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Becca Dax
@beccadax.soincredibly.gay
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Possibly the only poly trans lesbian compiler engineer who’s never worked on Rust.

Fan writer (current obsession: works of Alyson Greaves). Basic Balmung miqo’te. Works on Swift at the fruit company.
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I couldn't care less about the Dallas vs. Kansas City matchup on TV, but I'm highly amused by the Dallas fan vs. Kansas City fan matchup in my uncle's living room.
Stacks of Chiefs and Cowboys napkins and plates sitting next to each other amongst trays of snacks.
November 27, 2025 at 9:22 PM
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Ten years. Don’t be afraid of the answers to the questions that haunt you.
Some sad sack of a dude in a baggy graphic tee, too-large jeans, sneakers, and a half-assed goatee. A woman in a navy blue dress and matching flats, wearing makeup, with blue and teal streaks in her hair. She’s actually smiling this time. The only thing that’s the same is her watch.
November 26, 2025 at 10:08 PM
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Having second thoughts about my social networking handles.
A person stands at a fork on the road. At the end of the left fork, a shining castle bathed in sunlight, labeled “The perfectly good domain name I already own”. At the right fork, a foreboding manor house in a lightning storm, labeled “Silly domain hacks”.
November 24, 2025 at 11:49 PM
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Running through this made me about 10% more certain that I’m demi-adjacent, because what's keeping me out of the far left corner is a strong lack of interest in casual sex.
A “nonmonogamy compass”, a chart where the horizontal axis is “interested in many/interested in one” and the vertical is “limits other/doesn’t limit other”. There’s a red dot that’s extremely skewed towards “doesn’t limit other” and somewhat towards “interested in many”.
November 22, 2025 at 4:15 AM
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2 Hormone replacement therapy has many nicknames among transfeminine people, including titty pills, titty skittles, smartitties, chicklets, anticistamines, mammary mints, life savers, tit tacs, breast mints, femme&m's, antiboyotics, trans-mission fluid, and the Notorious H.R.T.
November 17, 2025 at 9:47 AM
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“Catnip for Lesbians” in the style of the “Zohran for New York City” logo.
November 9, 2025 at 4:17 AM
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See, I was thinking more
Brant: @dog_rates your rating system sucks. Just change your name to "CuteDogs". WeRateDogs: @brant Why are you so mad Bront Brant: @dog_rates well you give every dog 11s and 12s. It doesn't even make any sense. WeRateDogs: @brant they're good dogs Brent
November 8, 2025 at 4:26 AM
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#finally github.com/swiftlang/sw...
beccadax merged commit 3939650 into swiftlang:main — 5 hours ago
October 29, 2025 at 3:58 AM
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FFXIV players: “Fucking Allagans.”
NASA CONFIRMS EARTH NOW HAS TWO MOONS UNTIL 2083 Discovered this year but traveling with us since the 1960s, the small asteroid will drift away in 2083
October 21, 2025 at 7:24 PM
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In case you're wondering how cursed the conversation with my girlfriend has gotten tonight.
You Wouldn’t Eat A Gagh Pizza
October 16, 2025 at 4:58 AM
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Thanks! Never let it be said that I don’t commit to the bit.
A row of curly hair extensions—five navy blue, four teal—laid out on a polished granite countertop.
October 12, 2025 at 6:03 PM
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2019 me: "You're shitting me."
Becca in a really nice navy blue dress.
October 11, 2025 at 11:03 PM
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Mirror selfie of a white woman whose curly black hair has a touch of purple on one side. She’s wearing a dark purple dress with a lacy diamond beneath the bust, light purple tights, and black leather calf boots and jacket. Her girlfriend says she’s beautiful.
October 10, 2025 at 5:52 AM
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Every laptop hopes to become an astronaut one day.
Two laptops on a Chinese space station. They’re both mounted to a wall with the screens open at a nearly 180-degree angle.
September 20, 2025 at 1:15 AM
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A doctor I trust more than RFK Jr.
Dr. Strangelove.
September 7, 2025 at 5:16 AM
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Fan art
Oil painting of Dido and Aeneas, among many other people Dido and Aeneas (Early 1700s) Nicolas Verkolye (Dutch, 1673-1746) Oil on canvas Taken from The Aeneid by the Roman poet Virgil (70-19 B.c.), this densely composed and theatrical scene portrays the arrival of the shipwrecked Trojan prince Aeneas at the court of Dido, the legendary queen and founder of the city of Carthage. Venus, who is portrayed in the upper right corner with Cupid, made Dido fall hopelessly in love with Aeneas. The episode ends sadly with Dido's suicide, prompted by Aeneas's inevitable departure.
September 4, 2025 at 10:08 PM
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Fan art
The Farewell of Telemachus and Eucharis, a 19th century oil painting of a mythological figure and a nymph The Farewell of Telemachus and Eucharis 1818 Jacques-Louis David French, 1748-1825 Oil on canvas This image of ideal love was inspired by a 1699 French novel based on characters from Homer's Odyssey. Telemachus, the son of Odysseus, falls in love with the nymph Eucharis. Filial duty, however, requires that he end their romance in order to search for his missing father. The bright reds and blues contrasting with the cool flesh tones, the clarity of line, and the polished forms are characteristic of David's late paintings.
September 4, 2025 at 8:06 PM
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if gay people had made this game the object would be to visit every member of your polycule
Frequent Flyer, a board game where you have to fly to 20 airports in a map of the United States.
August 30, 2025 at 5:32 AM
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Name a non-LOTR character who could resist the One Ring
Lieutenant Commander Data with Sherlock pipe firmly in mouth.
August 26, 2025 at 8:47 AM
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“Tantalus" (Gioacchino Assereto, oil painting, 17th century) except the fruits he’s reaching for have been replaced by pierogi.
August 17, 2025 at 2:51 AM
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August 15, 2025 at 9:21 PM
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FYI, Summer woke Persephone up about three hours ago because she *had* to tell her *immediately*. She’s still chattering excitedly while Persephone holds the comforter over her head.
Taylor Swift announces new album, 'The Life of a Showgirl'
August 12, 2025 at 7:40 AM
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My favorite Doctor and Companion.
Dr. Julian Bashir and Chief Miles O’Brien (Star Trek: Deep Space Nine)
August 9, 2025 at 9:45 AM
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She sure is lousy at telling anecdotes about her relationship to gender and sexuality…
“You’re really fine with it?” I was struggling to believe my first coming out — Ben, James and Sophie aside — was going well, considering I hadn’t prepared for it in the slightest. I’d had vague thoughts about assembling a PowerPoint presentation; clearly, it wouldn’t have been necessary. “Of course I am, Alex! I’m— I mean, my friend is— Damn. I’m falling over myself here.” She took my hand and squeezed it. “One of my friends is trans. Just like you. I mean, okay, she didn’t come out to herself while modelling a bloody dress on a bloody stand at a bloody trade show, but, you know, everyone’s coming out story is weird in its own way, right?” That seemed suggestive. “Do you have a coming out story?” She shrugged. “I’m bi. Kissed a— a girl in a school play.” She coughed, suddenly embarrassed. “I was, um, not supposed to. But she’d been giving me these looks all the way through rehearsal, and one thing led to another. Radical reinterpretation of Romeo & Juliet.”
August 7, 2025 at 12:38 AM
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I read this passage to @quephird.bsky.social and she called it “Sappho Tweet 13”.
I told him that I liked their stomachs. That I liked the way they played with their hair. I liked the way they would take off their shoes and socks to walk through the grass. I liked the way they were casually intimate with each other. I liked the part where the back of the thigh meets the curve of the butt (I’m not made of stone, sue me). I liked their collarbones and the way you can sometimes see their heartbeat against their skin if you’re close enough. I liked the way their hands looked holding a pen. I liked the sound of their laughter. I liked seeing their muscles move. I liked the way they put their hair behind their ear.
July 31, 2025 at 7:46 AM