laughing so hard i'm gonna wake someone up

I'm saying it's absolutely fruitless to focus on accusing them of enjoying trans suffering because they're very obviously creating a world where the existence of trans suffering is not visible, is ideologically justified and the outcomes of anti trans harm can not affect them in any way.

They want a world where they get to do evil and also be the good guys and "they're hurting us on purpose" kinda focuses on the first without letting us recognise the second bit is what is permitting then to continue doing it.

"actually his stuff was very Derivative and not Original" like, you don't have to do this. it is good for us all to sit with the cognitive dissonance that a very bad person can make very good art. it is good for us to work through the moral ramifications of that.

plenty of people are like "i never would associate with a pedophile" and then actively don't believe you when you tell them about your own abuse. this is not just a rich people problem, it's an everyone problem. it's why rape culture is a thing.

"that's such a vivid hypothetical, i don't where you come up with...wait," [peeks at search engine] "what the—?"

i'm sorry, i'm sure you mean well, and this is good analysis well communicated, but i doubt that Hustlebro McDrugpusher, who sees himself as a temporarily embarrassed harvey weinstein and wants to [SLIDE WHISTLE] his baby mama, has watched "gender theory for dudes" or even heard of "chill goblin"

it's like being backstage as a play is getting set up, or showing up to the farmer's market an hour early

history forgets that there were plenty of people who would've went into 1960's films and been "L'Avventura?? what a snooze! they don't even find the missing girl!" "Breathless? more like 'senseless'! what kind of editing was that??"