Cat B
@frijolesluvr.bsky.social
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Always in pain, always grumpy. Late thirty-something year old parent, artist, organizer, just trying get through the day. they/them
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It’s funny, because after he said that I could actually pick up on a tobacco leaf-like quality I hadn’t before. And I do love that cigar and pipe tobacco smell. Still took me by surprise though, lol.
I just sprayed on some chocomusk and my spouse said it smelled like a honey-vanilla cigarillo 🥲

He rarely comments on what I wear but the chocomusk seems to grab his attention the most. Usually he thinks it’s cookies baking but this is the first time I’ve gotten cigarillo from him. #perfumesky
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I know this is kind of knit picking, but as someone who was a cradle tradcath, thank you for specifying “right wing Catholic” instead of shifting the blame to “convert” tradcaths. Because this kind of brain rot is much deeper than anything that can be blamed on fringe converts.
Anyway….did you know a drink called “cazuela” is served in an actual cazuela?

The more you know 🌈✨
For a moment I thought I was really starting to like it and then I realized on one wrist it was overlapping a bit with the chocomusk I sprayed on the night before. So I do think I could put this to good use layering with some gourmands to give it a real dirty, unsettling funk! #perfumesky
#sotd was “Dark Circus” from Amorphous. This is definitely a challenging perfume (as advertised!) The opening was very reminiscent of an old, rubbery used bandaid. Eventually this faded back (thank God) and I got a lot of dirty hay stomped into damp earth. Hint of popcorn.
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SWOP had its bank accounts closed by Chase — sound familiar? — and now the people who do the work can’t be paid.

We can’t get their bank account back, but we can get Phoenix, who spends so much of their life organizing mutual aid for others, able to meet bills this month.

$phoenixcalida
So.

Im mostly okay

I will be asking for somewhere between 200-300 in the next few days because I habe bills to pay

$phoenixcalida

And omg I buried the lede

Our org had all funding suspended so I can't access my money until we get a new bank
(We have a new. Just waiting on paperwork)
Reptile and amphibian people: how is Repticon? It’s coming to Atlanta this weekend and while I absolutely do not plan to buy anything, I’ve been thinking about getting my kid tree frogs in the future and wanted to scope out future breeders and vivarium supplies.
Yes they *are* both bad, you’re right, but even the natural crystals that don’t leech anything dangerous in the water still don’t look good to me. I think the crystals look better on a shelf or desk and leave the cool rocks and sticks to the aquariums.
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the push to stop regular people, especially women and queer people, from talking about sex and expressing ourselves sexually is unreal and it's v much in line with this attempt to make big tech companies the only ones allowed to monetize erotica. It is enclosure of the sexual body and mind.
When we write or draw porn or erotica, we get banned from having a bank account and our livelihoods get seized even if we give it away for free.

When billionaires steal what we've written or drawn to churn out a slop-approximate of porn, they're allowed to charge for it.
Oh good, ChatGPT is getting "erotica for verified adults" later this year
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When we write or draw porn or erotica, we get banned from having a bank account and our livelihoods get seized even if we give it away for free.

When billionaires steal what we've written or drawn to churn out a slop-approximate of porn, they're allowed to charge for it.
Oh good, ChatGPT is getting "erotica for verified adults" later this year
My aquarium hot take is I don’t think crystals look good in tanks 🙈
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The homes Israeli hostages return to VS the homes Gazans return to

The is no going back to “normal” for them. They are now living in a rubble ridden hellscape while the western world moves on, pretending it didn’t fund and approve this.
I haven’t resolved it fully but keeping up with magnesium, vitamin d, and fish oil really helps. My brain fog is horrible without fish oil. For insomnia having 3mg of melatonin about an hour before bed helps.
It’s really a luck of the draw! Every now and then you might find a rare fresh batch at a gas station.
Israel’s idea of a “ceasefire”
🔴 In the past 24 hours, Gaza’s Health Ministry reported an additional 63 killed (60 of whom were recovered from the rubble) and 39 injured arriving at hospitals.

This brings the recorded death toll from the Israeli genocide in Gaza to 67,869 and 170,105 injuries (likely 3-5x higher).
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"You make the best of it all and hope you can help make it a little better for the gurl after you."

- Miss Major, 2023 💔
Every now and then I give into the craving but it’s never as good as I remember, definitely better suited to kid tastebuds.
#sotd is “Circus of Shadows” from Amorphous. I appreciate that this is a Halloween fragrance without the usual Halloween notes. Opens like a fresh bag of circus peanuts, that stiff marshmallow with an “edible flavoring oil” orange. The patchouli and palo santo bring depth and a bit of edge.
I’m so sorry people are being so shitty to you. It shouldn’t be hard to wrap your brain around the way transphobia and homophobia both contribute to the way transhet women are demonized and made to suffer. These people are choosing to be cruel and you don’t deserve that.
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if you’re cis, you probably don’t even know who miss major was and that sucks for you. you’re missing out.

it sucks for all of us that she’s gone.

her work actually *does* need to be continued. especially right now. you should help make that happen.