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KPCeeJ
@kpceej.bsky.social
Huge gamer, techie, nerd, lover of wrestling and master of everything (I think)! Let’s connect!

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Just a guy and his flowers…
I want to slow dance with my next person.
November 26, 2025 at 3:09 AM
Had an ex that tried to manipulate me with marriage to stay. You got the wrong person. And yes it was them…iykyk
Let’s talk about marriage:

I’ve been reading about people who are in committed relationships, but never want to be “married” based on legal standards.

Could you commit to a long romantic relationship knowing that “marriage” is not an option?
November 25, 2025 at 11:58 PM
You’re top tier!
November 25, 2025 at 11:54 PM
Lash Legend!!! ❤️
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November 25, 2025 at 10:56 PM
Setup my HYS account…think this is going to be the move. 🥹
November 25, 2025 at 9:26 PM
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Me + 29 = ❤️‍🔥
November 21, 2025 at 1:21 AM
My manager left early. I’m right behind her. 😭😭
November 25, 2025 at 8:57 PM
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Handling business
November 14, 2025 at 6:53 PM
Love the various perspectives. Seemed very healthy. Everything isn’t for everyone.

Love yall! 💙
Let’s talk about marriage:

I’ve been reading about people who are in committed relationships, but never want to be “married” based on legal standards.

Could you commit to a long romantic relationship knowing that “marriage” is not an option?
November 25, 2025 at 8:55 PM
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My friends were just talking about this Sunday….Im kinda conflicted! The main reason why I would wanna be married is so that if anything happens, I can have that spousal security to make decisions…but other than that, paper or not, if we are a great fit then so be it
November 25, 2025 at 6:09 PM
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I usually hate my badge photos.

Not this one ☺️
November 25, 2025 at 8:34 PM
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Surprisingly, silence. Being able to just exist around someone without any expectations or pressure—no forced convo, no performance—is one of the strongest emotional bonds. When the quiet feels comfortable, that’s when you really know the connection is real.
8. If sex is not an option, what activity creates the strongest emotional bond?
February 18, 2025 at 10:21 PM
Might say this at Thanksgiving, but in (bi). They won’t ask me to pray over the food this year.
November 25, 2025 at 6:02 PM
I remember I said I haven’t seen one marriage that makes me want to get married and my parents got wind of it and they were heated.

My mouth stay getting me trouble. I was a teen at the time.
November 25, 2025 at 5:52 PM
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Yes. I feel like marriage at times can be used to weaponize the patriarchy and at times, women walk out not having an identity (outside of their partners) or more broken than they were before they got married.
Let’s talk about marriage:

I’ve been reading about people who are in committed relationships, but never want to be “married” based on legal standards.

Could you commit to a long romantic relationship knowing that “marriage” is not an option?
November 25, 2025 at 5:40 PM
Let’s talk about marriage:

I’ve been reading about people who are in committed relationships, but never want to be “married” based on legal standards.

Could you commit to a long romantic relationship knowing that “marriage” is not an option?
November 25, 2025 at 5:38 PM
Been there, done that, wrote a book about lol…

Honestly speaking for some people including myself, there was rarely any one that just “made it” in my family. Everyday it looks like I’m going to be the person, but I get so nervous thinking man ain’t no way this is supposed to be me.
You know what I want to unpack?

Success anxiety. It’s real & a lot of people experience it, but it’s not often talked about.

I know my potential. I know that I’m uniquely capable of being a positive force in the world, & it’s affirmed by every person I meet, but that scares me for some reason.
November 25, 2025 at 4:21 PM
Dating during the pandemic was probably the worst thing for me to do. I lost everything after just moving to a new city. I couldn’t operate as my full self during that period.
November 25, 2025 at 3:58 PM
The pandemic whew.
15. What changed you more than you expected?
November 25, 2025 at 3:57 PM
Ginger and ginger only!
11. Tea lovers, what is your favorite flavor of tea?
November 25, 2025 at 3:56 PM
Lately writing and deconstruction.
5. How do you calm your nervous system?
November 25, 2025 at 3:41 PM
Gaming. Writing. FISHING!
3. What are your hobbies?
November 25, 2025 at 3:37 PM
Soon to become a reality. I want to sit down this evening and properly plan things out.

My Virgo nature is kicking in so I want it to be done a certain way. I’m committed to writing again!
Thinking about creating a blog (substack or medium) to discuss my Christian deconstruction phase.

I want to go really deep into everything. What yall think?
November 25, 2025 at 3:07 PM
Idk Ashanti - Rock With U is doing something for me right now. (Typically hate this song.)
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November 25, 2025 at 2:57 PM
Felt good to share a part of my nerdy self last night with someone…like this is what I do. Hope you like it here…..🥹
November 25, 2025 at 2:48 PM