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Don't do that in Austria. You will be regarded with suspicion and/or verbally attacked.
You can create kindness and spread it.
December 16, 2025 at 5:42 AM
I won't manage to come out to my family this year (as was the original plan). The only family member I'll probably see until then would be my mum.

It's equally annoying and a relief as I have had so many lovely reactions from my online friends (including already using my new name) and I doubt it'll
December 15, 2025 at 5:42 AM
Why do YouTube ads have to be twice as loud as the videos I'm watching?!
Every single one of them, often enough also every couple of minutes. It's fucking annoying, especially when it's the middle of the night.
December 13, 2025 at 2:37 AM
I have an announcement - I'm a dad!

Unfortunately my previously unknown child lost their phone and has a new number but still... I'm feeling validated by the trans affirming spam SMS.
December 12, 2025 at 12:21 PM
I don't want to go to work tomorrow. That's already the 6th day in a row (including 10h shifts) and as I took a day off Saturday because I had plans where I wasn't home all day, it's basically the ninth day without rest and I'm getting overly stressed. Plus still feeling like shit since sick leave,
December 11, 2025 at 2:41 PM
Was playing with Simba with a D20 and just after I rolled a nat1 he tried to bite me and stopped playing.
Guess that fits.
December 10, 2025 at 7:15 PM
Philly just scratched me and I'm bleeding.
Not because he was particularly angry or scared but simply because he's a dick.
I didn't allow him to go out and steal Simba's dry food and he took it personally.
December 10, 2025 at 2:38 PM
Good thing Trump is mainly seen as a joke here (albeit a tragic one).
December 8, 2025 at 1:32 PM
I am the only person on the train apart from the driver.
How I love working relatively early on a holiday!
December 8, 2025 at 5:34 AM
Neighbours are fucking drumming again.
I've had a hard day and they are legally allowed to make noise for 8 more minutes. But there have been days when they did their shitty drumming way after 11pm, nearing 12am.
If that happens today, the probability of me brutally murdering them is significantly
December 6, 2025 at 8:53 PM
Since the information got out that it was my birthday yesterday, here's a funny story to complement it:

My grandmother called yesterday evening wishing me "a great day for tomorrow's birthday".
Me: "But it's today."
Ensuing in my grandmother being horrified because she wanted to be the first to
December 6, 2025 at 8:33 AM
Happy Krampus Day to anyone celebrating.
December 5, 2025 at 1:42 PM
Since it's unlikely that my general mood improves in the time to come, I just tell you now: I've decided on a name to use during/after transitioning and it's Herbert.
December 4, 2025 at 2:38 PM
My camera settings are all gone! This is even more annoying and not as easily fixable.
Had a phone update. I'm reading through the changes, thinking everything is going to be okay but now the phone's gallery icon (previously a nice mountain range with the moon in the background) is now the standard ugly flowery pattern.
a man in a military uniform talks to another man in a suit
Alt: Second Doctor (Patrick Troughton) saying "You've had this place redecorated, haven't you? Mmm, I don't like it."
media.tenor.com
December 3, 2025 at 9:28 PM
Had a phone update. I'm reading through the changes, thinking everything is going to be okay but now the phone's gallery icon (previously a nice mountain range with the moon in the background) is now the standard ugly flowery pattern.
a man in a military uniform talks to another man in a suit
Alt: Second Doctor (Patrick Troughton) saying "You've had this place redecorated, haven't you? Mmm, I don't like it."
media.tenor.com
December 3, 2025 at 6:09 AM
An equally sad and heartwarming thing: Philly is slowly learning how the life of a house cat works.
There are so many cat things I do automatically and I'm getting a very confused look from him because he doesn't understand - but the recent weeks he started coming for cuddles: He's been sleeping in
December 3, 2025 at 3:44 AM
Tomorrow I will drown myself in crisps.
December 2, 2025 at 5:13 PM
Ugh, and same shift tomorrow.
Already took 3 of the maximum of 4 pain meds today and my head still feels like splitting.
December 1, 2025 at 5:07 PM
Already took 3 of the maximum of 4 pain meds today and my head still feels like splitting.
December 1, 2025 at 4:04 PM
I don't feel ready for work again. Especially an 10h shift on the most stressful ward.
Serves me right for answering the phone after 6pm...
December 1, 2025 at 5:56 AM
Well, I really like the Enterprise theme*, sue me. Also wash your hands properly.

*earlier version
November 27, 2025 at 9:44 AM
Still on sick leave. This is now the second time it has been extended...
November 26, 2025 at 3:40 PM
I'm quite annoyed - it got worse. Maybe need to ask to check for Covid as usually a regular virus/bacterium does not have such a severe effect over a long time.
November 21, 2025 at 5:47 AM
They've teamed up and stole approximately 85% of the bed.
November 18, 2025 at 9:10 PM
My body: Why is everything awful, everything hurts, I can't sleep nor can I properly stay awake, not even my brain is working right*!

My brain: There's a reason you're on sick leave, idiot.

*When did it ever? Ha!
November 18, 2025 at 8:36 PM