FFVIII apologist. Fan of Quistis.

Born male but castrated as a child (in the book), Eli lives and is seen as a girl. The film keeps Eli’s inner identity unclear. Eli uses a feminine presentation to move through society. Oskar sees Eli as a girl, but Eli tells him, “I’m not a girl," which could be interpreted multiple ways.

Putting "Gump" back into the rotation, are we?

"One More Try", perhaps?

Those were all I could think of in one sitting. It's a good point, that the gender-flipped formula doesn't really have many representatives.
As for the vampires, I'd say Eli is one of the least monstrous I can think of.

Let the Right One In, Splice, Corpse Bride, and depending on your definition of monster, Gone Girl.

So many seams are showing in it. Bummer.

The song is not my jam; I don't care who's singing it.

From now on, only Deeny gets to wear those, guys. Pass it on.

spray delay sashay ashtray?

"Crazy for You"

That's beautiful.