Bridget 🧟‍♀️ Oooo Brains
@bridgetemob.bsky.social
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Philadelphian, Chicagoan, Catholic lay minister • she | her avatar is me as a vampire, by my friend Gabriela Leskur
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bridgetemob.bsky.social
If you pray for the dead, please say a prayer today for my father, Michael O’Brien, 7/24/54 - 10/15/18.
bridgetemob.bsky.social
No matter how weird you think this PSA about a universal phone charger is going to be, I promise you: it is weirder.
johnhyphen.bsky.social
i always like to remind people that the european commission's (admirable) push for one common phone charger is also what gave us one of the most batshit bananas pieces of political communication i have ever seen in my life
bridgetemob.bsky.social
One of the many things I value about our music director is that while we are rightly known for excellent music, Music Director is very firm that it is not a performance & has formed the choir to back off when the congregation really gets into singing; a real “they must increase; we must decrease.”
bridgetemob.bsky.social
It was very sad to me that BY FAR the most angry responses from strangers I’ve ever received on here was when I suggested that an expectation that all journalism be no-paywall is not actually a good stance to take.
daralind.bsky.social
This is a real “or barbarism” situation.

Value the work you wish to reward. With dollars and clicks and attention and time. Or suffer the consequences of the world you’ve built.
brendelbored.bsky.social
Pay people you like on the internet folks, it’s going to be rough out there
bridgetemob.bsky.social
Love you so much friend.

(and like you & respect you.)
bridgetemob.bsky.social
Honestly just read Truly Our Sister (not @ you; @ those who might be tempted to this book).
bridgetemob.bsky.social
Etiquette in Internal Emotions, by Emily Post would be horrifying—OR WOULD IT?

(I swear if you reply to this with some “The rules are you feel what you feel!!!” nonsense I am blocking you.)
bridgetemob.bsky.social
OK ok I know it’s not healthy or even in any way possible to have published rules around the precise amount of sadness—expressed in X approved manners—you are allowed to have when a parent dies, given your age Y at their death + years Z since the death happened + N° of closeness BUT ISN’T IT?
bridgetemob.bsky.social
The person I emailed to ask if she wanted to try to be friends said yes. 🎉

Also, if we’ve never interacted & you have a burning desire to offer feedback on this, including critical feedback on the wording you imagine I, a stranger unto you, used in an email you were not party to: don’t. 🥰
bridgetemob.bsky.social
OK, I emailed them. Was our interaction too short for this to work (they spoke at a thing I attended; I thanked them for their skill; they probably do not have much of a vibe from me other than “concise and complimentary”)? Are they full up on friends? Was it weird for other reasons? STAY TUNED.
bridgetemob.bsky.social
I genuinely genuinely laughed.

Properly received, we now can see it is NOT Nestorian.
bridgetemob.bsky.social
“In a document that was not initially well received by everyone, we find a reflection that remains timely today”
bridgetemob.bsky.social
“How’d you meet the pope?”
“Oh, simple: my classmate’s aunt’s husband’s cousin went to school with him.”
bridgetemob.bsky.social
Deleted a post rather than continue to deal with the total strangers offering unsolicited drive-by advice, all of whom had usernames like CatsAgainstFascism73729264 and one of whom explicitly said “I’m quote-replying you since you made this post mutuals only.”
meme showing DW from the children’s show Arthur standing in front of a door with her hands on her hips. There is a sign on the door reading “MUTUALS ONLY” and the scene is captioned “That sign won’t stop me because I can’t read”
bridgetemob.bsky.social
So many people lack the reading comprehension for a text-based communication medium.
bridgetemob.bsky.social
I think the video game nerd creativity mostly goes to fanfic.

No one ask me why I say that.
bridgetemob.bsky.social
Instead of “Bridget makes new friends” (hard, scary, takes work), I would like to propose “Bridget’s friends move to Chicago” (easy for Bridget, not scary for Bridget, takes little to no work from Bridget).
bridgetemob.bsky.social
Anne are you sure you can’t do your job fully remotely and move to Chicago.
bridgetemob.bsky.social
OK, I emailed them. Was our interaction too short for this to work (they spoke at a thing I attended; I thanked them for their skill; they probably do not have much of a vibe from me other than “concise and complimentary”)? Are they full up on friends? Was it weird for other reasons? STAY TUNED.
bridgetemob.bsky.social
Truly I am just a fundamentally different kind of person than people who feel the need to offer unsolicited advice to total strangers.
bridgetemob.bsky.social
Hi! I know you’re trying to be helpful, but we don’t know one another!
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joshuaeaton.bsky.social
I’m a mammal. I should be nestled in a den of straw and moss to conserve my energy for the coming winter, not logging on to Microsoft Teams.