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Riah (ry-uh)
@lilririah.bsky.social
me as myself.
it's never too late to be yourself.

Future Autistic OT & DanceMovementTherapist
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I understand. It does that to me too.
November 25, 2025 at 8:47 PM
I think it thinks it's being helpful, for incase you'd want to follow up with them.
November 25, 2025 at 6:22 PM
Also, I enjoyed this flvideo some time ago. Ion agree w everything in it, but I appreciated that they were discussing things I had only heard before in my own mind.

youtu.be/UZDeYe93rFg
Steven Pinker: Language and Consciousness, Part 1 Complete: Thinking Allowed w/ J. Mishlove
YouTube video by ThinkingAllowedTV
youtu.be
November 25, 2025 at 6:14 AM
Oh nooooo

I hope you can find it again. Iono nothin. But I feel like once something is yours, it's yours. Even if it's off sitting to the side for awhile.
November 25, 2025 at 6:10 AM
Words are just symbols that cause us to hallucinate specific things. 🤣
November 25, 2025 at 6:07 AM
I too was late to understanding the repeating of visual media until recently lol.

I'm glad it resonated with you that well.
November 25, 2025 at 6:06 AM
I still think in moving shapes, colors, textures, impressions, feelings, though. Then I transliterate.

I used to think if this as some flaw, or that at the very least I was the worst at it than everyone one.

Now I've just accepted it as a lifelong part of learning and connection.
November 25, 2025 at 6:05 AM
I'm sorry this felt like a loss of something.

I've always said that English is my second language, movement is my first. And actually, my studies has determined that to be developmentally accurate.
November 25, 2025 at 6:05 AM
I'm still getting a handle on it 🫠

It's actually one of the reasons I have deep interest in communication and linguistics.
November 25, 2025 at 6:00 AM
And it gets missed that the whole point of dance is a communucation anyway. A shout into the universe, a call and response, a record keeping, whatever you feel resonates.
November 25, 2025 at 5:59 AM
Dance is my favorite form of communication.

I believe that with the pressures on people to have dance look a certain type of way we lose folks opportunity to share their interpretation of who they are,
November 25, 2025 at 5:59 AM
Our minds light up when we see a movement or feel something which resonates with our inner word. We take it in. We make it our own. We express it.
November 25, 2025 at 5:59 AM
Honestly, I had assumed that was the default? And that we primarily learn words so that we can understand and be understood by our external world.
November 25, 2025 at 5:45 AM
I'm sorry for the distance this caused between you and your sister, but I'm grateful you had people to help add clarity along the way and the willingness to understand it for what it is.
November 25, 2025 at 5:38 AM
Interesting! I'd have to watch again to assess that. I'm not sure if I'm ao well aware of those tells.
November 25, 2025 at 5:36 AM
Seems like another example of the importance of teaching ethics and humanities in stem.
November 25, 2025 at 5:35 AM
Thank YOU for engaging in this conversation with me!
November 25, 2025 at 5:29 AM
Right???

Because we've already determined that they are doing this, really, just to stay alive.

If that isn't fawn then I really don't know what is.
November 25, 2025 at 5:29 AM
Because 😅 honestly, if we've come to understand that people pleasing is something that needs to become aware of and healed within people,

Why then would we carry on with a model of something based on ourselves as if we don't already understand that people pleasing is more harmful than helpful?

/rh
November 25, 2025 at 5:27 AM
Okay, bet. That helps my brain to connect some dots in relation to how things tend to devolve.
November 25, 2025 at 5:27 AM