Smashy
@smashy.bsky.social
Gay, neurodivergent, and chubby designer, musician, and photographer based in Montreal. VERY NSFW. 🔞🔞🔞
The SFW profile for music/photography is @bigdumbanimal.bsky.social.
The SFW profile for music/photography is @bigdumbanimal.bsky.social.
So be stoic or romantic! Be a professional artist or a fisherman! Take long hikes or spend time reading! Be hard or soft! With all of these, try being both! Enjoy your life! It's all good! Because the best kind of man knows himself and accepts and supports the good people around him.
November 20, 2025 at 6:29 AM
So be stoic or romantic! Be a professional artist or a fisherman! Take long hikes or spend time reading! Be hard or soft! With all of these, try being both! Enjoy your life! It's all good! Because the best kind of man knows himself and accepts and supports the good people around him.
A lot of baggage comes from the idea of masculinity but masculinity is an empty vessel that we each fill up. Some fill theirs with cigars and leather, some with building and creation, some with the outdoors, some with the gym, some with their brains. Every version looks different and that's good!
November 20, 2025 at 6:29 AM
A lot of baggage comes from the idea of masculinity but masculinity is an empty vessel that we each fill up. Some fill theirs with cigars and leather, some with building and creation, some with the outdoors, some with the gym, some with their brains. Every version looks different and that's good!
Okay, one last one, and that's the man who thinks he can tell you if you are enough of a man. This kind of guy is all over the place, media, ads, and podcasts, and he's a jerk.
If you are a man, you're enough of a man. If you're genderfluid, then your male part is enough. Anything else? Enough.
If you are a man, you're enough of a man. If you're genderfluid, then your male part is enough. Anything else? Enough.
November 20, 2025 at 6:29 AM
Okay, one last one, and that's the man who thinks he can tell you if you are enough of a man. This kind of guy is all over the place, media, ads, and podcasts, and he's a jerk.
If you are a man, you're enough of a man. If you're genderfluid, then your male part is enough. Anything else? Enough.
If you are a man, you're enough of a man. If you're genderfluid, then your male part is enough. Anything else? Enough.
Another type of man to avoid being, and this is difficult due to human nature when being told we're wrong about something, is the kind who only talks but won't listen. This trait shows up mostly when attempting to feel superior to women.
Learn to listen, you'll be a better man for it!
Learn to listen, you'll be a better man for it!
November 20, 2025 at 6:29 AM
Another type of man to avoid being, and this is difficult due to human nature when being told we're wrong about something, is the kind who only talks but won't listen. This trait shows up mostly when attempting to feel superior to women.
Learn to listen, you'll be a better man for it!
Learn to listen, you'll be a better man for it!
There are plenty of ways to be a man. In fact, there are as many ways to be a man as there are men. And yes, there are wrong ways to be a man and the big one is to intentionally cause damage to someone for fun, power, or profit.
If that's not your thing, awesome, you're doing well as a man!
If that's not your thing, awesome, you're doing well as a man!
November 20, 2025 at 6:29 AM
There are plenty of ways to be a man. In fact, there are as many ways to be a man as there are men. And yes, there are wrong ways to be a man and the big one is to intentionally cause damage to someone for fun, power, or profit.
If that's not your thing, awesome, you're doing well as a man!
If that's not your thing, awesome, you're doing well as a man!
You're more than welcome ❤️
November 20, 2025 at 1:16 AM
You're more than welcome ❤️
I love it!! Could look at it for hours :)
November 19, 2025 at 8:21 PM
I love it!! Could look at it for hours :)
I just tried and it worked properly for me!
November 19, 2025 at 7:51 PM
I just tried and it worked properly for me!
I love you kiddo but *squirts with cold water pistol*
Calm down!
Calm down!
November 14, 2025 at 11:28 PM
I love you kiddo but *squirts with cold water pistol*
Calm down!
Calm down!
Thank you gorgeous, likewise!
November 14, 2025 at 10:41 PM
Thank you gorgeous, likewise!
The last song is responsible for one of the most surprising moments of father-son bonding I ever had. One day in the car he started singing In The Pines (original title of the song) and didn't even know about the Nirvana version. I didn't know he had even heard of Leadbelly :)
November 10, 2025 at 1:53 PM
The last song is responsible for one of the most surprising moments of father-son bonding I ever had. One day in the car he started singing In The Pines (original title of the song) and didn't even know about the Nirvana version. I didn't know he had even heard of Leadbelly :)
Very happy birthday @furrycelt.bsky.social :)
November 7, 2025 at 2:27 AM
Very happy birthday @furrycelt.bsky.social :)
For me, it's the comfort of knowing, and soon the disability tax credit.
November 6, 2025 at 9:14 PM
For me, it's the comfort of knowing, and soon the disability tax credit.