Paul Julch | Wardrobe Stylist
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Real style for real people.
12+ years & 400+ stylish clients.
Practical advice, mindset shifts & 1-1 styling services.
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Styling services at https://urbsuburbstyle.com
12+ years & 400+ stylish clients.
Practical advice, mindset shifts & 1-1 styling services.
Long form content & next level inspo at https://pjulch.substack.com/
Styling services at https://urbsuburbstyle.com
A quick reminder that influencers who share links from Amazon/Target/Walmart over the holiday weekend are making a statement with their choice, as well.
November 27, 2025 at 6:37 PM
A quick reminder that influencers who share links from Amazon/Target/Walmart over the holiday weekend are making a statement with their choice, as well.
Policing poor people on SNAP & ignoring billionaires’ tax cuts tells us everything we need to know about you.
November 2, 2025 at 2:49 PM
Policing poor people on SNAP & ignoring billionaires’ tax cuts tells us everything we need to know about you.
To all the people who berate those who need SNAP benefits & government assistance.
Do you realize how much closer you are to needing assistance than you are to being a billionaire??
Do you realize how much closer you are to needing assistance than you are to being a billionaire??
October 27, 2025 at 4:49 PM
To all the people who berate those who need SNAP benefits & government assistance.
Do you realize how much closer you are to needing assistance than you are to being a billionaire??
Do you realize how much closer you are to needing assistance than you are to being a billionaire??
If you don’t support gay marriage, then don’t marry someone of the same gender. It’s that simple.
And by the way – leave the rest of us the f&*k alone. 🏳️🌈
And by the way – leave the rest of us the f&*k alone. 🏳️🌈
October 7, 2025 at 2:21 AM
If you don’t support gay marriage, then don’t marry someone of the same gender. It’s that simple.
And by the way – leave the rest of us the f&*k alone. 🏳️🌈
And by the way – leave the rest of us the f&*k alone. 🏳️🌈
A quick reminder that clothing sizes are arbitrary. My client today took extra small, small & medium.
So, don’t get hung up on the number/letter on the tag. Just wear what fits.
So, don’t get hung up on the number/letter on the tag. Just wear what fits.
October 3, 2025 at 3:17 AM
A quick reminder that clothing sizes are arbitrary. My client today took extra small, small & medium.
So, don’t get hung up on the number/letter on the tag. Just wear what fits.
So, don’t get hung up on the number/letter on the tag. Just wear what fits.
The idea that youth is good & aging is bad is so deeply ingrained in society that so many people don’t even realize it.
September 30, 2025 at 2:39 PM
The idea that youth is good & aging is bad is so deeply ingrained in society that so many people don’t even realize it.
If any anybody calls your support of marginalized communities ‘performative’, remember:
People that are ‘technically’ on your side call you performative because it validates their lack of activism.
People that aren’t on your side call you performative in order to discourage you from speaking out.
People that are ‘technically’ on your side call you performative because it validates their lack of activism.
People that aren’t on your side call you performative in order to discourage you from speaking out.
September 28, 2025 at 2:06 PM
If any anybody calls your support of marginalized communities ‘performative’, remember:
People that are ‘technically’ on your side call you performative because it validates their lack of activism.
People that aren’t on your side call you performative in order to discourage you from speaking out.
People that are ‘technically’ on your side call you performative because it validates their lack of activism.
People that aren’t on your side call you performative in order to discourage you from speaking out.
Trans bathroom bans hurt women. Because trans women are women. And any non-feminine looking woman is also a target.
September 20, 2025 at 2:30 PM
Trans bathroom bans hurt women. Because trans women are women. And any non-feminine looking woman is also a target.
Yes, murder is wrong no matter who the victim is. But death does not equal virtue.
September 12, 2025 at 12:46 PM
Yes, murder is wrong no matter who the victim is. But death does not equal virtue.
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In Florida, you need to get your dog vaccinated for their own protection & the protection of other dogs.
But the same rules don’t apply to your kids??
But the same rules don’t apply to your kids??
September 8, 2025 at 10:12 PM
In Florida, you need to get your dog vaccinated for their own protection & the protection of other dogs.
But the same rules don’t apply to your kids??
But the same rules don’t apply to your kids??
Believe women.
Believe victims.
Release the Epstein files.
Believe victims.
Release the Epstein files.
September 3, 2025 at 4:49 PM
Believe women.
Believe victims.
Release the Epstein files.
Believe victims.
Release the Epstein files.
I’m still amazed by the number of people who won’t speak out until something directly affects them or someone they love.
August 20, 2025 at 2:47 PM
I’m still amazed by the number of people who won’t speak out until something directly affects them or someone they love.
I am so sick of the term ‘age-appropriate’ when referring to clothes & style.
What does it even mean?
Who decides what’s appropriate for which age?
Why are we even still having this conversation??
What does it even mean?
Who decides what’s appropriate for which age?
Why are we even still having this conversation??
August 7, 2025 at 3:56 AM
I am so sick of the term ‘age-appropriate’ when referring to clothes & style.
What does it even mean?
Who decides what’s appropriate for which age?
Why are we even still having this conversation??
What does it even mean?
Who decides what’s appropriate for which age?
Why are we even still having this conversation??
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94% of teachers have had to dip into their own pockets to buy school supplies. An estimated 1 in 6 have second jobs during the school year to make ends meet.
The average Wall Street employee got a record $244,700 bonus last year.
Something has gone terribly wrong.
The average Wall Street employee got a record $244,700 bonus last year.
Something has gone terribly wrong.
July 27, 2025 at 8:00 PM
94% of teachers have had to dip into their own pockets to buy school supplies. An estimated 1 in 6 have second jobs during the school year to make ends meet.
The average Wall Street employee got a record $244,700 bonus last year.
Something has gone terribly wrong.
The average Wall Street employee got a record $244,700 bonus last year.
Something has gone terribly wrong.
Pay attention to the small businesses who are willing to share their values.
They’re taking a risk because they might lose business. But they also know what’s important. So support them any way you can. 
They’re taking a risk because they might lose business. But they also know what’s important. So support them any way you can. 
July 16, 2025 at 4:15 AM
Pay attention to the small businesses who are willing to share their values.
They’re taking a risk because they might lose business. But they also know what’s important. So support them any way you can. 
They’re taking a risk because they might lose business. But they also know what’s important. So support them any way you can. 
A quick reminder that how you feel in your outfit is more important than what anyone else thinks.
So please don’t gauge whether an outfit was ‘cute’ based on whether or not you got a compliment. 
So please don’t gauge whether an outfit was ‘cute’ based on whether or not you got a compliment. 
July 6, 2025 at 8:16 PM
A quick reminder that how you feel in your outfit is more important than what anyone else thinks.
So please don’t gauge whether an outfit was ‘cute’ based on whether or not you got a compliment. 
So please don’t gauge whether an outfit was ‘cute’ based on whether or not you got a compliment. 
To all the style influencers who are sharing cute outfits for the Fourth of July:
Seriously??!
Seriously??!
July 2, 2025 at 2:28 AM
To all the style influencers who are sharing cute outfits for the Fourth of July:
Seriously??!
Seriously??!
A quick reminder on the past day of Pride.
Tomorrow isn’t when you stop supporting LGBTQ people, causes, businesses, etc. It’s when you take what you’ve learned this month to support LGBTQ all year long 🏳️🌈
Tomorrow isn’t when you stop supporting LGBTQ people, causes, businesses, etc. It’s when you take what you’ve learned this month to support LGBTQ all year long 🏳️🌈
July 1, 2025 at 4:26 AM
A quick reminder on the past day of Pride.
Tomorrow isn’t when you stop supporting LGBTQ people, causes, businesses, etc. It’s when you take what you’ve learned this month to support LGBTQ all year long 🏳️🌈
Tomorrow isn’t when you stop supporting LGBTQ people, causes, businesses, etc. It’s when you take what you’ve learned this month to support LGBTQ all year long 🏳️🌈
In all the scenarios I ever considered of how my life would go, I never thought that I would be living through the fall of democracy.
And I know that’s probably privileged, but it just never entered my head. 
And I know that’s probably privileged, but it just never entered my head. 
June 28, 2025 at 2:18 PM
In all the scenarios I ever considered of how my life would go, I never thought that I would be living through the fall of democracy.
And I know that’s probably privileged, but it just never entered my head. 
And I know that’s probably privileged, but it just never entered my head. 
If you’ve been ‘protecting your peace’ with regular activism - and then taking time off to rest & regroup - thank you.
If you’ve been ‘protecting your peace’ by ignoring what’s going on & pretending like everything is normal - you misunderstood the assignment.
If you’ve been ‘protecting your peace’ by ignoring what’s going on & pretending like everything is normal - you misunderstood the assignment.
June 23, 2025 at 3:32 PM
If you’ve been ‘protecting your peace’ with regular activism - and then taking time off to rest & regroup - thank you.
If you’ve been ‘protecting your peace’ by ignoring what’s going on & pretending like everything is normal - you misunderstood the assignment.
If you’ve been ‘protecting your peace’ by ignoring what’s going on & pretending like everything is normal - you misunderstood the assignment.
Saying “I don’t discuss politics” is not an excuse to avoid talking about human rights.
June 20, 2025 at 4:05 AM
Saying “I don’t discuss politics” is not an excuse to avoid talking about human rights.
Anti-trans parents: do you realize the recent SCOTUS ruling upholding the ban on gender-affirming care is just a step? It's a step towards them not allowing you to make decisions for your kids if they don't agree with you.
Please don't see this as victory – it’s a leap down a very slippery slope.
Please don't see this as victory – it’s a leap down a very slippery slope.
June 19, 2025 at 9:44 PM
Anti-trans parents: do you realize the recent SCOTUS ruling upholding the ban on gender-affirming care is just a step? It's a step towards them not allowing you to make decisions for your kids if they don't agree with you.
Please don't see this as victory – it’s a leap down a very slippery slope.
Please don't see this as victory – it’s a leap down a very slippery slope.
I’ve gained some weight since last summer. And you know what I did? I bought some new pants.
No, no one is excited when last year’s summer clothes don’t fit. But don’t let it define this summer.
If you need a couple new things, get them.
No, no one is excited when last year’s summer clothes don’t fit. But don’t let it define this summer.
If you need a couple new things, get them.
June 17, 2025 at 4:06 PM
I’ve gained some weight since last summer. And you know what I did? I bought some new pants.
No, no one is excited when last year’s summer clothes don’t fit. But don’t let it define this summer.
If you need a couple new things, get them.
No, no one is excited when last year’s summer clothes don’t fit. But don’t let it define this summer.
If you need a couple new things, get them.
If you’re looking to make style easier this summer – here are five hacks that I use with almost all my clients!
💌 Style Mail: 5 style hacks I use every summer
My never-fail strategies & what to wear under all those see-through tops
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June 12, 2025 at 3:52 PM
If you’re looking to make style easier this summer – here are five hacks that I use with almost all my clients!