is the most lovely man. I always think of him as a calm and zen-like presence who brings thought, experience and gentle reason to many discussions both here on my blog and on Fetlife. I am delighted that he chose to share his story. Thank you, Étienne. Author: Étienne I was just getting out of a horrible, [...]

Random things, no context. I’m piloting that potpourri right into a herd of puppies!! THIS IS YOUR FAULT!! And no, really, a cock is a boy-handle, if you want to get technical Vs dressed up as if your partner is a box of stupid and everyone wants to own the box of stupid Because the internet is all your fault? [...]

My second Masocast interview is live (the first is here)!!  Edited to add: All of my Masocast interviews can be found here (yes, I did more :)). A wonderfully sweet benefactor offered for-real moneys to ask me some very interesting and thoughtful questions, I spill my guts, laugh a lot, and blather more, and the lovely Axe pretends he isn’t just talking to me for the money! [...]

Yesterday I had a second voice call with the sex-voiced Texan. Early afternoon my time, 8pm his time. “So that you get to bed at a reasonable hour,” I said (our last call was 4.5 hours long). When I call him, his webcam flickers. He beams at me with his killer smile. I never asked him to turn his cam on but I love watching him when we talk. [...]

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I have a morning routine that I stumble through every day while my brain is hardly even awake. It doesn’t vary unless there is an external reason for it. My extreme love of this habit is slightly disconcerting because comfort in routine seems like it could become quite obsessive.  I wake up, and take stock. Half asleep still.  [...]

Laying back in the bathtub, having my hair washed and conditioned, strong fingers massaging my scalp while I close my eyes and think of others. ___ I see myself as an indelible mark on those I’ve loved, stronger and deeper probably, than what is really there because my imagining is borne out of arrogance and ego, and yet I think it’s true, [...]

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In 2012, I asked for photos showing the beauty of submissive men in all their many and varied forms. My goal was to gather these anonymous photos and produce something beautiful with them, something that shows the glorious diversity and beauty of submissive men, all stunningly different and unique. I received over a hundred different kinds of photos and I used them to create this tribute: I thought it was worth reposting. Submissive men: A celebration of beauty.   [...]

I don’t have a fear of flying. I have a fear of failure. My fear of failure is so great that I couldn’t bear to put the word ‘failure’ in the title. Telling, no? I genuinely believe that this fear impacts a lot of aspects of my life. Both in my past and in the present. I am envious of those who have that fear, [...]

“This toy makes me want to fuck”. It does. Kneel here. Get it wet. Let’s get started.  My traditional birthday nude is neither traditional nor nude. I’m okay with it. Wish me a happy birthday, click ‘like’ so I know you’ve strap-onned (is SO a word, and no I don’t mean ‘strapped-on’) with me. Oh, and send me presents.  [...]