Obese Cabbage
@obesecabbage.bsky.social
18+ But Ill try to keep it PG13 where I can.🐊 cis he/him 31, 🇲🇽-🇺🇸 Tinkerer, Workaholic, Queer, Uncle
Hell yes so proud of you brother ❤️❤️
November 6, 2025 at 1:04 AM
Hell yes so proud of you brother ❤️❤️
I am not perfect. Our family is not perfect. And the odds were stacked against us. But I'm glad the kids turned out okay, despite not having a grandmother. Always and forever ride the storm.
October 28, 2025 at 4:06 PM
I am not perfect. Our family is not perfect. And the odds were stacked against us. But I'm glad the kids turned out okay, despite not having a grandmother. Always and forever ride the storm.
But money cannot buy time. Time lost, the 10 years since my niece and nephew have grown up. All of the moments, the diaper changes, the wrestling, the piggy back rides, learning to cook, learning to find the strength to stay sober by being a role model. Learning to walk the quiet line.
October 28, 2025 at 4:06 PM
But money cannot buy time. Time lost, the 10 years since my niece and nephew have grown up. All of the moments, the diaper changes, the wrestling, the piggy back rides, learning to cook, learning to find the strength to stay sober by being a role model. Learning to walk the quiet line.
Money can, by happiness, in the sense that it will allow you comfort long enough so you can focus on fostering your relationships. But it is temporary. She chose a life to not have grandkids, but instead inherit multi-million$ in estate assets from her now deceased boyfriend.
October 28, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Money can, by happiness, in the sense that it will allow you comfort long enough so you can focus on fostering your relationships. But it is temporary. She chose a life to not have grandkids, but instead inherit multi-million$ in estate assets from her now deceased boyfriend.
She didn't budge, instead doubled down. She demanded she is paid what she is "owed", wanted an apology. I reiterated one more time, that this means that she will not be able to see her grandkids. "Then so be it." She said. "Then you do not deserve to be a grandmother.".
October 28, 2025 at 4:06 PM
She didn't budge, instead doubled down. She demanded she is paid what she is "owed", wanted an apology. I reiterated one more time, that this means that she will not be able to see her grandkids. "Then so be it." She said. "Then you do not deserve to be a grandmother.".
I gave her a chance. I walked up to her and asked her if she realized what she said to my sister. I didn't mention any of the things that she told me, to me that was trivial. I suggested that she apologize and make amends for the sake of her grandkids.
October 28, 2025 at 4:06 PM
I gave her a chance. I walked up to her and asked her if she realized what she said to my sister. I didn't mention any of the things that she told me, to me that was trivial. I suggested that she apologize and make amends for the sake of her grandkids.
The next day, the air was heavy, but I stayed relaxed. My mother came with her boyfriend to pick something up in the garage. And I confronted her. Quite honestly, to this day, the hardest thing I've ever had to do. Saying goodbye to my mom.
October 28, 2025 at 4:06 PM
The next day, the air was heavy, but I stayed relaxed. My mother came with her boyfriend to pick something up in the garage. And I confronted her. Quite honestly, to this day, the hardest thing I've ever had to do. Saying goodbye to my mom.
Sis and I called her out. Mom didnt like that. She berated me, called me a fat idiot. A retard who would always be dependent. I have a blurry memory of her saying this because I had heard it a lot before. She gave us no choice or ultimatum. She said be out in a month.
October 28, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Sis and I called her out. Mom didnt like that. She berated me, called me a fat idiot. A retard who would always be dependent. I have a blurry memory of her saying this because I had heard it a lot before. She gave us no choice or ultimatum. She said be out in a month.
Mom wanted us to pay the rent difference for a roommate that moved out. We could not, as our jobs didn't pay enough at the time. She decided to call my sister ungateful, called her a slut, and called her an idiot for not consulting her for having a 2nd kid. My sister wouldn't have it.
October 28, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Mom wanted us to pay the rent difference for a roommate that moved out. We could not, as our jobs didn't pay enough at the time. She decided to call my sister ungateful, called her a slut, and called her an idiot for not consulting her for having a 2nd kid. My sister wouldn't have it.