Kay
@kay-onward.bsky.social
Kayaker. Dork. Urban Planner. Rural NY. Gender Wellness. Not always in this order. Also, trans woman.
I’m 8 weeks post bottom surgery and the euphoria waves keep building as the pain and soreness from surgery diminish more and more. (It’s a slow recovery)
November 26, 2025 at 12:37 AM
I’m 8 weeks post bottom surgery and the euphoria waves keep building as the pain and soreness from surgery diminish more and more. (It’s a slow recovery)
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TANTRUM: I love how the Prime Minister reacted, even though it wasn't Canadian Feds who placed + paid for the ad. To sum it up, when America is ready to show up at the table, he's ready to pick up where they left off, otherwise, PM Mark Carney is building Canada's future with or without the US.
October 24, 2025 at 3:50 PM
TANTRUM: I love how the Prime Minister reacted, even though it wasn't Canadian Feds who placed + paid for the ad. To sum it up, when America is ready to show up at the table, he's ready to pick up where they left off, otherwise, PM Mark Carney is building Canada's future with or without the US.
I dislike the word transexual. In my own language I’m increasingly using gender diverse to represent the umbrella of trans folks.
October 22, 2025 at 5:33 PM
I dislike the word transexual. In my own language I’m increasingly using gender diverse to represent the umbrella of trans folks.
Seriously would be helpful if it auto blurred everyone not the subject of the photo (think portrait subject vs background faces) and we double tapped the additional faces we wanted to include.
October 18, 2025 at 8:38 PM
Seriously would be helpful if it auto blurred everyone not the subject of the photo (think portrait subject vs background faces) and we double tapped the additional faces we wanted to include.
37, still need to hit a few cuties
July 31, 2025 at 3:26 AM
37, still need to hit a few cuties
Running around Manhattan with a student bus and subway pass. Starting in 4th grade I took the city bus from home to school every day. My kids don’t quite believe me
July 14, 2025 at 3:48 AM
Running around Manhattan with a student bus and subway pass. Starting in 4th grade I took the city bus from home to school every day. My kids don’t quite believe me
When I was being prepped for BA surgery I was asked to provide a urine sample. I asked what the test was for and told it’s “routine.” 10 minutes later the health portal app on my phone gets a notification. Turns out I’m not pregnant. Also I work for gender clinic associated with surgeon & hospital
July 2, 2025 at 10:31 AM
When I was being prepped for BA surgery I was asked to provide a urine sample. I asked what the test was for and told it’s “routine.” 10 minutes later the health portal app on my phone gets a notification. Turns out I’m not pregnant. Also I work for gender clinic associated with surgeon & hospital
It’s so stupid and hurtful, but of course that’s the point. It’s meant to out and identify the professional staff that represent the US everyday who happen to also be trans.
And guess what, those professionals are still going to be professional, even as their nation fails them.
And guess what, those professionals are still going to be professional, even as their nation fails them.
May 14, 2025 at 11:55 AM
It’s so stupid and hurtful, but of course that’s the point. It’s meant to out and identify the professional staff that represent the US everyday who happen to also be trans.
And guess what, those professionals are still going to be professional, even as their nation fails them.
And guess what, those professionals are still going to be professional, even as their nation fails them.
You are speaking up. And that gives others courage to speak up. And yet, as you know it’s exhausting being visible, while you watch so many peers be silent.
I’ve put my energy into the transexualmenace group as a means of being visible in meaningful ways.
I’ve put my energy into the transexualmenace group as a means of being visible in meaningful ways.
May 12, 2025 at 3:09 PM
You are speaking up. And that gives others courage to speak up. And yet, as you know it’s exhausting being visible, while you watch so many peers be silent.
I’ve put my energy into the transexualmenace group as a means of being visible in meaningful ways.
I’ve put my energy into the transexualmenace group as a means of being visible in meaningful ways.
Have fun!
As a trans woman who works in a gender clinic I hear a lot of tales of woe, and no question this process can be hard, especially now. But, we aren’t transitioning for others, we do this for ourselves - celebrate the fun we get to have when we are being our authentic selves.
As a trans woman who works in a gender clinic I hear a lot of tales of woe, and no question this process can be hard, especially now. But, we aren’t transitioning for others, we do this for ourselves - celebrate the fun we get to have when we are being our authentic selves.
May 6, 2025 at 3:49 PM
Have fun!
As a trans woman who works in a gender clinic I hear a lot of tales of woe, and no question this process can be hard, especially now. But, we aren’t transitioning for others, we do this for ourselves - celebrate the fun we get to have when we are being our authentic selves.
As a trans woman who works in a gender clinic I hear a lot of tales of woe, and no question this process can be hard, especially now. But, we aren’t transitioning for others, we do this for ourselves - celebrate the fun we get to have when we are being our authentic selves.
