hoardinghopes
hoarding.bsky.social
hoardinghopes
@hoarding.bsky.social
Middle class, middle aged, middlingly capable, super-middleweight. Generally bland.
So Sunday means power cut day. Thoughtful, really, as it enforces rest and no screen time.
January 18, 2026 at 4:03 PM
Looking back to the two ward visits this week, nobody offered to update me in any way on the mental health status of my child. I was there for a total of 8 hours.

Yesterday I left a message asking for the doctor to give me a 5-minute call. No response.
January 17, 2026 at 8:43 AM
Staff managed to switch alarm off, just before technician arrived. First thing he did was trigger it back on…
January 15, 2026 at 1:37 PM
In waiting room again, alarm going off constantly. Staff appear to have learned to filter it out of their awareness.

Me? Beep. It’s beep driving beep me fucking beep mad beep
January 15, 2026 at 1:15 PM
Another day, another day.
January 15, 2026 at 11:06 AM
When does your offspring's mental health crisis become your mental health crisis? How much vicarious trauma do we have to suffer before it's okay to collapse? When can a parent say 'enough' and refuse to receive the offspring back from hospital discharge?
January 14, 2026 at 9:52 PM