this is an uncomfortable topic because it touches on multiple radioactive unquestionable taboos. but it must be said: every kink can be explored ethically. yes, even that one. it is, however, impossible to ethically teach someone to be terrified of their own desires & to judge the desires of others.

I had FUN designing an AOSTH Maria.

I first drafted her up for a comic I did back in late 2024 (that inspired the other art there I did for a sticker)

(Of course Ive seen this happen to non transfem doms to, i just follow a number of transfem doms who talk about it so I see their perspective a lot and its being added onto general transphobia)

Being worried theyll be acused of being abusers for, and actually being acused of or told theyll be victims of abuse once arrested, for things like being into noncon or ageplay, just writing about taboo kinks.

"Violation anxiety" yeah thats a good term. This anxiety is also weaponised like I remember as a kid my mom threatning that if I complained about her abuse id get put in the foster system with creeps whole will rape me. I also see a lot of transfems with this anxiety both ways