Nauta Sinneau
@sinneau.bsky.social
I'm a tribal Hawaiian Spinner dolphin who lives on a tropical island somewhere in the Pacific. Art by Tanno Radon
Actually I moved out of my mother's place in 2005 because he lived in the sticks. I haven't lived with him since 2001.
My mother never treated me like this but she's the one I lost in 2016. Now her ashes sit on my bedside shelf next to my cameras and plush Rascal doll.
And Grimalkin's con badge.
My mother never treated me like this but she's the one I lost in 2016. Now her ashes sit on my bedside shelf next to my cameras and plush Rascal doll.
And Grimalkin's con badge.
November 24, 2025 at 10:51 PM
Actually I moved out of my mother's place in 2005 because he lived in the sticks. I haven't lived with him since 2001.
My mother never treated me like this but she's the one I lost in 2016. Now her ashes sit on my bedside shelf next to my cameras and plush Rascal doll.
And Grimalkin's con badge.
My mother never treated me like this but she's the one I lost in 2016. Now her ashes sit on my bedside shelf next to my cameras and plush Rascal doll.
And Grimalkin's con badge.
I have NEVER asked him for a thing since I moved out in 2005 upon graduating college. Not a dime. Not a favour. I've house-sat for him. I've helped him put up siding. I felt it was "expected" of me and did it as a "duty".
And he treats me like I'm his teenage kid. Like he has since 1990. Fuck this.
And he treats me like I'm his teenage kid. Like he has since 1990. Fuck this.
November 24, 2025 at 10:49 PM
I have NEVER asked him for a thing since I moved out in 2005 upon graduating college. Not a dime. Not a favour. I've house-sat for him. I've helped him put up siding. I felt it was "expected" of me and did it as a "duty".
And he treats me like I'm his teenage kid. Like he has since 1990. Fuck this.
And he treats me like I'm his teenage kid. Like he has since 1990. Fuck this.
Let's go back to 2019 when she wrecked her posh ass BMW and asked if she could borrow my car for almost two weeks. No, that's totally fine and expected to ask your stepson to use his car, but me asking my stepmother to fix a fucking zipper is too much.
My dad is a piece of shit.
My dad is a piece of shit.
November 24, 2025 at 10:47 PM
Let's go back to 2019 when she wrecked her posh ass BMW and asked if she could borrow my car for almost two weeks. No, that's totally fine and expected to ask your stepson to use his car, but me asking my stepmother to fix a fucking zipper is too much.
My dad is a piece of shit.
My dad is a piece of shit.
He did his clutching at straws for ammo to be angry at me about from a year ago, like asking my stepmother if she could fix the zipper on one of my winter coats. She had no issue with it, nor did he at the time, but today he said I was treating her like "my personal seamstress" last year.
November 24, 2025 at 10:47 PM
He did his clutching at straws for ammo to be angry at me about from a year ago, like asking my stepmother if she could fix the zipper on one of my winter coats. She had no issue with it, nor did he at the time, but today he said I was treating her like "my personal seamstress" last year.
I don't have the emotional elasticity to deal with this man anymore. I'm sick and I'm exhausted and I don't owe him a debt for the rest of my life.
November 24, 2025 at 7:34 PM
I don't have the emotional elasticity to deal with this man anymore. I'm sick and I'm exhausted and I don't owe him a debt for the rest of my life.
I tried. I told him I felt disrespected and if i spoke to him the same way it would upset him too. I was calm and he just got angry about it. I don't know what the fuck is going through his head but the words "I'm sorry" aren't in his vocabulary. He just can't be wrong. Ever.
November 24, 2025 at 7:01 PM
I tried. I told him I felt disrespected and if i spoke to him the same way it would upset him too. I was calm and he just got angry about it. I don't know what the fuck is going through his head but the words "I'm sorry" aren't in his vocabulary. He just can't be wrong. Ever.
I called my dad and asked if he wanted to see me for Thanksgiving. All he wanted to do was argue about how I was wrong last year when I told him I wanted to move past it. I'm done with his shit. I have no plans to see him again.
Is anyone doing a friendsgiving this year?
Is anyone doing a friendsgiving this year?
November 24, 2025 at 6:35 PM
I called my dad and asked if he wanted to see me for Thanksgiving. All he wanted to do was argue about how I was wrong last year when I told him I wanted to move past it. I'm done with his shit. I have no plans to see him again.
Is anyone doing a friendsgiving this year?
Is anyone doing a friendsgiving this year?
And yeah there's a lot of purple fringing/CA on the image thanks to the lens I use being cheap and shooting wide open, but for a dance comp I don't care, because everything's weird and dynamic anyway.
A slightly better version of the same lens is 3x more than I paid for mine, so. I'll deal with it.
A slightly better version of the same lens is 3x more than I paid for mine, so. I'll deal with it.
November 23, 2025 at 4:31 PM
And yeah there's a lot of purple fringing/CA on the image thanks to the lens I use being cheap and shooting wide open, but for a dance comp I don't care, because everything's weird and dynamic anyway.
A slightly better version of the same lens is 3x more than I paid for mine, so. I'll deal with it.
A slightly better version of the same lens is 3x more than I paid for mine, so. I'll deal with it.