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@nerdalertgrows.bsky.social
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37yo sub gainer in NJ

SW: 155 CW: 308 GW: Lap full of belly
AI slop gets you blocked
Oh I am familiar with that anxiety spiral. 🫂 An exhausting classic.
November 26, 2025 at 6:05 PM
Yes, I am stoned. 😅🐷
November 26, 2025 at 3:22 AM
Congrats! 🎉
November 26, 2025 at 12:38 AM
Ooo I don't think I read that one!
November 25, 2025 at 8:37 PM
Holy shit memory unlocked 🤯 The one I kept going back to was "It's Great to Gain" I think?
November 25, 2025 at 8:34 PM
Ooo but now you can make up a bunch of fun, fake stories to pull out when someone says, "hey, that's a cool/sexy scar. How'd you get it?"

You can drop the real story in the rotation too if you want. Leave everyone wondering for the rest of time.
a woman is standing in a closet and saying i 'm building a mystery
ALT: a woman is standing in a closet and saying i 'm building a mystery
media.tenor.com
November 23, 2025 at 5:41 AM
I've actually only used Telegram for 1:1. Never tried their channels before.
November 23, 2025 at 1:39 AM
Discord has potential but their app isn't great for juggling more than one account.
November 23, 2025 at 1:08 AM
Exactly. I don't want another social media platform but I do want a functional, free way to build gainer community outside of Grommr (which is just never gonna invest in itself in a meaningful way that makes it a better space for the community) while maintaining some, however flimsy, privacy.
November 23, 2025 at 1:06 AM
I would low-key love to set up a gainer Mastadon but I looked into that one time and immediately got overwhelmed.
November 23, 2025 at 12:19 AM
That would be awesome if you don't mind! ♥️

Also, general question: are there good online gainer spaces outside of Grom and Bsky? Both have limitations that I find frustrating and IG stories made it feel so much easier to strike up conversations and stay in touch.
November 22, 2025 at 11:59 PM
I'm trying to organize one if folks are around and down
November 22, 2025 at 11:08 PM
I lend my belly to the cause of dinner roll consumption
November 22, 2025 at 11:06 PM
Does this help?
November 19, 2025 at 2:48 PM
Thanks 🐷 you should come help!
November 19, 2025 at 11:59 AM