Lighty
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YEAH EXACTLY
Like there has to be a bit of "hey I thought real hard about what to get u bc I care about u"
but I know that I'm quiiiite particular so a lot of the time I'd prefer people keep to my wish lists unless they know me real well
HOW DO I KNOW WHICH KIND OF PERSON SOMEONE IS
Like there has to be a bit of "hey I thought real hard about what to get u bc I care about u"
but I know that I'm quiiiite particular so a lot of the time I'd prefer people keep to my wish lists unless they know me real well
HOW DO I KNOW WHICH KIND OF PERSON SOMEONE IS
December 11, 2025 at 5:36 AM
YEAH EXACTLY
Like there has to be a bit of "hey I thought real hard about what to get u bc I care about u"
but I know that I'm quiiiite particular so a lot of the time I'd prefer people keep to my wish lists unless they know me real well
HOW DO I KNOW WHICH KIND OF PERSON SOMEONE IS
Like there has to be a bit of "hey I thought real hard about what to get u bc I care about u"
but I know that I'm quiiiite particular so a lot of the time I'd prefer people keep to my wish lists unless they know me real well
HOW DO I KNOW WHICH KIND OF PERSON SOMEONE IS
sometimes I feel like I do really well with gift giving bc I pay attention to and remember little things and think outside the box but
what if that's too weird. what if they're just being polite and pretending they like it bc it's rude to say they don't. WHAT IF I'M CONSISTENTLY MISSING THE MARK
what if that's too weird. what if they're just being polite and pretending they like it bc it's rude to say they don't. WHAT IF I'M CONSISTENTLY MISSING THE MARK
December 11, 2025 at 5:31 AM
sometimes I feel like I do really well with gift giving bc I pay attention to and remember little things and think outside the box but
what if that's too weird. what if they're just being polite and pretending they like it bc it's rude to say they don't. WHAT IF I'M CONSISTENTLY MISSING THE MARK
what if that's too weird. what if they're just being polite and pretending they like it bc it's rude to say they don't. WHAT IF I'M CONSISTENTLY MISSING THE MARK
I had to depression nap bc I was about to break down in tears on the way home
idk how to tell them I am BEYOND my limit after just a week and a half of 10m appointments every other day
I leave every appointment feeling so unheard while they toss me back and forth instead of talking to each other
idk how to tell them I am BEYOND my limit after just a week and a half of 10m appointments every other day
I leave every appointment feeling so unheard while they toss me back and forth instead of talking to each other
December 11, 2025 at 2:40 AM
I had to depression nap bc I was about to break down in tears on the way home
idk how to tell them I am BEYOND my limit after just a week and a half of 10m appointments every other day
I leave every appointment feeling so unheard while they toss me back and forth instead of talking to each other
idk how to tell them I am BEYOND my limit after just a week and a half of 10m appointments every other day
I leave every appointment feeling so unheard while they toss me back and forth instead of talking to each other
goddamn is there degen drama
I'd literally never heard of them until I got the DM about being a finalist
I have Opinions™ about the event itself but I didn't want to come across as petty 🫣
I'd literally never heard of them until I got the DM about being a finalist
I have Opinions™ about the event itself but I didn't want to come across as petty 🫣
December 11, 2025 at 12:54 AM
goddamn is there degen drama
I'd literally never heard of them until I got the DM about being a finalist
I have Opinions™ about the event itself but I didn't want to come across as petty 🫣
I'd literally never heard of them until I got the DM about being a finalist
I have Opinions™ about the event itself but I didn't want to come across as petty 🫣
do you think they'll accept "I can't come today i have to do breathing exercises while hugging the toilet rn" is a valid excuse when "you couldn't call me because I get no signal in my house" wasn't
...bleeegh
...bleeegh
December 10, 2025 at 7:43 AM
do you think they'll accept "I can't come today i have to do breathing exercises while hugging the toilet rn" is a valid excuse when "you couldn't call me because I get no signal in my house" wasn't
...bleeegh
...bleeegh
I get that, I went through almost every anti-depressant a non-speciallist could prescribe before I found the one I'm on now, definitely gives you a feeling of "oh, okay, this is never gonna get better!"
they tried to take me off it in favour of one of the migraine meds I'm on at one point :)
they tried to take me off it in favour of one of the migraine meds I'm on at one point :)
December 10, 2025 at 3:04 AM
I get that, I went through almost every anti-depressant a non-speciallist could prescribe before I found the one I'm on now, definitely gives you a feeling of "oh, okay, this is never gonna get better!"
they tried to take me off it in favour of one of the migraine meds I'm on at one point :)
they tried to take me off it in favour of one of the migraine meds I'm on at one point :)
they barely want me to take medications that work for 2 years let alone wait for one to start working that long, bruh
December 10, 2025 at 2:34 AM
they barely want me to take medications that work for 2 years let alone wait for one to start working that long, bruh
I didn't intend to make it to 25 yet somehow I'm still here so I'm just. along for the ride at this point.
December 10, 2025 at 2:31 AM
I didn't intend to make it to 25 yet somehow I'm still here so I'm just. along for the ride at this point.
I'm on two preventitives that if two migraines in the past three days is anything to go by, don't quite cut it 😅
but at the same time they refuse to try me on botox just yet because the long term side effects aren't well known 🤷♀️
but at the same time they refuse to try me on botox just yet because the long term side effects aren't well known 🤷♀️
December 10, 2025 at 2:26 AM
I'm on two preventitives that if two migraines in the past three days is anything to go by, don't quite cut it 😅
but at the same time they refuse to try me on botox just yet because the long term side effects aren't well known 🤷♀️
but at the same time they refuse to try me on botox just yet because the long term side effects aren't well known 🤷♀️
For the most part I just think "I wasn't intending to make it that far anyway" and/or "can it just happen quicker and take me tf out"
but that is still pondering it quite a bit, even if it's in a blasé way
but that is still pondering it quite a bit, even if it's in a blasé way
December 10, 2025 at 12:35 AM
For the most part I just think "I wasn't intending to make it that far anyway" and/or "can it just happen quicker and take me tf out"
but that is still pondering it quite a bit, even if it's in a blasé way
but that is still pondering it quite a bit, even if it's in a blasé way
(yes I do have a migraine right now. how did u guess.)
December 10, 2025 at 12:30 AM
(yes I do have a migraine right now. how did u guess.)
was about the same time I started getting proper migraines, too. All in all it's made me pretty weary of taking painkillers unless it's bad. like 5+/10 pain (or 4 if I'm about to sleep, always seems to make it way worse without)
I unno. just something I think about a lot.
I unno. just something I think about a lot.
December 10, 2025 at 12:29 AM
was about the same time I started getting proper migraines, too. All in all it's made me pretty weary of taking painkillers unless it's bad. like 5+/10 pain (or 4 if I'm about to sleep, always seems to make it way worse without)
I unno. just something I think about a lot.
I unno. just something I think about a lot.
when I was in college I had a SEVERE vitamin D deficiency (british moment) that manifested as chronic pain and fatigue so bad I'd get medication overuse headaches from painkillers and I'd have to weigh up if the pain I was in that moment was worse than the headache I'd get later or not
December 10, 2025 at 12:29 AM
when I was in college I had a SEVERE vitamin D deficiency (british moment) that manifested as chronic pain and fatigue so bad I'd get medication overuse headaches from painkillers and I'd have to weigh up if the pain I was in that moment was worse than the headache I'd get later or not