Lo 🍎🍂🕯️
@lobelow38.bsky.social
Eldest Daughter and recovering perfectionist. Anxious and Animated. Lover of music, dance and food. A Lowkey Hedonist.
Pinned
At the beginning, every time you change or ratchet up the intensity of an act, and at the end. Also if someone seems to be in pain
19. How often do you need check-in?
December 7, 2025 at 3:38 AM
At the beginning, every time you change or ratchet up the intensity of an act, and at the end. Also if someone seems to be in pain
Yes. Non negotiable
18. Is aftercare needed?
December 7, 2025 at 3:37 AM
Yes. Non negotiable
“Your Orgasm is MINE.”
“ Can my good girl take more?” “ You look so pretty right now”
“ Make a mess for Daddy”
“ Can my good girl take more?” “ You look so pretty right now”
“ Make a mess for Daddy”
15. What words excite you?
December 7, 2025 at 3:36 AM
“Your Orgasm is MINE.”
“ Can my good girl take more?” “ You look so pretty right now”
“ Make a mess for Daddy”
“ Can my good girl take more?” “ You look so pretty right now”
“ Make a mess for Daddy”
Both
13. Pain or pleasure?
December 7, 2025 at 3:34 AM
Both
Sight. I have a fear of not hearing what’s going on around me
10. What sensors do you like restricted?
December 7, 2025 at 3:33 AM
Sight. I have a fear of not hearing what’s going on around me
The mental… but really… hands on bondage
8. What kind of bondage do you enjoy?
December 7, 2025 at 3:33 AM
The mental… but really… hands on bondage
My Ass
7. What part of your body feels safest for impact?
December 7, 2025 at 3:32 AM
My Ass
Firm AND gentle control
6. Do you like firm or gentle control?
December 7, 2025 at 3:32 AM
Firm AND gentle control
To fly… I love subspace.
4. What do you want from a BDSM session?
December 7, 2025 at 3:32 AM
To fly… I love subspace.
Freedom in exploration. I love the structure and if there’s trust and care … both parties walk away satisfied
3. What draws you to BDSM?
December 7, 2025 at 3:31 AM
Freedom in exploration. I love the structure and if there’s trust and care … both parties walk away satisfied
Nope
2. Do you switch roles?
December 7, 2025 at 3:30 AM
Nope
Pretty much
And dissociating
December 4, 2025 at 3:44 AM
Pretty much
My comfort shows:
Dexter
The Office
Law & Order
Criminal Minds
Living Single
King of Queens
Basically… Humor and murder mystery
Dexter
The Office
Law & Order
Criminal Minds
Living Single
King of Queens
Basically… Humor and murder mystery
My comfort shows:
Chopped
My Wife and Kids
The Good Place
Chopped
My Wife and Kids
The Good Place
December 4, 2025 at 3:40 AM
My comfort shows:
Dexter
The Office
Law & Order
Criminal Minds
Living Single
King of Queens
Basically… Humor and murder mystery
Dexter
The Office
Law & Order
Criminal Minds
Living Single
King of Queens
Basically… Humor and murder mystery
YouTube definitely figured out my style and what I like. They summed me up so well. But I’m a mix of relaxation, crime, and discussion/ break downs on media. I’m a community person. Like to be connected and a nerd about my interests. Only one childrens song snuck into my top picks. Lol
December 3, 2025 at 11:56 PM
YouTube definitely figured out my style and what I like. They summed me up so well. But I’m a mix of relaxation, crime, and discussion/ break downs on media. I’m a community person. Like to be connected and a nerd about my interests. Only one childrens song snuck into my top picks. Lol
Friendly reminder to have your kids write a letter to Santa. If you don’t have any kids in need, pass it on to other families! Letters postmarked on December 11th will be honored. The earlier you send it in, the better! Operation Santa via USPS is underway!!
Just putting this resource here for US families who are worried about gifts this season for their little ones. This is just one of the many resources out there you can lean on in these unpredictable times. It’s kinda cute cuz kids can write to “Santa” and volunteers will take of the rest.
December 3, 2025 at 11:37 PM
Friendly reminder to have your kids write a letter to Santa. If you don’t have any kids in need, pass it on to other families! Letters postmarked on December 11th will be honored. The earlier you send it in, the better! Operation Santa via USPS is underway!!
Same… being the only black teacher on staff… it can be draining. They had me questioning myself…. But when I see them doing the same methods as me… I realized… I know what I’m doing.
I be having imposter syndrome real bad and then I realize I be knowing what the fuck I’m doing
I’m really HER and I need to stop doubting it
I’m really HER and I need to stop doubting it
December 3, 2025 at 4:47 AM
Same… being the only black teacher on staff… it can be draining. They had me questioning myself…. But when I see them doing the same methods as me… I realized… I know what I’m doing.
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Your level of communication and Understanding of someone else’s can definitely count as foreplay. IYKYK
December 3, 2025 at 3:55 AM
Your level of communication and Understanding of someone else’s can definitely count as foreplay. IYKYK
Whatever this is, took me down. Like knocked me allll the way down. Just now got a momentary reprieve..
a man in a hospital gown is smiling and laying in a bed
ALT: a man in a hospital gown is smiling and laying in a bed
media.tenor.com
December 2, 2025 at 4:40 AM
Whatever this is, took me down. Like knocked me allll the way down. Just now got a momentary reprieve..
I’m already missing my bed and heated room. Why can’t we just hibernate?
a black and white photo of a man smoking a cigarette while sitting in a car .
ALT: a black and white photo of a man smoking a cigarette while sitting in a car .
media.tenor.com
December 1, 2025 at 1:23 PM
I’m already missing my bed and heated room. Why can’t we just hibernate?
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Hey you.
The one who works, fixes, carries, and tries to be everything for everyone.
Take a breath. You don’t have to hold it all together because, more likely than not, they won’t be there if/when you break.
Even problem solvers need rest.
You’re doing better than you think.
The one who works, fixes, carries, and tries to be everything for everyone.
Take a breath. You don’t have to hold it all together because, more likely than not, they won’t be there if/when you break.
Even problem solvers need rest.
You’re doing better than you think.
December 1, 2025 at 2:47 AM
Hey you.
The one who works, fixes, carries, and tries to be everything for everyone.
Take a breath. You don’t have to hold it all together because, more likely than not, they won’t be there if/when you break.
Even problem solvers need rest.
You’re doing better than you think.
The one who works, fixes, carries, and tries to be everything for everyone.
Take a breath. You don’t have to hold it all together because, more likely than not, they won’t be there if/when you break.
Even problem solvers need rest.
You’re doing better than you think.
Bringing this one back.
December 1, 2025 at 3:35 AM
Bringing this one back.
That Fall Walk in the Sun really reset my spirit
November 30, 2025 at 10:05 PM
That Fall Walk in the Sun really reset my spirit
This week is my mini/oldest best friends 🎉 Birthday. Went from following me everywhere, to standing on her own 2 feet. Positive, incredibly smart, BIGGEST empath, and Funny as hell. Happy Early Birthday Lil Sister. 💕
November 30, 2025 at 4:49 AM
This week is my mini/oldest best friends 🎉 Birthday. Went from following me everywhere, to standing on her own 2 feet. Positive, incredibly smart, BIGGEST empath, and Funny as hell. Happy Early Birthday Lil Sister. 💕