Tobjorn
torbjornr.bsky.social
Tobjorn
@torbjornr.bsky.social
Software Developer by day, anxiety developer by night. He/Him.
The context collapse is so real. Part of it is definitely that with social media people have lost the line between what they're saying to Their People and what they are just shouting in public.

But also, of course, Attention!!, and the promise of linking old posts to Prove You Knew™ later on.
November 25, 2025 at 10:53 PM
Continuing evidence of the Unified Dillin Lovability Theory. ❤️
a close up of a man 's face with the words " don 't give me hope "
Alt: Sad Hawkeye in the rain, saying "Don't give me hope."
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November 25, 2025 at 10:51 PM
"Vote Populist No Matter Who!"
There's coherence to American politics, the mistake is that people keep looking for an *ideological* coherence rather than the coherent personality behind the incoherent ideology...
November 25, 2025 at 10:43 PM
Foq voice: "Yes darling and *I* love *your* good taste!"
November 25, 2025 at 10:37 PM
This is their whole thing, I fear. Crimes are bad not because of harms or severity, but because they break the social rules of uniformity. So "you did treason and also you didn't even keep your gig line straight" makes perfect sense, it's two ways you broke their order, the harm doesn't factor in.
November 25, 2025 at 10:33 PM
Apparently they didn't deactivate/delete... they just detached/blocked Ify so the thread wouldn't show - someone else linked to it in replies.

I wish more people just would withhold their "I just know there's SOMETHING, the VIBES are OFF" takes. Vibes are such a common refuge of subconscious bias.
November 25, 2025 at 10:30 PM
"The best prototype was to do absolutely nothing to prove the concept we were selling, do it self-destructively, in a way that could never possibly scale."

This... this is the opposite of prototyping. You're proving that a human can take notes in a meeting. That's already a thing we know works!
November 25, 2025 at 10:23 PM
Oh, man, the moment software engineers think they can dabble in the realm of any accredited engineer, things get FASCINATING...
(And I say this as a life-long software engineer/codepenter/module mason/developer. Self-aggrandizement in the field is STRONG)
November 25, 2025 at 10:17 PM
I haven't even met him in person, and I just KNOW he's a extremely lovable guy.
November 24, 2025 at 1:41 AM
... don't look at me like that, SOMEONE had to.
November 24, 2025 at 1:37 AM
Only when life has become untenable do you seek out the Fae, because the encounter will change everything. Their motives are incomprehensible, the results are unreliable, you cannot guess WHAT the change will be, but there WILL be change.
November 24, 2025 at 1:25 AM
November 22, 2025 at 9:27 PM
Exactly. The way I think about it is, your immediate visual/physical attraction is largely a hindbrain, instinct response, and that part of your brain does *not* understand things like power dynamics. It's up to the *other* parts of your brain to process and control that initial response/input.
November 22, 2025 at 9:16 PM
"Listen, listen, Z, we're having a great time, don't let 'em ruin it, I'm not even trying to hide it that much these days, just say yes so we can keep the momentum going here!"
November 22, 2025 at 3:51 AM
"I guess he's a fan of the New Deal..."

(A+ alt description, btw, exactly conveys the appropriate contextual info... 😆)
November 22, 2025 at 3:18 AM