Xanothia 🏳️⚧️
@xanothia.bsky.social
Avid gamer, tech nerd, incredibly queer. ADHD riddled. Trans stereotype. Disabled.
Plural system host of 6.
Deeply in love with @fadedrainbows.bsky.social
Poly loves: Indy, Eloise, Abby
(Closed relationship)
28, Demigirl
She/They
Plural system host of 6.
Deeply in love with @fadedrainbows.bsky.social
Poly loves: Indy, Eloise, Abby
(Closed relationship)
28, Demigirl
She/They
Pinned
There's 6 of us (currently).
* Helios (me, the host!)
* Aelena (she/her)
* Renn (she/her)
* Altair (he/she/ask)
* Alex (she/her)
* Velrana (she/her)
It'll only ever be me posting 98% of the time, but for the other 2%, we'll tag our posts.
* Helios (me, the host!)
* Aelena (she/her)
* Renn (she/her)
* Altair (he/she/ask)
* Alex (she/her)
* Velrana (she/her)
It'll only ever be me posting 98% of the time, but for the other 2%, we'll tag our posts.
the fucking tree outside sounds like it's trying to rip open my house like me when I'm craving sodium and can't find the can opener for my olives
November 30, 2025 at 8:45 AM
the fucking tree outside sounds like it's trying to rip open my house like me when I'm craving sodium and can't find the can opener for my olives
my partner (who is a system) started laughing when we realized we were a system
they said, "YES! Now I can say "Go, talk amongst yourselves" and it's actually on point and funny!"
they said, "YES! Now I can say "Go, talk amongst yourselves" and it's actually on point and funny!"
November 30, 2025 at 8:21 AM
my partner (who is a system) started laughing when we realized we were a system
they said, "YES! Now I can say "Go, talk amongst yourselves" and it's actually on point and funny!"
they said, "YES! Now I can say "Go, talk amongst yourselves" and it's actually on point and funny!"
This is Pippin, I am his step-mom.
No, he doesn't know how to put his teefers away and yes, he's one of the most stupid cats ever, I love him
No, he doesn't know how to put his teefers away and yes, he's one of the most stupid cats ever, I love him
When you see this, skeet a pic from your gallery to describe your mental health.
November 30, 2025 at 8:18 AM
This is Pippin, I am his step-mom.
No, he doesn't know how to put his teefers away and yes, he's one of the most stupid cats ever, I love him
No, he doesn't know how to put his teefers away and yes, he's one of the most stupid cats ever, I love him
When you see this, skeet a pic from your gallery to describe your mental health.
November 30, 2025 at 8:08 AM
When you see this, skeet a pic from your gallery to describe your mental health.
I'm certain I'm not faking being plural because Aelena is such a massive sub/bottom and Renn is such a massive top/dom and both have kinks that I don't have nor want.
Yet I have to accommodate them...
Like I can't degrade my partners without feeling bad, yet Renn has claimed two of them as toys
Yet I have to accommodate them...
Like I can't degrade my partners without feeling bad, yet Renn has claimed two of them as toys
November 30, 2025 at 8:02 AM
I'm certain I'm not faking being plural because Aelena is such a massive sub/bottom and Renn is such a massive top/dom and both have kinks that I don't have nor want.
Yet I have to accommodate them...
Like I can't degrade my partners without feeling bad, yet Renn has claimed two of them as toys
Yet I have to accommodate them...
Like I can't degrade my partners without feeling bad, yet Renn has claimed two of them as toys
the body craves pizza
November 30, 2025 at 7:35 AM
the body craves pizza
am I okay to rave and rant about Sleep Token orrrr
November 30, 2025 at 7:29 AM
am I okay to rave and rant about Sleep Token orrrr
I've never actually received an unsolicited dick pic actually, mine have all been solicited
Girls, fyi the proper method is:
3 words, rating out of 10
Cishet men rarely ever look at other dicks so they don't have a basis to compare to.
If you say "was it cold? 3/10" or "ugly scrote bro 2/10" that man will not stop thinking about that for YEARS
3 words, rating out of 10
Cishet men rarely ever look at other dicks so they don't have a basis to compare to.
If you say "was it cold? 3/10" or "ugly scrote bro 2/10" that man will not stop thinking about that for YEARS
Today I got my first unsolicited dick pic.
Ew...
Ew...
November 30, 2025 at 7:22 AM
I've never actually received an unsolicited dick pic actually, mine have all been solicited
Girls, fyi the proper method is:
3 words, rating out of 10
Cishet men rarely ever look at other dicks so they don't have a basis to compare to.
If you say "was it cold? 3/10" or "ugly scrote bro 2/10" that man will not stop thinking about that for YEARS
3 words, rating out of 10
Cishet men rarely ever look at other dicks so they don't have a basis to compare to.
If you say "was it cold? 3/10" or "ugly scrote bro 2/10" that man will not stop thinking about that for YEARS
Today I got my first unsolicited dick pic.
Ew...
Ew...
November 30, 2025 at 7:20 AM
Girls, fyi the proper method is:
3 words, rating out of 10
Cishet men rarely ever look at other dicks so they don't have a basis to compare to.
If you say "was it cold? 3/10" or "ugly scrote bro 2/10" that man will not stop thinking about that for YEARS
3 words, rating out of 10
Cishet men rarely ever look at other dicks so they don't have a basis to compare to.
If you say "was it cold? 3/10" or "ugly scrote bro 2/10" that man will not stop thinking about that for YEARS
the fact that all the bullies who called me "gay" and "faggot" were right pisses me off
I am a gay lil faggot dammit
I am a gay lil faggot dammit
November 30, 2025 at 7:10 AM
the fact that all the bullies who called me "gay" and "faggot" were right pisses me off
I am a gay lil faggot dammit
I am a gay lil faggot dammit
I'm 28, have a wife, and share 3 other partners with her
I've never downloaded a single dating app or even signed up to a dating website
Either I'm extremely lucky or somehow actually a good person and attractive
Well I'm a trans girl so you can't convince me I'm attractive... you can try though!
I've never downloaded a single dating app or even signed up to a dating website
Either I'm extremely lucky or somehow actually a good person and attractive
Well I'm a trans girl so you can't convince me I'm attractive... you can try though!
November 30, 2025 at 7:00 AM
I'm 28, have a wife, and share 3 other partners with her
I've never downloaded a single dating app or even signed up to a dating website
Either I'm extremely lucky or somehow actually a good person and attractive
Well I'm a trans girl so you can't convince me I'm attractive... you can try though!
I've never downloaded a single dating app or even signed up to a dating website
Either I'm extremely lucky or somehow actually a good person and attractive
Well I'm a trans girl so you can't convince me I'm attractive... you can try though!
I will say though, discovering each headmate has shone a new light on our trauma each time.
I would have never considered these aspects of our trauma had I never realized I was a system.
I would have never considered these aspects of our trauma had I never realized I was a system.
November 30, 2025 at 5:01 AM
I will say though, discovering each headmate has shone a new light on our trauma each time.
I would have never considered these aspects of our trauma had I never realized I was a system.
I would have never considered these aspects of our trauma had I never realized I was a system.
She's been around since we were 7. Until Sep 22 of this year she was a formless bundle of personality traits, wants, and ideals that was influencing my life from the shadows.
The night of my syscovery they all chose Aelena (the OC) as their form.
Every other headmate has operated similarly.
The night of my syscovery they all chose Aelena (the OC) as their form.
Every other headmate has operated similarly.
Introjection is weird
Aelena is an OC of mine, well, was.
Now she just lives in my head, talks to me, talks to others, thinks, feels, wants.
Brains are wild.
Aelena is an OC of mine, well, was.
Now she just lives in my head, talks to me, talks to others, thinks, feels, wants.
Brains are wild.
November 30, 2025 at 4:57 AM
She's been around since we were 7. Until Sep 22 of this year she was a formless bundle of personality traits, wants, and ideals that was influencing my life from the shadows.
The night of my syscovery they all chose Aelena (the OC) as their form.
Every other headmate has operated similarly.
The night of my syscovery they all chose Aelena (the OC) as their form.
Every other headmate has operated similarly.
I feel a little odd as a system because:
* we don't dissociate
* we all thought share
* we all memory share
* we're co-fronting/co-conscious together at all times
It's really hard to find systems who operate similarly so it's a little lonely
* we don't dissociate
* we all thought share
* we all memory share
* we're co-fronting/co-conscious together at all times
It's really hard to find systems who operate similarly so it's a little lonely
November 30, 2025 at 4:51 AM
I feel a little odd as a system because:
* we don't dissociate
* we all thought share
* we all memory share
* we're co-fronting/co-conscious together at all times
It's really hard to find systems who operate similarly so it's a little lonely
* we don't dissociate
* we all thought share
* we all memory share
* we're co-fronting/co-conscious together at all times
It's really hard to find systems who operate similarly so it's a little lonely
Introjection is weird
Aelena is an OC of mine, well, was.
Now she just lives in my head, talks to me, talks to others, thinks, feels, wants.
Brains are wild.
Aelena is an OC of mine, well, was.
Now she just lives in my head, talks to me, talks to others, thinks, feels, wants.
Brains are wild.
November 30, 2025 at 4:48 AM
Introjection is weird
Aelena is an OC of mine, well, was.
Now she just lives in my head, talks to me, talks to others, thinks, feels, wants.
Brains are wild.
Aelena is an OC of mine, well, was.
Now she just lives in my head, talks to me, talks to others, thinks, feels, wants.
Brains are wild.
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“autism awareness” but the autism awareness i had growing up just told us about the existence of autism and the fact that autistic ppl are different. if they had taught us anything about autism, i wouldn’t have spent the first 22 years of my life thinking something was wrong with me w/o diagnosis +
November 29, 2025 at 8:04 PM
“autism awareness” but the autism awareness i had growing up just told us about the existence of autism and the fact that autistic ppl are different. if they had taught us anything about autism, i wouldn’t have spent the first 22 years of my life thinking something was wrong with me w/o diagnosis +
Aelena really needs to hear this yet I know she'll never listen...
I have to admire her tenacity.
I have to admire her tenacity.
You're not a rehab.
Stop trying to fix people.
Stop trying to fix people.
November 30, 2025 at 4:14 AM
Aelena really needs to hear this yet I know she'll never listen...
I have to admire her tenacity.
I have to admire her tenacity.
growing up autistic means people don't think you know how to do basic things
we do but everybody wants it done in their highly specific way that they never told you so you stop trying
we do but everybody wants it done in their highly specific way that they never told you so you stop trying
November 30, 2025 at 4:00 AM
growing up autistic means people don't think you know how to do basic things
we do but everybody wants it done in their highly specific way that they never told you so you stop trying
we do but everybody wants it done in their highly specific way that they never told you so you stop trying
As a girl of some flavor of bisexuality who identifies as a lesbian, I am both of these.
"Yay girls are the best, and unfortunately, I like dudes."
"Yay girls are the best, and unfortunately, I like dudes."
Every lesbian I know is like yay girls are the best, and every straight woman I know is like sigh, unfortunately I like dudes.
Understandable, really.
Understandable, really.
November 30, 2025 at 2:19 AM
As a girl of some flavor of bisexuality who identifies as a lesbian, I am both of these.
"Yay girls are the best, and unfortunately, I like dudes."
"Yay girls are the best, and unfortunately, I like dudes."
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people who believe polyamory is too complicated can’t be doing monogamy well.
November 29, 2025 at 11:01 PM
people who believe polyamory is too complicated can’t be doing monogamy well.
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alters living rent free in my head
November 28, 2025 at 6:59 PM
alters living rent free in my head
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Something i kinda dislike of porn is when the body type is changed... like...
Pearl from SU for example. She is really skinny and non-curvy. And i think bodies like hers also deserve to be appreciated the way they are, i dont like seeing her w big boobs, even tho i do adore big tatas
#Vent
Pearl from SU for example. She is really skinny and non-curvy. And i think bodies like hers also deserve to be appreciated the way they are, i dont like seeing her w big boobs, even tho i do adore big tatas
#Vent
November 28, 2025 at 3:57 PM
Something i kinda dislike of porn is when the body type is changed... like...
Pearl from SU for example. She is really skinny and non-curvy. And i think bodies like hers also deserve to be appreciated the way they are, i dont like seeing her w big boobs, even tho i do adore big tatas
#Vent
Pearl from SU for example. She is really skinny and non-curvy. And i think bodies like hers also deserve to be appreciated the way they are, i dont like seeing her w big boobs, even tho i do adore big tatas
#Vent
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Ok so I already sleep in my glasses what happens if I sleep in my ears too
November 29, 2025 at 5:46 AM
Ok so I already sleep in my glasses what happens if I sleep in my ears too
@pluralpridehub.bsky.social I've been discovered!
November 29, 2025 at 3:38 AM
@pluralpridehub.bsky.social I've been discovered!
@profanity.accountant how much I cuss yo
November 29, 2025 at 3:35 AM
@profanity.accountant how much I cuss yo