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Kai (he/they) on hiatus 🏳️‍⚧️
@thegrumpyenby.bsky.social
queer | transmasc enby | bi | kinky | poly | AuDHD | CPTSD | hEDS | covid conscious | serial immigrant | millennial | deeply unserious person | serious AI hater

technical program manager at @distributeaid.org

🇦🇹 in Galicia 🇪🇸 No soy expat. Soy immigrante.
Jonathan, that's two pictures, what if you've doomed us!? 😂

btw it's cool to add ALT text to pics so everyone can enjoy them 😊
August 29, 2025 at 11:46 PM
Reposted by Kai (he/they) on hiatus 🏳️‍⚧️
“Hi, my name is [your name] and I’m a constituent in [town].

“I’m calling [Sen/Rep name] to express my outrage over RFK Jr’s attacks on vaccines and public health. He’s putting our lives at risk and I ask that [Sen/Rep] work to remove him immediately.”

Call each Senator (2) + Rep!
📲 (202) 224-3121
August 29, 2025 at 10:12 PM
hell yeah 💪🏻 I'm mentally seeing the kit count on the not-yet-existing landing page go up 😆 I was working on the copy yesterday so it's on my mind ☺️
August 29, 2025 at 11:07 PM
can you explain what kinds of things people are saying? my autistic ass is literally not getting what's in between the lines here. Feel free to DM.
August 29, 2025 at 10:28 PM
that is truly wild! I must be living in a bubble. To a degree being kinky does put you in a bubble but I didn't realise it was this strong.
August 29, 2025 at 10:26 PM
I also can't parse what exactly people are taking issue with. The genders we have sex with? The tools we use (strap/no strap)? What could someone else possibly have to say about how I as a trans person fuck unless it's them I'm fucking and then they'll probably say nothing coherent at all for a bit.
August 29, 2025 at 10:25 PM
yeah, I also luckily haven't experienced that and am shocked because I didn't know that was a thing. I definitely haven't seen trans people invalidate how other trans people fuck.
August 29, 2025 at 10:23 PM
because fuck those people, and I don't mean the nice way but the cannon them into the sun way
August 29, 2025 at 10:18 PM
I read your entire thread and I'm trying to figure out (and fail) how to politely ask what the hell kind of circles you've been moving in that you've been getting this kind of bullshit. Not at all invalidating your experience, just wondering/worrying who the hell said these things to you.
August 29, 2025 at 10:18 PM