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Secure, in Style
@secureinstyle.tech
· Jan 8
To all of my new followers, and to pretty much anyone who would like to know more about me, allow me to share some blog posts I’ve done. I hope you enjoy them and provides some insight as to who I am.
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Narrator: he still lost the challenge.
Can’t lose a #Whamageddon challenge if you don’t listen to Xmas tunes. 😉
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December 12, 2025 at 3:45 AM
Narrator: he still lost the challenge.
Can’t lose a #Whamageddon challenge if you don’t listen to Xmas tunes. 😉
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December 11, 2025 at 10:49 PM
Can’t lose a #Whamageddon challenge if you don’t listen to Xmas tunes. 😉
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That stuff was AMAZEBALLS.
That stuff was AMAZEBALLS.
December 6, 2025 at 6:55 PM
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That stuff was AMAZEBALLS.
That stuff was AMAZEBALLS.
Yep, this is absolutely fine.
December 5, 2025 at 1:43 AM
Yep, this is absolutely fine.
Let’s start an over 30, er, 40, um 50 selfie thread 😅
November 30, 2025 at 9:20 PM
Let’s start an over 30, er, 40, um 50 selfie thread 😅
Here we are, the final #OOTD of the year. I will be on extended holiday, returning after the new year. I'll still be lurking about, so worry not! Have a wonderful and safe holiday season!
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November 25, 2025 at 9:41 PM
Here we are, the final #OOTD of the year. I will be on extended holiday, returning after the new year. I'll still be lurking about, so worry not! Have a wonderful and safe holiday season!
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#OOTD one of two for the week, and it's time for staycation 😁. It was actually sunny and pleasant today—exactly how I wish the entire winter would be. 🤞🏼
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November 24, 2025 at 9:45 PM
#OOTD one of two for the week, and it's time for staycation 😁. It was actually sunny and pleasant today—exactly how I wish the entire winter would be. 🤞🏼
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This week I wrote about something that’s been bothering me: calling people “threats” when they’re just trying to do their jobs. Language shapes culture. Weekly outfits + security thoughts inside. #VulnerablyMe
Weekly Style Recap: November 17-21, 2025
Happy Sunday, everyone! I trust you are all having a great weekend. It’s been a nice weekend for me so far, especially in preparation for my long vacation, or “hibernation” as I’m fondly calling it. ☺️ I want to ensure I’ve things in order and have accomplished as much as possible at work, so as to not leave anyone hanging, nor to place any additional burden on my colleagues.
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November 23, 2025 at 2:14 PM
This week I wrote about something that’s been bothering me: calling people “threats” when they’re just trying to do their jobs. Language shapes culture. Weekly outfits + security thoughts inside. #VulnerablyMe
My Friday #OOTD. Only two working days left until staycation 2025. Thanks to the rain for holding off until later this afternoon. ☺️
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November 21, 2025 at 9:06 PM
My Friday #OOTD. Only two working days left until staycation 2025. Thanks to the rain for holding off until later this afternoon. ☺️
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If you see this, post your getaway vehicle.
November 21, 2025 at 3:59 PM
If you see this, post your getaway vehicle.
November 20, 2025 at 11:20 PM
Sun in the morning, cold, rainy, and all around gross in the evening. Had I known, I might have adjusted my #OOTD today, and not wore things that don't like becoming wet. ☂️
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November 18, 2025 at 10:16 PM
Sun in the morning, cold, rainy, and all around gross in the evening. Had I known, I might have adjusted my #OOTD today, and not wore things that don't like becoming wet. ☂️
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What a great day for my cowlick to make a very prominent appearance in my #OOTD jump pose. Thankfully, the tool I use to blur the backgrounds conveniently blurred it out—but trust me, it's very much there. Can't believe I had been going all day that way. 🙈 See more: pixelfed.social/p/SecureInSt...
November 17, 2025 at 10:00 PM
What a great day for my cowlick to make a very prominent appearance in my #OOTD jump pose. Thankfully, the tool I use to blur the backgrounds conveniently blurred it out—but trust me, it's very much there. Can't believe I had been going all day that way. 🙈 See more: pixelfed.social/p/SecureInSt...
New stickers have just arrived, and I'm liking this design a bit more. It's smaller and the size is just right, and updated my blog with it as well.
November 16, 2025 at 7:34 PM
New stickers have just arrived, and I'm liking this design a bit more. It's smaller and the size is just right, and updated my blog with it as well.
This week's outfits are up, plus thoughts on "zero trust"—a security term that actually describes how we protect ourselves in everyday life, without even realizing it.
#VulnerablyMe
#VulnerablyMe
Weekly Style Recap: November 10-14, 2025
Happy Sunday! How is your weekend treating you? Been pretty good here, and soaking up all of the relaxation I possibly can. ☺️ The past week was extremely busy dealing with a few emergencies, so I was very ready for the weekend to arrive. This coming week also is the last full week of work I have left for the year.
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November 16, 2025 at 4:57 PM
This week's outfits are up, plus thoughts on "zero trust"—a security term that actually describes how we protect ourselves in everyday life, without even realizing it.
#VulnerablyMe
#VulnerablyMe
Barbara Bach is soooooo gorgeous in “The Spy Who Loved Me”
November 15, 2025 at 4:55 AM
Barbara Bach is soooooo gorgeous in “The Spy Who Loved Me”
Happy to report that some of my sweaters still fit after my "expansion", so very thankful for that! Argyle for today's #OOTD—perfect for autumn. 🍂
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November 14, 2025 at 10:34 PM
Happy to report that some of my sweaters still fit after my "expansion", so very thankful for that! Argyle for today's #OOTD—perfect for autumn. 🍂
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May need to slightly shift my outfit location, or be more mindful so as to not have light posts growing out of my head with my #OOTD pictures. Oops. 😅
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November 13, 2025 at 10:22 PM
May need to slightly shift my outfit location, or be more mindful so as to not have light posts growing out of my head with my #OOTD pictures. Oops. 😅
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Get to know your mutuals! List ten random things you like.
(Ten?? Oof.)
👗 Fashion/style
🔒 Cybersecurity for the non-technical
❤️ Empathy
🕵️♂️ Columbo
🎮 Casual video gaming
☕️ Frasier
🎶 Music
👠 Shoe design
⚫️⚪️ Polka dots
🐶 Dogs
(Ten?? Oof.)
👗 Fashion/style
🔒 Cybersecurity for the non-technical
❤️ Empathy
🕵️♂️ Columbo
🎮 Casual video gaming
☕️ Frasier
🎶 Music
👠 Shoe design
⚫️⚪️ Polka dots
🐶 Dogs
get to know your mutuals! List ten random things you like ೃ⁀➷
🐦 Birds! Esp parrots!
📚 READING
🎮 Vidya games
🎲 DND
✍️ Doodling! (Not very good at it )
🍜 Ramen (and sushi!)
🎐Wind chimes (sounds esp)
🕹️ Og Final Fantasy VII
👗 Fashion!!
📺 YouTube letsplayers
🐦 Birds! Esp parrots!
📚 READING
🎮 Vidya games
🎲 DND
✍️ Doodling! (Not very good at it )
🍜 Ramen (and sushi!)
🎐Wind chimes (sounds esp)
🕹️ Og Final Fantasy VII
👗 Fashion!!
📺 YouTube letsplayers
get to know your mutuals! list ten random things you like ೃ⁀➷
꩜ birds!! and most animals tbh
꩜ dragon, dark & fairy type pokemon
꩜ baked goods & baking
꩜ lilacs :)
꩜ scary movies
꩜ drawing & crafts
꩜ gardening
꩜ writing!!
꩜ collecting enamel pins
꩜ dragons 🐉
꩜ birds!! and most animals tbh
꩜ dragon, dark & fairy type pokemon
꩜ baked goods & baking
꩜ lilacs :)
꩜ scary movies
꩜ drawing & crafts
꩜ gardening
꩜ writing!!
꩜ collecting enamel pins
꩜ dragons 🐉
November 13, 2025 at 5:31 PM
Get to know your mutuals! List ten random things you like.
(Ten?? Oof.)
👗 Fashion/style
🔒 Cybersecurity for the non-technical
❤️ Empathy
🕵️♂️ Columbo
🎮 Casual video gaming
☕️ Frasier
🎶 Music
👠 Shoe design
⚫️⚪️ Polka dots
🐶 Dogs
(Ten?? Oof.)
👗 Fashion/style
🔒 Cybersecurity for the non-technical
❤️ Empathy
🕵️♂️ Columbo
🎮 Casual video gaming
☕️ Frasier
🎶 Music
👠 Shoe design
⚫️⚪️ Polka dots
🐶 Dogs
Well, sunlight isn't quite as warm when it's below freezing outside in the morning. Warm and comfy coat accompanies today's #OOTD. Also, think I'm getting too old to take jump pose pics. Sigh.
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November 11, 2025 at 10:59 PM
Well, sunlight isn't quite as warm when it's below freezing outside in the morning. Warm and comfy coat accompanies today's #OOTD. Also, think I'm getting too old to take jump pose pics. Sigh.
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Nope, no surprises here…
November 11, 2025 at 7:41 PM
Nope, no surprises here…
Age yourself with gaming 🎮
Yes, I actually LIKED this game. ☺️
Yes, I actually LIKED this game. ☺️
November 11, 2025 at 2:32 PM
Age yourself with gaming 🎮
Yes, I actually LIKED this game. ☺️
Yes, I actually LIKED this game. ☺️
I may move back to my (super) sunny position to take my #OOTD pictures, as the slivers of sunlight is wreaking havoc on editing, and washing things out a bit. Also, sunlight is WARM. ☀️
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November 10, 2025 at 10:32 PM
I may move back to my (super) sunny position to take my #OOTD pictures, as the slivers of sunlight is wreaking havoc on editing, and washing things out a bit. Also, sunlight is WARM. ☀️
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Just saw this posted on Tumblr. This really gave me pause.
"It's true that crying won't solve things but we don't cry to solve. We cry to release."
"It's true that crying won't solve things but we don't cry to solve. We cry to release."
November 10, 2025 at 3:55 PM
Just saw this posted on Tumblr. This really gave me pause.
"It's true that crying won't solve things but we don't cry to solve. We cry to release."
"It's true that crying won't solve things but we don't cry to solve. We cry to release."
This week's outfits + a reflection on something that's been on my mind: the small details in our photos that can give away more than we realize. A gentle reminder to look at the whole frame.
#VulnerablyMe
#VulnerablyMe
Weekly Style Recap: November 3-7, 2025
Hello, and happy Sunday, everyone! ☺️ How is your weekend treating you so far? It's been a very low-key weekend for me so far. I really need to re-motivate myself to continue on with my CISSP studies to try and tackle that certification. I think it would be quite beneficial to my career in the long run, even if I still don't quite know exactly…
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November 9, 2025 at 2:17 PM
This week's outfits + a reflection on something that's been on my mind: the small details in our photos that can give away more than we realize. A gentle reminder to look at the whole frame.
#VulnerablyMe
#VulnerablyMe