bdeb37
@bdeb37.bsky.social
Writer / Poet ✍🏾
New York City, NY
📕Memories Dreams & Serenades -Out Now on Amazon
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New York City, NY
📕Memories Dreams & Serenades -Out Now on Amazon
https://a.co/d/6ja6Daf
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When people get angry when you’re trying to educate them instead of just leaning into receiving because they don’t know…
Please delete.
Please delete.
November 29, 2025 at 8:41 PM
When people get angry when you’re trying to educate them instead of just leaning into receiving because they don’t know…
Please delete.
Please delete.
“You shouldn’t feel that way”
But I’m telling you I do.
But I’m telling you I do.
November 29, 2025 at 4:28 AM
“You shouldn’t feel that way”
But I’m telling you I do.
But I’m telling you I do.
I feel like when you’re locked in and in love with someone, the opinions of other will matter less because the conversation in the end will just be “what do we think we should do that’s best for us?”
I’m not listening to relationship advice from single people and you shouldn’t either.
November 29, 2025 at 4:07 AM
I feel like when you’re locked in and in love with someone, the opinions of other will matter less because the conversation in the end will just be “what do we think we should do that’s best for us?”
I’ll let it play while backshots or whateva
November 29, 2025 at 4:03 AM
I’ll let it play while backshots or whateva
Cracked my neck (it surprised me how loud it was) in front of this lady and she told me to get a mouth guard to wear while sleeping, get into Pilates and to neck stretch more often.
November 29, 2025 at 4:02 AM
Cracked my neck (it surprised me how loud it was) in front of this lady and she told me to get a mouth guard to wear while sleeping, get into Pilates and to neck stretch more often.
Sometimes you do have to give 1/2 of yourself to survive in a world that only knows how to take.
I have to save some of myself for myself without feeling guilty.
I have to save some of myself for myself without feeling guilty.
November 29, 2025 at 2:38 AM
Sometimes you do have to give 1/2 of yourself to survive in a world that only knows how to take.
I have to save some of myself for myself without feeling guilty.
I have to save some of myself for myself without feeling guilty.
I’m allowed to feel & express to get closer to my desires. I have to stay open, even if it hurts sometimes.
November 29, 2025 at 2:35 AM
I’m allowed to feel & express to get closer to my desires. I have to stay open, even if it hurts sometimes.
I’m trying to get rid of the thinking that I’m always going to be 2nd. It’s hard when it seems like you’re only getting experiences that confirm it. Reminding myself that I don’t have to harden myself to move through pain.
November 29, 2025 at 2:35 AM
I’m trying to get rid of the thinking that I’m always going to be 2nd. It’s hard when it seems like you’re only getting experiences that confirm it. Reminding myself that I don’t have to harden myself to move through pain.
“Interesting. because by that same logic…”
-me winning an argument
-me winning an argument
November 29, 2025 at 2:30 AM
“Interesting. because by that same logic…”
-me winning an argument
-me winning an argument
self-worth won
lowkey wanna be gobblin’ (specific)
November 28, 2025 at 5:31 AM
self-worth won
Stack and Mary / Martin and Gina
November 28, 2025 at 4:54 AM
Stack and Mary / Martin and Gina
Now why you gonna pass it to me all wet like that??
November 28, 2025 at 4:11 AM
Now why you gonna pass it to me all wet like that??
lowkey wanna be gobblin’ (specific)
November 27, 2025 at 11:18 PM
lowkey wanna be gobblin’ (specific)
Saw a cute couple reel and almost threw my phone bc it was just so damn adorable. 😭
November 27, 2025 at 5:20 PM
Saw a cute couple reel and almost threw my phone bc it was just so damn adorable. 😭
If you ask me what time it is and I say Bernadine, just know it’s 7:32.
November 27, 2025 at 12:21 AM
If you ask me what time it is and I say Bernadine, just know it’s 7:32.
Gotta remember. The internet is forever.
November 26, 2025 at 11:46 PM
Gotta remember. The internet is forever.
Carrie would do all that thinking and racking her brain just to come up with pieces that ended with questions.
November 26, 2025 at 10:55 PM
Carrie would do all that thinking and racking her brain just to come up with pieces that ended with questions.
Sometimes before bed I hope for the sun to rise just close enough to obliterate us all but leaving just enough life for us to start over again and hopefully get it right.
Y’all ever wonder how long humanity will survive?
November 26, 2025 at 9:00 PM
Sometimes before bed I hope for the sun to rise just close enough to obliterate us all but leaving just enough life for us to start over again and hopefully get it right.
summer vs winter
You can tell when someone is trying to talk to you from an “omg I’m running out of time and I’m not married and I have no kids and I need to hurry up” energy vs.
“I really want to get to know YOU, and let’s take our time” energy.
“I really want to get to know YOU, and let’s take our time” energy.
November 25, 2025 at 10:30 PM
summer vs winter
friends sending me “caught you” screenshots
😭
😭
I feel like IG putting your avi with a heart on top of people's thirst traps is top tier messy. Like "following tab" messy..
November 25, 2025 at 10:28 PM
friends sending me “caught you” screenshots
😭
😭
“Thank you for your input. However, this is an internal process”
-Professionally telling someone to mind their business
-Professionally telling someone to mind their business
November 25, 2025 at 10:09 PM
“Thank you for your input. However, this is an internal process”
-Professionally telling someone to mind their business
-Professionally telling someone to mind their business
Some things just don’t change.
November 25, 2025 at 8:31 PM
Some things just don’t change.
“Ok, we’re going for a walk”
Want me to come along?
“Nah, just stay here”
Want me to come along?
“Nah, just stay here”
Just realized.
I’ve never been invited on one of those walks that people take on Thanksgiving. Just sitting there staring at the grandma. What’s that like?
I’ve never been invited on one of those walks that people take on Thanksgiving. Just sitting there staring at the grandma. What’s that like?
November 25, 2025 at 4:09 PM
“Ok, we’re going for a walk”
Want me to come along?
“Nah, just stay here”
Want me to come along?
“Nah, just stay here”