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✨Giver of Problems✨
@jforjae.bsky.social
A super spicy Haitian Pisces who minds her business and whines her waist. 🇭🇹

God still working on me….like a lot.

📍NJ/PHL/NYC
📟 An 86’ baby
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I want everyone to get serious about their joy.

What brings you joy.
Who brings you joy.
Cultivating your joy.
The upkeep of your joy.

Get deadass about it. The clocks ticking. Months flying by like gyal in an Altima tryna get to happy hour. Take control of what makes you happy.
I love all flowers but

Tiger Lillies
Peonies
Dahlias
Cala Lilies
Sunflowers
Blind research

What’s your favorite flower?
November 26, 2025 at 8:27 PM
Omg yes.

Let me schedule mine too. Christmas around the corner and my list is long.
Lemme schedule my messages now. Thanks for the reminder. 🫱🏾‍🫲🏾
A got this, “I’m thankful for you” message from an ex today.. <BLOCK>
November 26, 2025 at 7:20 PM
COME ON TRIPLE OG.

CLEAR EM
November 26, 2025 at 7:03 PM
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When in doubt… Send her some money.

It might not work out in your favor but at least you won’t get called broke in the group chat.
November 26, 2025 at 5:50 PM
We worried about what we eating for National Day Off.

WHO eating us?! AmIRite?
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November 26, 2025 at 3:52 PM
Depends on my mood!

I do béchamel or with egg.

Since I’m doing a seafood Mac this year too it’ll be béchamel based. I find the béchamel is better to use when doing add ins.

Regular Mac is gonna be with eggs
Yall do the fancy ass bechamel when you make mac n cheese?
November 26, 2025 at 3:51 PM
You can also peel your sweet potatoes. Keep em in fridge until tomorrow.

Cornbread for dressing should be made today also! Dressing is better with the cornbread a day old.
November 26, 2025 at 1:42 PM
We have two designated store runners this year because my son now drives. 🎉
Y’all think you’re gonna sleep in tmrw and here come yo granny
“Get up, I forgot something at the store!”
November 26, 2025 at 1:29 PM
Back in the day…there was a floor or a room reserved unofficially for workplace foolishness.

Everyone lost recipes? And their marbles??
November 26, 2025 at 12:10 PM
Happy Wednesday.

Everything beat my ass today.

#BlackSkyFitness
November 26, 2025 at 11:37 AM
It’s been marinating 39 yrs.

Falling off the bone
November 26, 2025 at 10:33 AM
Traveling mercies to all 🤲🏽✨

May you get to and from your destination safely and in good health.
Oh! If you are in the middle of being on the road, please have safe travels. 🙏🏾
November 26, 2025 at 9:51 AM
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November 26, 2025 at 9:45 AM
Welcome to period week.

Where the 405lbs i was hip thrusting last week is now down to 225lbs today.

🙄
November 26, 2025 at 9:25 AM
😭😭😭😭
November 26, 2025 at 12:45 AM
Will come back to see responses later.
Who yall wanna see get together finally?
November 26, 2025 at 12:29 AM
My son is home for the Thanksgiving break.

They really don’t explain the feeling of having your kids back under the same roof when one doesn’t live home. I didn’t realize how much i missed him and his terrorizing ways.

I now know how my parents feel now when all my siblings are home.
November 25, 2025 at 10:31 PM
Need em.

I LOVE air rifts.
November 25, 2025 at 9:02 PM
Omg.

They planning a retirement party next week???
At work doing retirement calculations.

I am so done at age 62.5.
November 25, 2025 at 6:42 PM
I just had a gluten free banana bread
November 25, 2025 at 4:44 PM
Sundays
2. What is your favorite day of the week?
November 25, 2025 at 4:05 PM
I took mine to them when they were younger.

But my younger nieces and nephew will never see them. These are tech kids now.
Y’all realize these kids have never really experienced a real toy store? No KB Toys, no Geoffrey bucks, no (full sized) FAO Schwarz.
November 25, 2025 at 12:30 PM
Yes!

I tell ppl all the time that motivation is nonexistent when outside is 16° at 3:20a.

It’s pure discipline.
You gotta have a different level of discipline to workout early mornings during the cold months
November 25, 2025 at 11:35 AM
Get a room. Ya freaks
November 25, 2025 at 12:25 AM
Always.

I know all their names. I know about their kids. I make sure i look out for them. When we have parties i make sure i put things in the fridge for them with a note. I ask if they need anything.

They take care of us. I take care of them.
When y'all see janitors and housekeepers cleaning spaces you utilize, extend gratitude. A little "thank you" goes a long way.
November 25, 2025 at 12:18 AM