Wendy✨
@thearest.bsky.social
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Thank you, Konfusi!! 🤗
November 27, 2025 at 7:51 PM
Thank you, Konfusi!! 🤗
But trying to put on a good face and help those I can. “Breathe…..” I keep telling myself.
November 20, 2025 at 10:15 PM
But trying to put on a good face and help those I can. “Breathe…..” I keep telling myself.
Damn AK. I’m so sorry. But I want you to know I feel the same. Every. Fckng. Day. And I don’t have dreams when I sleep anymore—I have only bad dreams, nightmares, and terrors. Lots of talking in my sleep—woken up by my own crying or shouting. Feeling helpless, powerless.
November 20, 2025 at 10:13 PM
Damn AK. I’m so sorry. But I want you to know I feel the same. Every. Fckng. Day. And I don’t have dreams when I sleep anymore—I have only bad dreams, nightmares, and terrors. Lots of talking in my sleep—woken up by my own crying or shouting. Feeling helpless, powerless.
What are its pollinators? Fruit bats?
November 20, 2025 at 6:24 PM
What are its pollinators? Fruit bats?
I love this sand idea! I couldn’t believe the rhyzomes (that neighbor said was garbage and threw away—of course I did them out of the garbage bc I wanted to see what would happen)—have tons of green shoots. Maybe they will bloom/ maybe they won’t. But I’m🤞, the “garbage rhyzomes” will bloom some.
November 19, 2025 at 7:57 PM
I love this sand idea! I couldn’t believe the rhyzomes (that neighbor said was garbage and threw away—of course I did them out of the garbage bc I wanted to see what would happen)—have tons of green shoots. Maybe they will bloom/ maybe they won’t. But I’m🤞, the “garbage rhyzomes” will bloom some.
Maybe Safeway is the Publix of CA! Good flowers! I also like they have bundles of 3/$12
November 19, 2025 at 7:53 PM
Maybe Safeway is the Publix of CA! Good flowers! I also like they have bundles of 3/$12
I’m often surprised at Publix flowers and how long they last generally. The sunflowers from Publix always outperform TJ’s
November 19, 2025 at 3:45 PM
I’m often surprised at Publix flowers and how long they last generally. The sunflowers from Publix always outperform TJ’s
Same same!!! A lady at Publix taught me this years ago!!
November 19, 2025 at 3:44 PM
Same same!!! A lady at Publix taught me this years ago!!
And they last a long time, comparatively speaking
November 19, 2025 at 12:46 PM
And they last a long time, comparatively speaking
I’m Envious!! I bet yall get all the seasons—not simply 70° to 30°!!
November 18, 2025 at 8:30 PM
I’m Envious!! I bet yall get all the seasons—not simply 70° to 30°!!
I’d love to be your neighbor!!
November 18, 2025 at 8:29 PM
I’d love to be your neighbor!!
Same! It’s like a red orange street this time of year!
November 18, 2025 at 12:38 PM
Same! It’s like a red orange street this time of year!
Also, I’d mail you one if you want to see it!! Lemme know!
November 18, 2025 at 1:11 AM
Also, I’d mail you one if you want to see it!! Lemme know!
I’ll do this exactly tomorrow!! 🤞
November 18, 2025 at 1:09 AM
I’ll do this exactly tomorrow!! 🤞
We divided a huge bed/clump in August and these are the last ones I didn’t plant. Abt 10.
November 18, 2025 at 12:25 AM
We divided a huge bed/clump in August and these are the last ones I didn’t plant. Abt 10.
I’m determined to learn a monstera plant this year! Or at least 2026!
November 17, 2025 at 11:46 PM
I’m determined to learn a monstera plant this year! Or at least 2026!
I didn’t know they existed until I researched the history of the Center! And then learned there literally is a grove of Osage Orange trees in the center of town! Ive never actually taken an Osage Orange home to examine or eat it. Maybe I should research it too! But thank you for posting abt it!!
November 17, 2025 at 11:45 PM
I didn’t know they existed until I researched the history of the Center! And then learned there literally is a grove of Osage Orange trees in the center of town! Ive never actually taken an Osage Orange home to examine or eat it. Maybe I should research it too! But thank you for posting abt it!!
Does your bathroom have light?
November 17, 2025 at 10:23 PM
Does your bathroom have light?