We say "believe women" and "oh but his books are so important" in the same breath. "Believe women" and "that fourteen-year-old led him on, he's a genius, we need him." "Believe woman" and "we prefer the wolf."

Yeahhhh… I regret that it took me that long to really realize/understand what I was saying

Yeah, I had a moment when I used a phrase to indicate we switch drivers, that I had heard and used my entire life to that point, and my Chinese friend and coworker who was in the car with me was (RIGHTFULLY) like "hey--*what*?" and I was like "oh. OH. Fuck. I'm sorry." as I understood what I did.

Joyce: “so there’s lesbian and bisexual clothing culture—at least that’s what I read on the internet—and this is what I came up with!”
Dorothy, very exasperated but fond: “we can work on it, dear.”