Dr. NerdLove
@doctornerdlove.com
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February 13, 2026 at 1:47 AM
Now Live on Patreon: he keeps hearing about how "the bar for men is in hell". If that's the case, then why are guys like him still struggling to meet women?
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February 12, 2026 at 11:49 PM
Now Live on Patreon: he keeps hearing about how "the bar for men is in hell". If that's the case, then why are guys like him still struggling to meet women?
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It's Podcast Launch Day! Do As We Say, Not As They Did has gone LIVE with our first episode! Come listen as Dr. Liz Powell and I talk about dating, AI and how you can cheat on a chatbot.
Find us on youtube at: youtu.be/eHdL78cAI7w... or Spotify at open.spotify.com/sho...
Find us on youtube at: youtu.be/eHdL78cAI7w... or Spotify at open.spotify.com/sho...
Ep 1. Three AI Chatbots Walk Into a Couple’s Retreat
Would you trade in your human partner for an AI chatbot?
In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O’Malley discuss the hilarious highs and unnerving lows of human-AI relationships chronicled in Wired Magazine. As capital H AI-Haters, Harris and Dr. Liz talk about
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February 11, 2026 at 11:45 PM
It's Podcast Launch Day! Do As We Say, Not As They Did has gone LIVE with our first episode! Come listen as Dr. Liz Powell and I talk about dating, AI and how you can cheat on a chatbot.
Find us on youtube at: youtu.be/eHdL78cAI7w... or Spotify at open.spotify.com/sho...
Find us on youtube at: youtu.be/eHdL78cAI7w... or Spotify at open.spotify.com/sho...
From The Archives: How Do I Ask My Friend If He’s Still In Love With Me?
How Do I Ask My Friend If He's Still In Love With Me?
Her best friend revealed he had feelings for her at an awkward time in her life. Now things have changed... but is it too late to give it a try?
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February 12, 2026 at 9:30 PM
From The Archives: How Do I Ask My Friend If He’s Still In Love With Me?
From The Archives: Help, I Just Discovered My Fiancé Is Already Married!
Help, I Just Discovered My Fiancé Is Already Married!
She was looking for her wedding… until she found out her fiancé was hiding a secret family. Now he's left his wife, but is it time for HER to leave HIM?
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February 12, 2026 at 5:31 PM
From The Archives: Help, I Just Discovered My Fiancé Is Already Married!
Watching Heated Rivalry and I keep seeing so much of Shorsey in this that it's kinda disconcerting.
(And I SWEAR that's Anik I keep hearing in various interviews, which isn't helping...)
(And I SWEAR that's Anik I keep hearing in various interviews, which isn't helping...)
February 12, 2026 at 4:24 PM
Watching Heated Rivalry and I keep seeing so much of Shorsey in this that it's kinda disconcerting.
(And I SWEAR that's Anik I keep hearing in various interviews, which isn't helping...)
(And I SWEAR that's Anik I keep hearing in various interviews, which isn't helping...)
NEW COLUMN: She passed on amazing job opportunities to move in with her boyfriend. Now she's having doubts. Did she make the right choice?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Gave Up An Amazing Job Opportunity To Be With My Boyfriend. Now I’m Afraid I Made A Mistake!
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Gave Up An Amazing Job Opportunity To Be With My Boyfriend. Now I’m Afraid I Made A Mistake!
I Gave Up An Amazing Job Opportunity To Be With My Boyfriend. Now I'm Afraid I Made A Mistake!
She passed on an amazing career opportunity to move in with her boyfriend. But now she is in constant conflict with his brother. Did she make a huge mistake?
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February 12, 2026 at 3:26 AM
NEW COLUMN: She passed on amazing job opportunities to move in with her boyfriend. Now she's having doubts. Did she make the right choice?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Gave Up An Amazing Job Opportunity To Be With My Boyfriend. Now I’m Afraid I Made A Mistake!
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Gave Up An Amazing Job Opportunity To Be With My Boyfriend. Now I’m Afraid I Made A Mistake!
It's Podcast Launch Day! Do As We Say, Not As They Did has gone LIVE with our first episode! Come listen as Dr. Liz Powell and I talk about dating, AI and how you can cheat on a chatbot.
Find us on youtube at: youtu.be/eHdL78cAI7w... or Spotify at open.spotify.com/sho...
Find us on youtube at: youtu.be/eHdL78cAI7w... or Spotify at open.spotify.com/sho...
Ep 1. Three AI Chatbots Walk Into a Couple’s Retreat
Would you trade in your human partner for an AI chatbot?
In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O’Malley discuss the hilarious highs and unnerving lows of human-AI relationships chronicled in Wired Magazine. As capital H AI-Haters, Harris and Dr. Liz talk about
youtu.be
February 11, 2026 at 11:45 PM
It's Podcast Launch Day! Do As We Say, Not As They Did has gone LIVE with our first episode! Come listen as Dr. Liz Powell and I talk about dating, AI and how you can cheat on a chatbot.
Find us on youtube at: youtu.be/eHdL78cAI7w... or Spotify at open.spotify.com/sho...
Find us on youtube at: youtu.be/eHdL78cAI7w... or Spotify at open.spotify.com/sho...
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Extra! Extra! 📢 Our first episode is live, and it’s a doozy! Join @drlizpowell.bsky.social & @doctornerdlove.com, as we dig into one journalist’s surreal experience on a weekend getaway with three AI chatbots and the people who love them.
Listen now on all platforms, or use the link in our bio! 🎧
Listen now on all platforms, or use the link in our bio! 🎧
February 11, 2026 at 9:41 PM
Extra! Extra! 📢 Our first episode is live, and it’s a doozy! Join @drlizpowell.bsky.social & @doctornerdlove.com, as we dig into one journalist’s surreal experience on a weekend getaway with three AI chatbots and the people who love them.
Listen now on all platforms, or use the link in our bio! 🎧
Listen now on all platforms, or use the link in our bio! 🎧
From The Archives: Does My Friend Want Me, Or Is She Just Playing Games?
Does My Friend Want Me, Or Is She Just Playing Games?
His friend is sending mixed signals. She keeps saying and doing suggestive things but doesn't want to date. Is she into him or is she just playing games?
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February 11, 2026 at 9:29 PM
From The Archives: Does My Friend Want Me, Or Is She Just Playing Games?
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Hugo nominations are now open! I'll talk more about my overall eligibility when I'm not actively working (I am stealing these words from today's task), but I wanted to highlight my Best Series eligibility.
Nominations are now open for the 2026 Hugo Awards!
Emails are going out to eligible nominators (those who became a member of LAcon V by January 31, 2026, or were a member of the Seattle Worldcon 2025) about how to set up their LAcon V virtual convention account.
Emails are going out to eligible nominators (those who became a member of LAcon V by January 31, 2026, or were a member of the Seattle Worldcon 2025) about how to set up their LAcon V virtual convention account.
February 11, 2026 at 7:39 PM
Hugo nominations are now open! I'll talk more about my overall eligibility when I'm not actively working (I am stealing these words from today's task), but I wanted to highlight my Best Series eligibility.
From The Archives: My Partner Keeps Breaking My Heart Because He Doesn’t Know How Polyamory Works…
My Partner Keeps Breaking My Heart Because He Doesn't Know How Polyamory Works...
He thought her being poly meant that she would always be available when he was single again. How can she stop getting hurt by men who don't get non-monogamy?
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February 11, 2026 at 6:32 PM
From The Archives: My Partner Keeps Breaking My Heart Because He Doesn’t Know How Polyamory Works…
I'm torn between standing in line for the bathroom at a bar with Ryan Reynolds or switching out on the lat pulldown machine at the gym with Ethan Hawke...
What is YOUR most mundane celebrity encounter?
Belle and Sebastian asked me to hold the elevator for them at a Holiday Inn in Paris, after a gig...
Belle and Sebastian asked me to hold the elevator for them at a Holiday Inn in Paris, after a gig...
February 11, 2026 at 5:45 PM
I'm torn between standing in line for the bathroom at a bar with Ryan Reynolds or switching out on the lat pulldown machine at the gym with Ethan Hawke...
"Tina, I have Overwatch, do you have eyes on Tango 1?"
"Confirmed Overwatch, Tango 1 in sight"
"Fire and confirm"
"Overwatch, negative, there's a civilian in the way, no shot, I repeat NO clear shot"
"Tina, this is CentCom Actual. We have no other choice, TAKE THE SHOT."
"God forgive me..."
"Confirmed Overwatch, Tango 1 in sight"
"Fire and confirm"
"Overwatch, negative, there's a civilian in the way, no shot, I repeat NO clear shot"
"Tina, this is CentCom Actual. We have no other choice, TAKE THE SHOT."
"God forgive me..."
February 11, 2026 at 5:42 PM
"Tina, I have Overwatch, do you have eyes on Tango 1?"
"Confirmed Overwatch, Tango 1 in sight"
"Fire and confirm"
"Overwatch, negative, there's a civilian in the way, no shot, I repeat NO clear shot"
"Tina, this is CentCom Actual. We have no other choice, TAKE THE SHOT."
"God forgive me..."
"Confirmed Overwatch, Tango 1 in sight"
"Fire and confirm"
"Overwatch, negative, there's a civilian in the way, no shot, I repeat NO clear shot"
"Tina, this is CentCom Actual. We have no other choice, TAKE THE SHOT."
"God forgive me..."
NEW COLUMN: She passed on amazing job opportunities to move in with her boyfriend. Now she's having doubts. Did she make the right choice?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Gave Up An Amazing Job Opportunity To Be With My Boyfriend. Now I’m Afraid I Made A Mistake!
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Gave Up An Amazing Job Opportunity To Be With My Boyfriend. Now I’m Afraid I Made A Mistake!
I Gave Up An Amazing Job Opportunity To Be With My Boyfriend. Now I'm Afraid I Made A Mistake!
She passed on an amazing career opportunity to move in with her boyfriend. But now she is in constant conflict with his brother. Did she make a huge mistake?
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February 11, 2026 at 5:12 PM
NEW COLUMN: She passed on amazing job opportunities to move in with her boyfriend. Now she's having doubts. Did she make the right choice?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Gave Up An Amazing Job Opportunity To Be With My Boyfriend. Now I’m Afraid I Made A Mistake!
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Gave Up An Amazing Job Opportunity To Be With My Boyfriend. Now I’m Afraid I Made A Mistake!
Incidentally, if you're not finding us on Apple Podcasts , you can add us manually! In the iOS app, go to “Library” on the bottom row of icons, hit “edit” on the top right, and select “Add a Show by URL…” and add the RSS feed URL: feeds.libsyn.com/608340/rss
February 11, 2026 at 4:43 PM
Incidentally, if you're not finding us on Apple Podcasts , you can add us manually! In the iOS app, go to “Library” on the bottom row of icons, hit “edit” on the top right, and select “Add a Show by URL…” and add the RSS feed URL: feeds.libsyn.com/608340/rss
It's Podcast Launch Day! Do As We Say, Not As They Did has gone LIVE with our first episode! Come listen as Dr. Liz Powell and I talk about dating, AI and how you can cheat on a chatbot.
Find us on youtube at: youtu.be/eHdL78cAI7w... or Spotify at open.spotify.com/sho...
Find us on youtube at: youtu.be/eHdL78cAI7w... or Spotify at open.spotify.com/sho...
Ep 1. Three AI Chatbots Walk Into a Couple’s Retreat
Would you trade in your human partner for an AI chatbot?
In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O’Malley discuss the hilarious highs and unnerving lows of human-AI relationships chronicled in Wired Magazine. As capital H AI-Haters, Harris and Dr. Liz talk about
youtu.be
February 11, 2026 at 3:45 PM
It's Podcast Launch Day! Do As We Say, Not As They Did has gone LIVE with our first episode! Come listen as Dr. Liz Powell and I talk about dating, AI and how you can cheat on a chatbot.
Find us on youtube at: youtu.be/eHdL78cAI7w... or Spotify at open.spotify.com/sho...
Find us on youtube at: youtu.be/eHdL78cAI7w... or Spotify at open.spotify.com/sho...
Today's morning startup music:
Metal Gear May Cry (Remastered) ~ Metal Gear Solid 2: Sons of Liberty (OC Remix)
A Metal Gear Solid 2: Sons of Liberty OverClocked Remix
Remixers: Jared Hudson
Song: 'Metal Gear Solid' Main Theme
http://www.ocremix.org/remix/OCR00690/
This isn't mine.
NOTE: Add &fmt=18 at the end of this video URL to improve the quality of the audio and image (Recommended).
Enjoy!
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February 11, 2026 at 3:06 PM
Today's morning startup music:
I want y'all to remember they said this when we hit the nutmaxxing episode...
It's here!!! Watch @doctornerdlove.com and I torture each other with some of the worst examples of dating we've found on the internet!
But seriously, I love Harris so much and I'm so happy to be hanging out with him, cringing, laughing, and saying stuff that's hopefully occasionally smart.
But seriously, I love Harris so much and I'm so happy to be hanging out with him, cringing, laughing, and saying stuff that's hopefully occasionally smart.
My new podcast with @drlizpowell.bsky.social, Do As We Say, Not As They Did debuts TOMORROW on YouTube, Spotify and everywhere you get your podcasts! You can watch us at www.youtube.com/@DoA..., so don't forget to like and subscribe!
February 11, 2026 at 2:50 PM
I want y'all to remember they said this when we hit the nutmaxxing episode...
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It's here!!! Watch @doctornerdlove.com and I torture each other with some of the worst examples of dating we've found on the internet!
But seriously, I love Harris so much and I'm so happy to be hanging out with him, cringing, laughing, and saying stuff that's hopefully occasionally smart.
But seriously, I love Harris so much and I'm so happy to be hanging out with him, cringing, laughing, and saying stuff that's hopefully occasionally smart.
My new podcast with @drlizpowell.bsky.social, Do As We Say, Not As They Did debuts TOMORROW on YouTube, Spotify and everywhere you get your podcasts! You can watch us at www.youtube.com/@DoA..., so don't forget to like and subscribe!
Do As We Say, Not As They Did - YouTube
Real Talk About Love, Sex, & Poor Decisions
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February 11, 2026 at 2:31 PM
It's here!!! Watch @doctornerdlove.com and I torture each other with some of the worst examples of dating we've found on the internet!
But seriously, I love Harris so much and I'm so happy to be hanging out with him, cringing, laughing, and saying stuff that's hopefully occasionally smart.
But seriously, I love Harris so much and I'm so happy to be hanging out with him, cringing, laughing, and saying stuff that's hopefully occasionally smart.
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What is it like to have an AI partner? What's the deep lore of how this real doctor and fake doctor became friends? Which one of us can make the other cringe harder?
Ep 1. Three AI Chatbots Walk Into a Couple’s Retreat
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
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February 11, 2026 at 2:34 PM
What is it like to have an AI partner? What's the deep lore of how this real doctor and fake doctor became friends? Which one of us can make the other cringe harder?
Fuck it I’m gonna make a hot honey goat cheese sauce and put it on a sweet potato the size of my biceps.
February 11, 2026 at 12:51 AM
Fuck it I’m gonna make a hot honey goat cheese sauce and put it on a sweet potato the size of my biceps.
Now Live on Patreon: She had amazing career opportunities... and passed on them to move in with her boyfriend. Now she's butting heads with his family and her boyfriend is never taking her side. Now she's wondering: did I make a huge mistake?
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February 11, 2026 at 12:13 AM
Now Live on Patreon: She had amazing career opportunities... and passed on them to move in with her boyfriend. Now she's butting heads with his family and her boyfriend is never taking her side. Now she's wondering: did I make a huge mistake?
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My new podcast with @drlizpowell.bsky.social, Do As We Say, Not As They Did debuts TOMORROW on YouTube, Spotify and everywhere you get your podcasts! You can watch us at www.youtube.com/@DoA..., so don't forget to like and subscribe!
Do As We Say, Not As They Did - YouTube
Real Talk About Love, Sex, & Poor Decisions
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February 10, 2026 at 10:56 PM
My new podcast with @drlizpowell.bsky.social, Do As We Say, Not As They Did debuts TOMORROW on YouTube, Spotify and everywhere you get your podcasts! You can watch us at www.youtube.com/@DoA..., so don't forget to like and subscribe!
From The Archives: I Want To Be Happy For My Crush, But I’m Still Sad They’re Dating Someone Else!
I Want To Be Happy For My Crush, But I'm Still Sad They're Dating Someone Else!
They've got a crush on their close friend, but their friend has started dating someone else. How can they get over the jealousy and be happy for them instead?
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February 10, 2026 at 9:30 PM
From The Archives: I Want To Be Happy For My Crush, But I’m Still Sad They’re Dating Someone Else!