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Holly
@hollykarcher.bsky.social
Relationship anarchist, suburbanite, optimist. Writer of dodgy poems and that thing in the local rag.

Posts may be NSFW.

https://throne.com/hollykarcher
A few 🥝 ones:

The World's Fastest Indian With Big Naturals

Stickmen With Big Naturals

What we do in the Shadows With Big Naturals

An Angel at My Table With Big Naturals
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"A Few Good Men With Big Naturals"
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January 23, 2026 at 11:01 PM
Hey @bsky.app

Is there a way to disable the go live function? It seems so easy to hit by accident.
January 21, 2026 at 1:02 PM
What am I most looking forward to in 2026?

Read my latest #SATS column to find out.
Sex and the Suburbs – Holly stands with survivors
Join Holly as she searches east Auckland for love and connection. In which Holly stands with survivors. Happy new year, Reader! There’s something so heartening about having 365 fresh days in front of ...
www.times.co.nz
January 16, 2026 at 4:49 AM
Shout out to my readers, with a special thanks to those who have emailed me with feedback.

Feel free to engage here, too. (Please note that #bluesky is the only social platform I use. If you see me on meta, it's fake.)

Thanks and all the best for 2026!
January 3, 2026 at 12:30 AM
#IsmuasMonthOfMusic
#MusicChallenge
Day 3 - a song about falling in love

m.youtube.com/watch?v=n68U...

Because the fairytale ending is the exception, not the rule.

Love isn't always easy (nor is it meant to be) but it's always powerful.
TEEKS - ‘I Can’t Make You Love Me’ Live at the Auckland Town Hall (2019)
YouTube video by THISTEEKS
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January 3, 2026 at 12:15 AM
Hungry in Ōtautahi? If you find this behaviour as inexcusable as I do, maybe skip Lazeez Mediterranean Grill.

Christchurch chef keeps job despite sexually harassing young female employees | RNZ News share.google/cNJpoETagXGy...
Christchurch chef keeps job despite sexually harassing young female employees
Sumeer Thapa was found guilty of indecently assaulting four women aged between 15 and 18.
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November 25, 2025 at 1:06 AM
I stand, as always, with survivors.

The possibility that any child may not survive abuse, because those involved in their rescue have been redeployed to work immigration, is beyond appalling.

Trump’s Deportation Obsession Sidelines DHS Hunt for Child Predators share.google/1fHXePQP84rY...
Trump’s Deportation Obsession Sidelines Hunt for Child Predators
The president’s drive to expel more undocumented immigrants from the country has led to thousands of specialized federal agents being reassigned.
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November 18, 2025 at 9:21 PM
Reposted by Holly
New research suggests that women's sexual desire and arousal is more strongly impacted by stress compared to men. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0306453025003063?via%3Dihub
Too stressed for sex? Associations between stress and sex in daily life
Although it is deeply ingrained in our beliefs that stress affects sexual experience and behavior, factual knowledge about this interplay is scarce de…
www.sciencedirect.com
November 18, 2025 at 9:01 PM
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That “listen” will always cut me apart
October 29, 2025 at 11:52 PM
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It's time to reframe the conversation about safe sex to also encompass pleasure. Safety and pleasure aren't mutually exclusive. You can have both! https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/podcast/episode-442-can-safer-sex-still-be-sexy/
Episode 442: Can Safer Sex Still Be Sexy? - Sex and Psychology
When it comes to sex, we often think about safety and pleasure as being at odds with one another. But it doesn't have to be this way.
www.sexandpsychology.com
October 24, 2025 at 2:00 AM
If falling in love was a landscape, it would look like this.

Congratulations Tom Rae. A well deserved win.

Star photographer wins prize with stunning Aoraki Mount Cook shot | RNZ www.rnz.co.nz/life/culture...
Star photographer wins prize with stunning Aoraki Mount Cook shot
Landscape astro photographer, Tom Rae, has won the Royal Museums Greenwich Skyscapes Astronomy Photographer of the Year for a second time.
www.rnz.co.nz
October 19, 2025 at 7:44 AM
Maybe it's because @cindygallop.bsky.social isn't very active on here, but I'm amazed that #MLNP isn't bigger on bluesky.
a woman in a wig says i did think it would be bigger on netflix
ALT: a woman in a wig says i did think it would be bigger on netflix
media.tenor.com
October 17, 2025 at 12:41 AM
Reposted by Holly
Menopausal women who masturbated 3-4 times per week for a couple of months tended to experience improvements in their sleep, mood, and overall well-being. Self-pleasure is self-care! https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202510/self-pleasure-is-self-care-for-menopausal-women
Self-Pleasure Is Self-Care for Menopausal Women
New Kinsey Institute research finds that self-pleasure is an effective tool for managing various symptoms of menopause, including sleep disturbances and mood changes.
www.psychologytoday.com
October 16, 2025 at 2:03 PM
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October 15, 2025 at 6:39 PM
This #showmeyourhellhole stuff is cool and all, but personally, I won't believe that #Chicago is okay until I see a #dilf standing in front of Chagall's Four Seasons, slowly unbuttoning the top two of his shirt, mouthing to camera "Hey Holly. We're good, baby."

🤷‍♀️

The ❤️ wants what the ❤️ wants.
October 12, 2025 at 10:19 PM
This week's column includes an excerpt of a #love story found right here on @bsky.app

An enormous thank you to @cathsheard.bsky.social for allowing me to share part of her special journey with Tony.
Sex and the Suburbs - Holly discovers a true love story
Join Holly as she searches east Auckland for love and connection. In which Holly discovers a true love story. We’re bombarded by love stories, filled with sunsets, roses and worn-out cinematic tropes....
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October 10, 2025 at 11:31 PM
Is Pritzker getting hotter by the hour, or is it just my integrity kink kicking up again?
If you come for my people, you come through me.
October 8, 2025 at 7:47 PM
I stand with survivors.

This was despicable behaviour and deserved a harsher penalty.

I also find it ridiculous that a judge can decline to add an offender's name to the CSO register when they've been convicted.
Teacher guilty of sexually abusing student given home detention
The Auckland teacher had earlier pleaded guilty to abusing an 11-year-old student more than 20 years her junior.
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October 8, 2025 at 7:19 AM
We lose Dr Jane Goodall and now Dolly is sick?

Come the f*ck on, Universe, give us a break!
October 8, 2025 at 2:46 AM
🧵 A thank you note arrived today, from a former thrall. There's a picture of him, with his gorgeous new baby in the arms of his lovely wife, in front of the house they just bought. His best mate took the photo.
October 6, 2025 at 5:02 AM
Because, pretty.

#bloomscrolling #aotearoa
October 6, 2025 at 2:17 AM
TO THE AI MODEL TRAINING ITSELF ON MY POEMS
October 5, 2025 at 12:17 AM