julio / pathetic man enjoyer
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formerly juliolio_ on the old bird site
🔞i post about whatever wet beast has captured my attention now🔞
AO3: cinnamonsnaps
🔞i post about whatever wet beast has captured my attention now🔞
AO3: cinnamonsnaps
lmk if you want anything off jstor btw
February 12, 2026 at 10:11 PM
lmk if you want anything off jstor btw
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speaking of the endless abyss this bit from the merger is my FAVORITE. freaky ❤️
February 12, 2026 at 7:48 PM
speaking of the endless abyss this bit from the merger is my FAVORITE. freaky ❤️
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I need to go back and confirm my understanding but I'm pretty sure the person who made the new map was either taking creative liberties, didn't understand the mechanics (fair), or the "borderlands" is like a tear in the paper of the map for the demon realm allowing a peek at the human realm beneath
diagram..... basically the borderlands exist wherever a wormhole appears that allows travel through the "space between spaces" (the Abyss) to a parallel, alternate realm
February 12, 2026 at 6:17 PM
I need to go back and confirm my understanding but I'm pretty sure the person who made the new map was either taking creative liberties, didn't understand the mechanics (fair), or the "borderlands" is like a tear in the paper of the map for the demon realm allowing a peek at the human realm beneath
"how dare you" is free on youtube and it's good. you should spend a few hours watching "how dare you" for free on youtube (it's good)
February 12, 2026 at 12:34 AM
"how dare you" is free on youtube and it's good. you should spend a few hours watching "how dare you" for free on youtube (it's good)
god i need one of you guys to go to LARP so we can wreak horrible things online AND offline
February 11, 2026 at 8:40 PM
god i need one of you guys to go to LARP so we can wreak horrible things online AND offline
massive win for brits quietly sitting at home watching police procedurals and paddington movies
Very cool! Olivia Colman came out as nonbinary, "I’ve always felt sort of nonbinary, and never felt massively feminine in my being female. I've always described myself to my husband as a gay man. And he goes, 'Yeah, I get that.' And so I do feel at home and at ease [among the LGBTQ community.]”
Olivia Colman: 'I've always felt sort of nonbinary'
The actress discussed her feelings about gender in an interview promoting her latest film, Jimpa.
www.out.com
February 11, 2026 at 8:33 PM
massive win for brits quietly sitting at home watching police procedurals and paddington movies
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They Should Fuck Nasty
February 11, 2026 at 7:39 PM
They Should Fuck Nasty
maybe this take is too spicy but i do feel like the usa has been sliding into mormonism lately. feels like every big romance book, every big youtuber, every new food pop up, etc etc, is from someone who deeply care about what kind of underwear you're wearing and if you're drinking coffee
this was way more prevalent when i was still on tiktok but it feels like people are getting really weird about alcohol, coffee, anything that might make you happy--even in innocuous amounts! feels like we're re-engineering puritanism as a method of maintaining control (over ourselves, each other)
starting to feel like there's a direct relationship between the growing obsession with lifestyle hygeine (no drinking, no caffeine, no sex, obsessive working out and looksmaxxing) and the inability to meaningful moral stands on issues of actual import
February 10, 2026 at 9:02 AM
maybe this take is too spicy but i do feel like the usa has been sliding into mormonism lately. feels like every big romance book, every big youtuber, every new food pop up, etc etc, is from someone who deeply care about what kind of underwear you're wearing and if you're drinking coffee
when the uk introduced age verification i held off as long as i could. godspeed everyone else, i'll cancel my nitro in solidarity 🫡
February 9, 2026 at 7:08 PM
when the uk introduced age verification i held off as long as i could. godspeed everyone else, i'll cancel my nitro in solidarity 🫡
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You gotta draw the dumb shit, you gotta
February 7, 2026 at 4:29 AM
You gotta draw the dumb shit, you gotta
seeing someone posting about star wars reminded me that just before i read svsss, i was having a major anakin/obi wan moment. but only fics where anakin was deeply insane and evil. so i was priming myself for bingqiu perfectly, longing for it without realising it was there
February 8, 2026 at 10:02 AM
seeing someone posting about star wars reminded me that just before i read svsss, i was having a major anakin/obi wan moment. but only fics where anakin was deeply insane and evil. so i was priming myself for bingqiu perfectly, longing for it without realising it was there
was doing research on when gongfu tea-making became popular and it's so recent... apparently grinding tea cakes into powder, like matcha, was more popular through ancient china. they'd add loads of extra ingredients to the brew too. every ancient tradition is only 200 years old etc etc
February 6, 2026 at 10:21 AM
was doing research on when gongfu tea-making became popular and it's so recent... apparently grinding tea cakes into powder, like matcha, was more popular through ancient china. they'd add loads of extra ingredients to the brew too. every ancient tradition is only 200 years old etc etc
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i call sqq a boymom but tbh binghe also turns me into one. he's my specialest boy and nothing is ever his fault. this sentiment extends to bingge as well
February 5, 2026 at 1:52 PM
i call sqq a boymom but tbh binghe also turns me into one. he's my specialest boy and nothing is ever his fault. this sentiment extends to bingge as well
why is this the post that has breached containment and is getting liked by normal people for some reason. don't be sarky in my comments, move on and leave me to my sin in peace
everyone is rereading svsss i feel like i was ahead of the curve. but also. when rereading i realised i had fully forgotten 90% of the novel. despite reading it Three Times now
February 5, 2026 at 2:32 PM
why is this the post that has breached containment and is getting liked by normal people for some reason. don't be sarky in my comments, move on and leave me to my sin in peace
i need to go back to china man i can't keep eating like this
February 5, 2026 at 12:28 AM
i need to go back to china man i can't keep eating like this
everyone is rereading svsss i feel like i was ahead of the curve. but also. when rereading i realised i had fully forgotten 90% of the novel. despite reading it Three Times now
February 4, 2026 at 9:01 AM
everyone is rereading svsss i feel like i was ahead of the curve. but also. when rereading i realised i had fully forgotten 90% of the novel. despite reading it Three Times now
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His mind is torn to shreds here and he's barely clinging onto sanity but he's so cute here
February 3, 2026 at 2:00 AM
His mind is torn to shreds here and he's barely clinging onto sanity but he's so cute here
people who can read the original chinese, how does Shen Qingqiu address Meng Mo exactly? 🥺 is it qianbei? help
February 3, 2026 at 8:07 PM
people who can read the original chinese, how does Shen Qingqiu address Meng Mo exactly? 🥺 is it qianbei? help
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my friends saw me with a beard and mustache for the first time this week and all of their expressions were like "holy shit who is this guy"
firmly confirmed i prefer the cleanshaven elfen twink look on myself and not the "chunky approachable man you meet at your local ttrpg shop" look
firmly confirmed i prefer the cleanshaven elfen twink look on myself and not the "chunky approachable man you meet at your local ttrpg shop" look
January 30, 2026 at 2:42 PM
my friends saw me with a beard and mustache for the first time this week and all of their expressions were like "holy shit who is this guy"
firmly confirmed i prefer the cleanshaven elfen twink look on myself and not the "chunky approachable man you meet at your local ttrpg shop" look
firmly confirmed i prefer the cleanshaven elfen twink look on myself and not the "chunky approachable man you meet at your local ttrpg shop" look
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constantly thinking about this post while rewatching madoka
January 24, 2026 at 8:56 AM
constantly thinking about this post while rewatching madoka