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ebthen.bsky.social
Eb
@ebthen.bsky.social
That Eb.

Stuff-Doer. Autistic. ADHD. ND. (More). Disabled. Disability Justice. A-spec. Filipino-USian. They/Them.

Esme and Bella live here.

Justice before civility.

Actually didn't say that thing you probably heard I said.

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Bella turned 7 last month.
November 21, 2025 at 3:52 AM
Wow so today I met a horrible person on here.
November 19, 2025 at 7:06 PM
Well that's a choice. Explains a lot.

The goddamn Narrative I stg.

Being punished for years for things I never actually said.
November 16, 2025 at 5:37 PM
With alt text because that's how we do here.
November 5, 2025 at 2:24 AM
The fifth horror, though.

It wasn't either of the gorls.

It was these terrors.
November 1, 2025 at 12:29 AM
TBH there would have been more photos of Esme except the fourth horror was that she mostly posed like this every few feet for the whole walk.
November 1, 2025 at 12:24 AM
The third horror was Esme—or at least she was to one of the five children we encountered on our apparently-too-early walk around the neighborhood. The toddler was crying "No, daddy, no dog." His sister, also a toddler, was more pleased to see Esme.
November 1, 2025 at 12:22 AM
To be fair, it was horrifying to her that I took her away from her dinner to try to get her costume photos.

And she decided costume or no she was going to finish her food. But the second horror was that her wings got in the way of accessing her food.
November 1, 2025 at 12:17 AM
Halloween Horrors 2025

(or, It's My 40th Birthday and You Can Wear a Costume for 15 Minutes)

The first horror was Bella's.
November 1, 2025 at 12:13 AM
Stop Doomscrolling Dog III
How to Turn Off AutoScroll

starring
Bella the Boss
October 31, 2025 at 1:28 AM
At the end of August, Esme turned 5.
October 30, 2025 at 3:13 AM
Outbreak.
October 28, 2025 at 8:29 PM
Bella was not thrilled about going for her nail trim and teeth brushing today but she did get a cute bow out of it from her groomer because it's her birthday.

She also had no intentions of sticking around and marched us right out of the store afterward.
October 23, 2025 at 1:20 AM
Anyway dogs are too good to be cops and also I always think of the part of Hogfather where Mr. Brown explains how to evade the Watch after doing a theft.
October 15, 2025 at 12:07 AM
With alt text.
October 11, 2025 at 5:00 AM
Came across this and like...

okay first you have to start with understanding that the formal ASD dx is somewhat useful and somewhat bullshit.

It's not based on anyone's internal experience of being Autistic.

It's based on what bothers non-Autistic people about Autistic people.
October 3, 2025 at 6:41 PM
I mean...
October 2, 2025 at 3:20 AM
TBH a lot of dispensationalism reads like a sort of "told you so"/revenge scenario toward Jews for initially "rejecting" Christ.

This is a quote from evangelical historian Timothy Weber taken from his book Living in the Shadow of the Second Coming: American Premillennialism 1875-1925:
September 23, 2025 at 6:59 AM
Transcript including description of the Aaron Glenn celebration video.
September 21, 2025 at 8:47 PM
Contrary to what the person who really wanted to argue with me today was claiming, the WHATWG living standard does make it clear that the alt attribute can only be used on specific elements.

This becomes obvious in the section explaining the layout.

Source: html.spec.whatwg.org/multipage/do...
August 30, 2025 at 3:25 PM
The name for the ideology described here is healthism.

The term is roughly 45 years old.

Source: www.library.wisc.edu/gwslibrarian...
August 25, 2025 at 5:25 PM
If you're unfamiliar with FDR's Fireside Chats, they were a strategic program of communicating his decisions and principles directly to the public.

He used the radio for that for a specific reason.
August 23, 2025 at 4:55 PM
I read it so you don't have to and it's Trumpist hypocrisy about wanting us to have access to All the Products because safety standards reduce our choices. Because folks definitely want to choose the death products.

Link to CPSC announcement: www.cpsc.gov/Newsroom/New...
August 21, 2025 at 5:23 AM
This is the full quote. It's from episode four of Hurricane Katrina: Race Against Time.
August 10, 2025 at 11:32 PM
FYI according to the most recent data, in the most affordable state (West Virginia), a single adult with no children needs an income of at least $80,829 to live comfortably.

Source: smartasset.com/data-studies...
August 8, 2025 at 7:36 AM