"not as master or servant but as equal partners" gayyyyy omg stopppp this is much worse and more romantic than the het version. i'm unwell abt him actually

anything else you could ever want will be there if they are there. every game would be improved 10000000x by them being there

the "done all the serious analysis so now it's just sillytimes" post HURT ME we are getting metafandom with it

www.tumblr.com/lu-lox/79985...

(by thinking abt it v hard i mean wayyyyy more than i should considering i should be, yk, working on my stuff sksksk)
& yeah it does feel a bit jarring sometimes to see certain things on the receiving one if youre going to write/draw smth in good faith instead of just doing wtvr :p

its actually v normal to single out things like this! im just commenting on & Making It Weird bc this year i deliberately didnt put certain things on my receiving "hard no"s like id have done automatically a while ago (due to them not having to do w/ my prompts) so ive been thinking abt it v hard

[& im not talking abt any event in specific, past or present, just in gen bc ive been browsing around to learn abt other unrelated communities & what they seem to have as a boogieman (many "no X ship" in prompts that literally could never even have the characters at all due how specific they were)]

& i'm joking abt the piss kink thing but it's like, why are some kinks singled out in the receiving hard no if literally none of the prompts are things that could ever include them? i can do dubcon knifeplay ageplay w/ lactation? even if it also doesn't fit? is it REALLY just piss that's forbidden?

yeah idk, i just think it's interesting to reflect on it & how this aggro-defensiveness never went away even tho the general fandom landscape has changed so much wrt de-anon'ing (rip kinkmeme) & the preference for ship/character specific events rather than general ones

the term i was looking for is "hijacking". did not have to go on the heterosexualisms subreddit for that. only had to reload dreamwidth at least five times before it stopped giving me errors lol

i knaur in my heart there is a specific term for trolling on a kinkmeme fill but i have forgotten & am Not going to keep looking bc the second result when trying to was r slash cullen/mancers. averting my eyes to not see any heterosexualisms EUGH

noah fencies but methinks ppl w/ niche & stigmatized fetishes & identities in polite/tight/highly focused spaces Know that & aren't going to be trolling in this day & age like in ye extremelye olde kinkmemes
hashtag food for thought hashtag piss kink soft launch WHO SAID THIS DELETE FROM MY POST NOW

as if someone would be like idk girl, "ik you asked for this high concept cozy whump but i'm going to be including my piss kink bc i'm blonde & all blondes have a piss kink hashtag all blonded have a piss kink"
& this isn't me being Highly Judgemental as i def am, but like, let's chill???