New gender model just dropped; the theorists go wild.

Look you can’t argue with his platform

Petition to try “Good tea. Nice house.” Worf was on to something.

If I may, and I say this very gently: if you do decide to, you need to be prepared that she will look very different; it’s not uncommon or wrong for your first thought to be that it isn’t her. Perhaps consider this too, especially in how you want to remember her, friend.

My parents were closed casket but my granddad was open, and I had to see both my parents beforehand for identification. I’m glad that I could honour them all in a way that made sense to me at the time, but it is no indictment on you if you don’t or can’t. 💜

Goodness me, Inspector Wexford is a comfy watch on wintry evenings.

Definitely!

Hey, please accept the very very best wishes from this internet stranger and their cat. I can’t picture what this experience is like for you and wouldn’t presume to, but I hope you are surrounded by comfort and support. 💜

Tomorrow and Saturday I'll be commuting from Erfurt — thoughts and prayers etc etc etc.