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Pray about it, then be about it. Proud 🇭🇹🇭🇹... Bklyn Girl...Lawyer...Seeking joy in all the things.
Literally just got off a consultation call to start planning for my parents. Don't wait until shit hits the fan. I'm already exhausted from learning about trusts options, how to tax plan, Medicaid considerations, etc.
guys, we all need an estate plan. please let's work on that for 2026. especially the medical directives. if you know you don't want to live like a vegetable, at least give your loved ones or your man hoochie instructions on how to care for you.
January 15, 2026 at 7:27 PM
Literally just got off a consultation call to start planning for my parents. Don't wait until shit hits the fan. I'm already exhausted from learning about trusts options, how to tax plan, Medicaid considerations, etc.
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I’m just saying that if he had a show where he toured the whole US and spotlighted the different ways that we (Black folks) live, and where that rhymes with his experience in Melenasia
I would be seated.
I would be seated.
Big New Zealand is in Jackson, Mississippi and got into his hard hitting documentary bag! This is some top tier quality cultural anthropology and foreign exchange journalism. Coming from the other side of the world and completely different culture and still connecting to the realities on the ground.
January 14, 2026 at 6:02 PM
I’m just saying that if he had a show where he toured the whole US and spotlighted the different ways that we (Black folks) live, and where that rhymes with his experience in Melenasia
I would be seated.
I would be seated.
I love how delighted I am by this.
For anyone wondering why I spent so much time baking last summer....here's why!
Airs Feb 1
Airs Feb 1
January 13, 2026 at 7:14 PM
I love how delighted I am by this.
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There is NOTHING that is "too extreme" to put on the table if we want to recover from the USA's 21st century authoritarian decline. We need to stop acting like major change is untenable because the major changes have already happened and that's why we're here. We need a VASTLY reformed government.
January 7, 2026 at 5:29 PM
There is NOTHING that is "too extreme" to put on the table if we want to recover from the USA's 21st century authoritarian decline. We need to stop acting like major change is untenable because the major changes have already happened and that's why we're here. We need a VASTLY reformed government.
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Abolish ICE.
Matter of fact, abolish the entire Department of Homeland Security. We didn't need it before 9/11 and it's done nothing but facilitate authoritarian power grabs ever since.
Matter of fact, abolish the entire Department of Homeland Security. We didn't need it before 9/11 and it's done nothing but facilitate authoritarian power grabs ever since.
January 7, 2026 at 5:22 PM
Abolish ICE.
Matter of fact, abolish the entire Department of Homeland Security. We didn't need it before 9/11 and it's done nothing but facilitate authoritarian power grabs ever since.
Matter of fact, abolish the entire Department of Homeland Security. We didn't need it before 9/11 and it's done nothing but facilitate authoritarian power grabs ever since.
LOL I stopped dating guys who were in the military after this happened to me. I was appalled!
lol he declared he wanted to marry me after knowing me for one week. I was disgusted.
Girls get the ick over the weirdest things..
And that shit is HILARIOUS.
And that shit is HILARIOUS.
January 7, 2026 at 3:44 AM
LOL I stopped dating guys who were in the military after this happened to me. I was appalled!
First day of the yearback at work and first PTO request of the year submitted and approved. 🙏🏾🙌🏾
January 5, 2026 at 10:44 PM
First day of the yearback at work and first PTO request of the year submitted and approved. 🙏🏾🙌🏾
I'm getting real creative in how I say "Happy New Year" in these initial emails of the year. I must clearly be in a good mood/feeling rested. We will see how long that lasts lol
January 5, 2026 at 6:50 PM
I'm getting real creative in how I say "Happy New Year" in these initial emails of the year. I must clearly be in a good mood/feeling rested. We will see how long that lasts lol
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Millennials are living through another year of more "unprecedented times"
a young boy is sitting at a table with his eyes closed and his hand on a plate .
ALT: a young boy is sitting at a table with his eyes closed and his hand on a plate .
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January 3, 2026 at 8:57 PM
Millennials are living through another year of more "unprecedented times"
WTF is north, south, east, and west?!? You want me to go left or right?? Go straight or go in the opposite direction?? I'm so in awe of people who can figure this out wherever they are.
Idgaf about what you’re good at. Tell me you suck at no matter what? I am thee worst troubleshooter on planet earth. An infant could set up WiFi faster than me😂
January 2, 2026 at 8:38 PM
WTF is north, south, east, and west?!? You want me to go left or right?? Go straight or go in the opposite direction?? I'm so in awe of people who can figure this out wherever they are.
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We do NOT need to make more money.
The cost of living needs to be DRAMATICALLY lowered to what it used to be.
Like fuck. Can we please stop living in a “chase the bag” mantra-like society?
WE ARE TIRED
The cost of living needs to be DRAMATICALLY lowered to what it used to be.
Like fuck. Can we please stop living in a “chase the bag” mantra-like society?
WE ARE TIRED
January 2, 2026 at 5:39 AM
We do NOT need to make more money.
The cost of living needs to be DRAMATICALLY lowered to what it used to be.
Like fuck. Can we please stop living in a “chase the bag” mantra-like society?
WE ARE TIRED
The cost of living needs to be DRAMATICALLY lowered to what it used to be.
Like fuck. Can we please stop living in a “chase the bag” mantra-like society?
WE ARE TIRED
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In 2026 I want all of the decent people to remember one thing.
You aren’t meant to be this disciplined, this self-sacrificing to survive. The environment is supposed to support good living. We can have that. You are not a failure. That is politics.
That is all.
You aren’t meant to be this disciplined, this self-sacrificing to survive. The environment is supposed to support good living. We can have that. You are not a failure. That is politics.
That is all.
January 1, 2026 at 10:30 PM
In 2026 I want all of the decent people to remember one thing.
You aren’t meant to be this disciplined, this self-sacrificing to survive. The environment is supposed to support good living. We can have that. You are not a failure. That is politics.
That is all.
You aren’t meant to be this disciplined, this self-sacrificing to survive. The environment is supposed to support good living. We can have that. You are not a failure. That is politics.
That is all.
Immensely grateful to be ending the year with one of my besties. Grateful for friendship. Grateful for love. Grateful for life. No idea what the year has ahead, but I'm grateful for the happiness we're feeling as we close out the year.
January 1, 2026 at 2:00 AM
Immensely grateful to be ending the year with one of my besties. Grateful for friendship. Grateful for love. Grateful for life. No idea what the year has ahead, but I'm grateful for the happiness we're feeling as we close out the year.
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It’s airport rules today. Eat a burger at 10 am. Have 5 mimosas. Time isn’t real.
Do what you want just don’t get arrested.
Do what you want just don’t get arrested.
December 31, 2025 at 6:15 PM
It’s airport rules today. Eat a burger at 10 am. Have 5 mimosas. Time isn’t real.
Do what you want just don’t get arrested.
Do what you want just don’t get arrested.
I love that my college girlfriends and I are still yappers when we hop on the phone and/or go to dinner. If that properly makes us old, than here we are 😂
an elderly woman is sitting in a chair holding a cup and saucer
ALT: an elderly woman is sitting in a chair holding a cup and saucer
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December 30, 2025 at 2:28 AM
I love that my college girlfriends and I are still yappers when we hop on the phone and/or go to dinner. If that properly makes us old, than here we are 😂
One of my aunts really got into Kwanzaa a few years ago. So now she has us get together to eat, learn about the principles, and fellowship on one of the weekend days. Without the pressure of gifting, it's really become one of my fave ways for us to get together during the holiday season.
December 29, 2025 at 5:09 AM
One of my aunts really got into Kwanzaa a few years ago. So now she has us get together to eat, learn about the principles, and fellowship on one of the weekend days. Without the pressure of gifting, it's really become one of my fave ways for us to get together during the holiday season.
Went ahead and cancelled tomorrow's brunch plans. Went to the gym and finished my big weekend errands. Got a pizza delivered. Showered and onesie on.
I am all in for my snow evening/snowday, and will resume socializing on Sunday.
I am all in for my snow evening/snowday, and will resume socializing on Sunday.
December 26, 2025 at 11:50 PM
Went ahead and cancelled tomorrow's brunch plans. Went to the gym and finished my big weekend errands. Got a pizza delivered. Showered and onesie on.
I am all in for my snow evening/snowday, and will resume socializing on Sunday.
I am all in for my snow evening/snowday, and will resume socializing on Sunday.
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He also regularly beat people up! Left fist named Grace. Right fist named Mercy. 🥳
Merry Christmas and friendly reminder that Jesus was a brown, woke, anti-capitalist refugee from the Middle East who had two dads, became a rabbi, wore flowing dresses, ran around with sex workers, preached radical inclusion, railed against income inequality, and was brutally killed by the police.
December 25, 2025 at 5:05 PM
He also regularly beat people up! Left fist named Grace. Right fist named Mercy. 🥳
Got the two things I wanted today: to sleep in and a Knicks win.
Merry Knicksmas to you and yours!!
Merry Knicksmas to you and yours!!
December 25, 2025 at 7:52 PM
Got the two things I wanted today: to sleep in and a Knicks win.
Merry Knicksmas to you and yours!!
Merry Knicksmas to you and yours!!
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All we want for Christmas is an "opt out of Al" button on everything.
December 24, 2025 at 3:09 PM
All we want for Christmas is an "opt out of Al" button on everything.
I was asked to join the board of a well-sized nonprofit, and I feel like I unlocked a new level of adulting. Am I not still a child?? Y'all want *me* in the room making decisions? Y'all see me as a leader? Wow, I'm both honored and terrified. 😂😂
December 23, 2025 at 6:11 PM
I was asked to join the board of a well-sized nonprofit, and I feel like I unlocked a new level of adulting. Am I not still a child?? Y'all want *me* in the room making decisions? Y'all see me as a leader? Wow, I'm both honored and terrified. 😂😂
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When we say "I know XYZ hates to see me coming," this is how I imagine XYZ looking lol
December 20, 2025 at 4:08 PM
When we say "I know XYZ hates to see me coming," this is how I imagine XYZ looking lol
I just had a meeting scheduled for Tuesday morning, and I'm both confused and furious. Please - what are we all doing?!?! This is not okay!! We are not okay!!!
Why is no one circling back ⭕️😩
My vacation starts Friday and I already know I’ll be checking on tasks a couple of days during my vacation.
2025 is really dragging us right up to the last minute.
#CircleBack
My vacation starts Friday and I already know I’ll be checking on tasks a couple of days during my vacation.
2025 is really dragging us right up to the last minute.
#CircleBack
December 18, 2025 at 7:57 PM
I just had a meeting scheduled for Tuesday morning, and I'm both confused and furious. Please - what are we all doing?!?! This is not okay!! We are not okay!!!
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Wow. The Oscars are one of the only non-NFL/NBA live TV "events" that still gets a genuine, national, mass audience.
Seeing them go off broadcast TV and on Google Tube instead is another nail in the coffin for linear TV.
Seeing them go off broadcast TV and on Google Tube instead is another nail in the coffin for linear TV.
LOS ANGELES (AP) — The Oscars will move to YouTube in 2029, departing the film awards' longtime home of ABC.
December 17, 2025 at 6:10 PM
Wow. The Oscars are one of the only non-NFL/NBA live TV "events" that still gets a genuine, national, mass audience.
Seeing them go off broadcast TV and on Google Tube instead is another nail in the coffin for linear TV.
Seeing them go off broadcast TV and on Google Tube instead is another nail in the coffin for linear TV.
The Knicks just won a trophy in my lifetime...
Is it the LOB? No.
Do I care? Not really.
Am I having an outsized reaction? Absolutely, Im a Knicks fan.
Is this one of the most important nights of my fandom? Yes.
Am I now convinced that we bringing home that LOB next summer? Also, yes.
😭😭😭
Is it the LOB? No.
Do I care? Not really.
Am I having an outsized reaction? Absolutely, Im a Knicks fan.
Is this one of the most important nights of my fandom? Yes.
Am I now convinced that we bringing home that LOB next summer? Also, yes.
😭😭😭
December 17, 2025 at 4:11 AM
The Knicks just won a trophy in my lifetime...
Is it the LOB? No.
Do I care? Not really.
Am I having an outsized reaction? Absolutely, Im a Knicks fan.
Is this one of the most important nights of my fandom? Yes.
Am I now convinced that we bringing home that LOB next summer? Also, yes.
😭😭😭
Is it the LOB? No.
Do I care? Not really.
Am I having an outsized reaction? Absolutely, Im a Knicks fan.
Is this one of the most important nights of my fandom? Yes.
Am I now convinced that we bringing home that LOB next summer? Also, yes.
😭😭😭