𖤓 shay | they/fae 𖤓
@aroacedyke.bsky.social
27, black aroace femme lesbian ꩜ novice photographer, neo hippie and nature enthusiast
I met up with friends today and walked around the local park. They've really really helped me this week. I love them. ♥️
November 27, 2025 at 6:36 PM
I met up with friends today and walked around the local park. They've really really helped me this week. I love them. ♥️
Aduna cacao has helped w my hot chocolate cravings. Oh my word.
November 27, 2025 at 6:34 PM
Aduna cacao has helped w my hot chocolate cravings. Oh my word.
Shoutout to ring fit adventure. Like seriously I'm seeing a tiny change in my body.
November 27, 2025 at 1:40 PM
Shoutout to ring fit adventure. Like seriously I'm seeing a tiny change in my body.
I never understood dungeons and dragons but my friend explained it perfectly for me by saying "you wouldn't get it as its mostly maths based". That explained it perfectly for me. Maths is my weakest subject.
November 26, 2025 at 7:14 PM
I never understood dungeons and dragons but my friend explained it perfectly for me by saying "you wouldn't get it as its mostly maths based". That explained it perfectly for me. Maths is my weakest subject.
I have a re assessment next week to determine whether or not I have psychosis. They already know I have disassociation issues so bad that I have gaps in my memory [why I took up photography]. I hope it goes somewhere.
November 26, 2025 at 7:11 PM
I have a re assessment next week to determine whether or not I have psychosis. They already know I have disassociation issues so bad that I have gaps in my memory [why I took up photography]. I hope it goes somewhere.
Meeeeeee !!!! I would mentally check out and get so overwhelmed 😭
Lovebombing would not work with me. Not because I'm too smart for it or anything, I'm dumb as shit, but because my avoidant attachment would kick in and go "I Do Not Like That."
November 26, 2025 at 7:03 PM
Meeeeeee !!!! I would mentally check out and get so overwhelmed 😭
Sugar free chocolate spread has left my stomach sounding like the intro to rack city
November 24, 2025 at 7:37 PM
Sugar free chocolate spread has left my stomach sounding like the intro to rack city
Ring fit adventure is so fun I didn't even notice how more toned my arms were until late last week.
November 24, 2025 at 7:36 PM
Ring fit adventure is so fun I didn't even notice how more toned my arms were until late last week.
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Do you remember this photo?
“Bliss” taken in 1996 in California by Charles O’Rear.
It became the default Windows XP wallpaper and probably the most seen picture ever.
“Bliss” taken in 1996 in California by Charles O’Rear.
It became the default Windows XP wallpaper and probably the most seen picture ever.
September 20, 2025 at 7:26 PM
Do you remember this photo?
“Bliss” taken in 1996 in California by Charles O’Rear.
It became the default Windows XP wallpaper and probably the most seen picture ever.
“Bliss” taken in 1996 in California by Charles O’Rear.
It became the default Windows XP wallpaper and probably the most seen picture ever.
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Today is Disabled Ace Day. First started in 2021 by Courtney Lane of the Ace Couples Podcast, it is a time to reflect on how marginalized and ignored Disabled Aces are in the broader discourse.
October 22, 2025 at 11:59 AM
Today is Disabled Ace Day. First started in 2021 by Courtney Lane of the Ace Couples Podcast, it is a time to reflect on how marginalized and ignored Disabled Aces are in the broader discourse.
Remembering this gorgeous raven I took in a local park this summer. I love all corvids. Alt text in photos. #ParkPhotography #Photography #Raven #Corvid
October 21, 2025 at 6:16 PM
Remembering this gorgeous raven I took in a local park this summer. I love all corvids. Alt text in photos. #ParkPhotography #Photography #Raven #Corvid
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I don't know who needs to hear this, but you can't self-love your way out of systemic discrimination.
October 20, 2025 at 12:06 PM
I don't know who needs to hear this, but you can't self-love your way out of systemic discrimination.
My allo Bisexual best friend is one of my biggest #Asexual allies, and she's probably my safe person to go to when I gay panic. I'm also a HUGE Bi defender, so it makes me happy knowing that she also sees me as a safe person too ♥️.
October 19, 2025 at 9:17 PM
My allo Bisexual best friend is one of my biggest #Asexual allies, and she's probably my safe person to go to when I gay panic. I'm also a HUGE Bi defender, so it makes me happy knowing that she also sees me as a safe person too ♥️.
I love cbd gummies. They make me feel like I'm on the rainbow road track, and I'm about to fall off.
October 19, 2025 at 9:15 PM
I love cbd gummies. They make me feel like I'm on the rainbow road track, and I'm about to fall off.
#AceWeek is needed because when I was in my early twenties, I was out as asexual, but I had such bad internalised aphobia, that I rejected being asexual, despite the feeling to open up about it being so strong. I soon fully came out and started being open about being asexual when I was around 23.
October 19, 2025 at 6:20 PM
#AceWeek is needed because when I was in my early twenties, I was out as asexual, but I had such bad internalised aphobia, that I rejected being asexual, despite the feeling to open up about it being so strong. I soon fully came out and started being open about being asexual when I was around 23.
![A pink pig [named Kevin] with a brown patch on his back is seen here looking to the right of the photo. There is some loose hay on the floor with a wooden pole just behind the pig. In the background there is a small patchy grass area with 3 tyres, a large grey bowl with some grass in it and a grey fence towards the back.](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:pw6vneksshhvy4yhcsxqcgbl/bafkreifqdohe7z5fu6bvw6cw4ik6v7fis3ooimtyhxgedwieml354522du@jpeg)
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How is it 2025 and people still don't understand that people on the asexual spectrum can have sex🤦 like would y'all go around telling people they aren't gay because they had sex with the opposite gender before they came out like really think about it before you say something ignorant
October 14, 2025 at 3:40 PM
How is it 2025 and people still don't understand that people on the asexual spectrum can have sex🤦 like would y'all go around telling people they aren't gay because they had sex with the opposite gender before they came out like really think about it before you say something ignorant
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We’ll also be using the occasion to raise money to secure AVEN’s future for the next 2 years and allow important upgrades to our software: see our fundraiser.
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Donate to Help keep AVEN running for the next two years!, organized by AVEN Project Team
For almost 25 years, AVEN has been working to help ace and aro people… AVEN Project Team needs your support for Help keep AVEN running for the next two years!
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October 13, 2025 at 6:41 PM
We’ll also be using the occasion to raise money to secure AVEN’s future for the next 2 years and allow important upgrades to our software: see our fundraiser.
www.gofundme.com/f/aven-needs...
www.gofundme.com/f/aven-needs...
Changed my url bc I'm indesicive
September 19, 2025 at 9:41 AM
Changed my url bc I'm indesicive
Ps if any of my #asexual, #aroace and #aromantic friends remember mossyfemme on twitter it's me! I ditched that app w Instagram last June. This is my multifandom account, either way hello ♥️
September 18, 2025 at 7:23 PM
Ps if any of my #asexual, #aroace and #aromantic friends remember mossyfemme on twitter it's me! I ditched that app w Instagram last June. This is my multifandom account, either way hello ♥️