SwipedOut
datingwhatsleft.bsky.social
SwipedOut
@datingwhatsleft.bsky.social
40s F | Straight | Professional
Dating the “what’s left” and documenting the aftermath.
Shark-infested waters. No lifeguard on duty.
Mostly horror, sometimes humor.
Occasional public service announcements for men trying not to give women the "ick"
WWIII will be officially started if the US invades Greenland
www.theguardian.com/world/2026/j...
France and allies discuss response to possible US invasion of Greenland
French, German and Polish foreign ministers to meet amid escalating threats to seize part of Danish kingdom
www.theguardian.com
January 7, 2026 at 1:06 PM
I went on a date with this guy and we hit it off . Second date I found out his political views are MAGA-lite and yeah I simply cannot.
It really does matter more than I realized, especially in this climate.
If our views cannot align over rejecting cruel policies the match is not viable.😔
November 25, 2025 at 10:12 PM
So I got tired of the dating apps which mostly feel like sorting through trash these days. So I am trying a pid professional match maker. Let's see how this goes .
October 14, 2025 at 2:47 PM
We the people have way more power than we realize. These corporations only understand the language of money. Hit them in the pockets and all of a sudden they recognize free speech again.
www.hollywoodreporter.com/tv/tv-news/j...
Jimmy Kimmel to Return to ABC on Tuesday After Show’s Controversial Suspension
The Walt Disney company in a new statement says the move was made "to avoid further inflaming a tense situation at an emotional moment for our country."
www.hollywoodreporter.com
September 22, 2025 at 8:09 PM
I went on date with a man who asked me if I had prepared myself for marriage . I asked him why he said because he is looking for a woman who is ready to be a wife and take care of him and his household.
I laughed and laughed and laughed. There is arsenic in the dating pool .
a woman in a floral shirt is laughing with the fox logo in the background
ALT: a woman in a floral shirt is laughing with the fox logo in the background
media.tenor.com
September 3, 2025 at 11:35 AM
A man I had been on two dates with started slow ghosting because he felt I wasn't texting or calling enough LMAO. Is this what men are doing now?
You text too much you are a clinger, you reciprocate appropriately to the stage of dating and you are not interested enough.
Boy bye !
August 11, 2025 at 1:06 AM
Excessive use of force by police especially towards Black and Brown people is too rampant. some measure of progress is always welcome
NEW: Despite being caught in a 2021 video ripping out Shantel Arnold’s hair, sheriff’s Deputy Julio Alvarado failed to report the incident.

A new law authored by Arnold’s attorney will mandate excessive-force reporting for all law enforcement agencies.

@richardawebster.bsky.social @veritenews.org
Four Years After Cop Was Filmed Slamming Black Woman to the Ground, Louisiana Passes Accountability Law
Despite being caught in a 2021 video ripping out Shantel Arnold’s hair, sheriff’s Deputy Julio Alvarado failed to report the incident. A new law authored by Arnold’s attorney will mandate excessive-fo...
www.propublica.org
July 23, 2025 at 3:10 PM
Sometimes breaking the mould and dating someone who is not your "type" can be full of surprises. There's beauty in difference and sometimes it's just the complementing piece you needed yet kept ignoring 😊.
July 14, 2025 at 5:06 PM
I think these men are using chatgpt to text when you match with them on dating apps because when you meet them in person they suddenly have no conversation to offer.😏
July 9, 2025 at 4:22 PM
Don't let people rush you, do things at your own pace and on your own time. If they don't respect your boundaries it is a them problem not a you problem.
July 2, 2025 at 12:18 PM
Men, please compliment your date.
It's okay to tell her she looks nice or she looks pretty.
It wouldn't make her "big headed" or whatever crap the dime a dozen dating advice quacks on tik Tok tell you it will do.
It simply communicates that you are a kind and observant and man who compliments women
June 15, 2025 at 11:42 PM
This shit right here is called fascism
Kristi Noem: "We are not going away. We are staying here to liberate the city from the socialists and the burdensome leadership that this governor and that this mayor have placed on this country and what they have tried to insert into the city."

Sen. Alex Padilla is then forcibly removed!
June 12, 2025 at 7:09 PM
Capital punishment is barbaric and should be abolished. PERIOD
www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025...
US to put four prisoners to death this week as Trump pushes for executions
Killings scheduled in Alabama, Florida, Oklahoma and South Carolina despite concern over states’ methods
www.theguardian.com
June 10, 2025 at 4:58 PM
I asked #Chatgpt this question -
Hey #Elon Musk is Fighting with #Trump via their respective social media platforms what break up advice would you give them? 😂
The answer = cheesy hilarious
June 5, 2025 at 8:03 PM
Almost half way through 2025 - Hope June is a less chaotic month. We all deserve a break from the ridiculous news cycle.
June 1, 2025 at 10:59 AM
Labeling yourself as apolitical or non-political on a dating app profile is just another way to say you are conservative and probably voted for Trump and do not want that to disqualify you as a potential date for most sane people🤷‍♀️
May 28, 2025 at 12:00 PM
If they ghost you, do not waste time wondering why. Thank the universe you avoided a red flag and focus your energy on people who actually want to invest tie in being with you.
Return the same energy that they give you.
May 24, 2025 at 1:49 AM
This weekend remember to add "yourself" to the list of things to take care of .
May 24, 2025 at 1:30 AM
This is actually great for the league.
Horrible for TV ratings because who is going to tune in for a pacers vs. okc final? Let's be real
Their fans maybe but beyond that, not much national appeal
Last NBA title:

Knicks - 1973
Pacers - Never
Wolves - Never
Thunder - Never
May 19, 2025 at 2:22 AM
Why do hetero men like holding up dead fish in their dating profile pictures? Who told y'all that holding up the catch of the day is attractive to women? And also multiple pics with other women? if you are not poly or ENM how is that even a thing? Do the women know u are using their pic on hinge?
May 18, 2025 at 11:53 AM
Am I the only one who is absolutely terrified to fly right now? Because WTF is going on with these air traffic controllers systems malfunctioning?
I'd like to know what Musk's DOGE did to our FAA computer systems!Air traffic controllers in Denver lost communications with planes around that major airport for 90 seconds earlier on Monday and had to scramble to use backup frequencies.

abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory...
Air traffic controllers in Denver scramble to use backups after losing comms Monday
Air traffic controllers in Denver had to scramble to use backup frequencies after their main communications lines went down for 90 seconds earlier this week in the latest Federal Aviation Administrati...
abcnews.go.com
May 15, 2025 at 8:56 PM
It's easily one of my fave podcasts to listen to currently. I am glad she continues to be in the public eye. Love her.
www.theguardian.com/news/2025/ma...
Michelle Obama 2.0 – the reinvention of the former first lady
The launch of her new podcast coincides with an edgier image and a relatable authenticity
www.theguardian.com
May 14, 2025 at 6:59 PM
I matched w a guy on a dating app. We chatted a bit, he asked me out on a date. I am only available in about a 10 days or so because I'm a busy woman. We agreed to a date, he then texts me to make sure I reach out to remind him of said date two days beforehand. I mean... they are not even trying.
😂
May 8, 2025 at 2:37 PM
Reposted by SwipedOut
I wrote "The Trial" on June 11, 2021, the day Darnell's Frazier—an 18 year old Black girl— received an honorary Pulitzer Prize for her video of George Floyd being murdered by those cops. Today, though, I share it because I’m struck by how it applies to Tyre Nichols as well.
May 7, 2025 at 9:57 PM