Tori
@toribillsfriend.bsky.social
Say what you mean.
Mean what you say.
Just don't say it mean.
DM's always open for my friends in recovery from alcoholism/addiction or those that would like to be. If you don't need to be sober, cheers! #SoberSky
Mean what you say.
Just don't say it mean.
DM's always open for my friends in recovery from alcoholism/addiction or those that would like to be. If you don't need to be sober, cheers! #SoberSky
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Tori
@toribillsfriend.bsky.social
· Jan 22
The new starter pack of #sober friends has been started. We need each other and we need to find each other! If you want to be added, just let me know in the comments below. (You can still follow people from the first pack here: bsky.app/starter-pack...) #SoberSky
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"Compulsive button pushers, who seem to find pleasure or satisfaction in hurting us, are not welcome in our personal space...knowing where our buttons are enables us to do the work necessary to heal. Freedom comes when we deal with the pain behind the button, disconnecting our automatic reaction..."
December 20, 2025 at 9:52 PM
"Compulsive button pushers, who seem to find pleasure or satisfaction in hurting us, are not welcome in our personal space...knowing where our buttons are enables us to do the work necessary to heal. Freedom comes when we deal with the pain behind the button, disconnecting our automatic reaction..."
"When we were drinking & drugging, we didn't have to deal much with feelings. We turned them off...Now we have feelings again...Feelings, the good & the bad, keep on coming & we have to handle them. We are learning to handle our feelings. We're getting strong enough to deal with them." -KIS #Sober
December 17, 2025 at 11:19 PM
"When we were drinking & drugging, we didn't have to deal much with feelings. We turned them off...Now we have feelings again...Feelings, the good & the bad, keep on coming & we have to handle them. We are learning to handle our feelings. We're getting strong enough to deal with them." -KIS #Sober
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That's this whole administration, I think, they were all very obviously deeply wounded by their upbringings in ways that just broke them as human beings.
They are irreparably hurt people channeling their rage at their own spiritual wounds into violence at an incompressible scale.
They are irreparably hurt people channeling their rage at their own spiritual wounds into violence at an incompressible scale.
December 17, 2025 at 3:52 AM
That's this whole administration, I think, they were all very obviously deeply wounded by their upbringings in ways that just broke them as human beings.
They are irreparably hurt people channeling their rage at their own spiritual wounds into violence at an incompressible scale.
They are irreparably hurt people channeling their rage at their own spiritual wounds into violence at an incompressible scale.
"Service is how 12 Step programs refer to charity...Service helps us think of others, not just of ourselves. We stop asking, "What's in it for me?" The act of helping others is what's in it for us. Sobriety is what's in it for us. Serenity is what's in it for us." -KIS #SoberSky #Recovery
December 16, 2025 at 9:47 PM
Major fuckup by Suzie Wiles. Every one of these people are pissed as hell at her and will never say a word around her ever again. But for now, they're following White House orders on damage control. Will she be gone by the end of the day? Or Friday after 6:00 p.m.? There are tapes, giggles.
Hilarious. The WH had all the Cabinet members simultaneously put out statements supporting Susie Wiles after the Vanity Fair article came out.
December 16, 2025 at 6:31 PM
Major fuckup by Suzie Wiles. Every one of these people are pissed as hell at her and will never say a word around her ever again. But for now, they're following White House orders on damage control. Will she be gone by the end of the day? Or Friday after 6:00 p.m.? There are tapes, giggles.
Another Republican that stands for absolutely nothing. She sat for the Vanity Fair interview umpteen times and at no time did she go home and think, "damn, maybe I shouldn't have said that." So NOW, she tries to walk it all back after the ketchup hit the wall this morning. More ass kissing to come.
December 16, 2025 at 5:22 PM
Another Republican that stands for absolutely nothing. She sat for the Vanity Fair interview umpteen times and at no time did she go home and think, "damn, maybe I shouldn't have said that." So NOW, she tries to walk it all back after the ketchup hit the wall this morning. More ass kissing to come.
Susie Wiles says Trump has an "alcoholic personality". That may be true but his narcissism makes that a moot point in my opinion. Whole lot of bad blood in that pic. www.vanityfair.com/news/story/t...
Susie Wiles Talks About The First Year of Trump’s Second Term (Part 1 of 2)
In the first half of ‘Vanity Fair’’s interview with Susie Wiles, the chief of staff discusses Elon Musk’s DOGE disaster, the FBI’s “incredible job” investigating January 6, and how Trump once berated ...
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December 16, 2025 at 2:56 PM
Susie Wiles says Trump has an "alcoholic personality". That may be true but his narcissism makes that a moot point in my opinion. Whole lot of bad blood in that pic. www.vanityfair.com/news/story/t...
"We alcoholics...are uniquely equipped to help others with the same problem. What a wonderful world it would be if everybody took their own greatest problem and found the answer to it and spent the rest of their lives helping others with the same problem in their spare time." #AA 24HrADay #Sober
December 15, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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December 14, 2025 at 10:33 PM
"Try to see the life of the spirit as a calm place, shut away
from the turmoil of the world. Think of your spiritual home
as a place full of peace, serenity, and contentment. Go to
this quiet, meditative place for the strength to carry you
through today's duties and problems." -24HrADay #Sober
from the turmoil of the world. Think of your spiritual home
as a place full of peace, serenity, and contentment. Go to
this quiet, meditative place for the strength to carry you
through today's duties and problems." -24HrADay #Sober
December 14, 2025 at 8:57 PM
"Try to see the life of the spirit as a calm place, shut away
from the turmoil of the world. Think of your spiritual home
as a place full of peace, serenity, and contentment. Go to
this quiet, meditative place for the strength to carry you
through today's duties and problems." -24HrADay #Sober
from the turmoil of the world. Think of your spiritual home
as a place full of peace, serenity, and contentment. Go to
this quiet, meditative place for the strength to carry you
through today's duties and problems." -24HrADay #Sober
"In our addiction, we didn't care. We didn't care about other people...We didn't care for ourselves...We didn't care about living...In our recovery, we do care. We care about others, ourselves & life. Our spirits are on the move again.
There's life in our hearts...And we're daring to dream... -KIS
There's life in our hearts...And we're daring to dream... -KIS
December 13, 2025 at 10:26 PM
"In our addiction, we didn't care. We didn't care about other people...We didn't care for ourselves...We didn't care about living...In our recovery, we do care. We care about others, ourselves & life. Our spirits are on the move again.
There's life in our hearts...And we're daring to dream... -KIS
There's life in our hearts...And we're daring to dream... -KIS
"We may have left unfavorable impressions during our using days. On occasion, we do yet. However, it's progress, not perfection, we're after. Each day we begin anew, with a clear slate & fresh opportunities to spread good cheer, to treat others with love & respect..." -EDANB #SoberSky #Recovery
December 12, 2025 at 9:45 PM
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"We stopped drinking or using other drugs & like magic, a new world appeared. Being sober sure shakes up a person's life! It's good to shake up our world every now and then. This way, we see there's not just one “world”, but many. We grow each time we step into a new world & learn new things." -KIS
December 11, 2025 at 10:46 PM
"We stopped drinking or using other drugs & like magic, a new world appeared. Being sober sure shakes up a person's life! It's good to shake up our world every now and then. This way, we see there's not just one “world”, but many. We grow each time we step into a new world & learn new things." -KIS
I did side plank for the first time ever! I was always afraid I'd break an old bone, giggles. #yoga #hatha
alice from alice in wonderland is wearing a blue dress
ALT: alice from alice in wonderland is wearing a blue dress
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December 11, 2025 at 3:48 AM
"Today I choose to enjoy my life. Regardless of the problem & difficulties that this day will bring, I have an inner joy that comes with my recovery from addiction. With a clear head and body free from drugs I can face today & look forward to tomorrow. My life is to be enjoyed not endured." -FLDM
December 8, 2025 at 9:50 PM
"Today I choose to enjoy my life. Regardless of the problem & difficulties that this day will bring, I have an inner joy that comes with my recovery from addiction. With a clear head and body free from drugs I can face today & look forward to tomorrow. My life is to be enjoyed not endured." -FLDM
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December message on peace & impermanence, month of closure
"Everything is temporary,
don't stress
No matter how heavy the moment feels, it will eventually pass. Every emotion rises and falls. Every challenge comes and goes. Every season of life moves forward, even when you feel stuck . . .
🧵
"Everything is temporary,
don't stress
No matter how heavy the moment feels, it will eventually pass. Every emotion rises and falls. Every challenge comes and goes. Every season of life moves forward, even when you feel stuck . . .
🧵
December 6, 2025 at 4:08 PM
December message on peace & impermanence, month of closure
"Everything is temporary,
don't stress
No matter how heavy the moment feels, it will eventually pass. Every emotion rises and falls. Every challenge comes and goes. Every season of life moves forward, even when you feel stuck . . .
🧵
"Everything is temporary,
don't stress
No matter how heavy the moment feels, it will eventually pass. Every emotion rises and falls. Every challenge comes and goes. Every season of life moves forward, even when you feel stuck . . .
🧵
"Today, I recognize the source of light and wisdom that is within me...Solitude takes on a different meaning when I can contact that quiet within. Life softens and external things become less important. I look for this place within me on a daily basis. I give myself this present today." -H2H #Sober
December 6, 2025 at 11:57 PM
"Today, I recognize the source of light and wisdom that is within me...Solitude takes on a different meaning when I can contact that quiet within. Life softens and external things become less important. I look for this place within me on a daily basis. I give myself this present today." -H2H #Sober
"Celebrate with awe how far you’ve come in those first few steps of sobriety & in your faith & willingness to let go of your fears. Celebrate those first faltering moments of learning what it meant to take care of yourself. Even now, with each step you take, you are being transformed." -EDANB
December 6, 2025 at 7:12 PM
"Celebrate with awe how far you’ve come in those first few steps of sobriety & in your faith & willingness to let go of your fears. Celebrate those first faltering moments of learning what it meant to take care of yourself. Even now, with each step you take, you are being transformed." -EDANB
"Many of us in A.A. puzzle over what is a spiritual awakening. I tended to look for a miracle, something dramatic and earth shattering. But what usually happens is that a sense of well-being, a feeling of peace, transforms us into a new level of awareness." #AA DR #SoberSky #Recovery
December 5, 2025 at 6:43 PM
"We know how to help others. We know how to admit our wrongs. We know how to look at ourselves & change. We know how to live an honest life. Step12 tells us: Go use these tools for better living. Go be all you can be. Enjoy life & live a life you can be proud of." -Keep It Simple #SoberSky #Recovery
December 4, 2025 at 9:35 PM
"We know how to help others. We know how to admit our wrongs. We know how to look at ourselves & change. We know how to live an honest life. Step12 tells us: Go use these tools for better living. Go be all you can be. Enjoy life & live a life you can be proud of." -Keep It Simple #SoberSky #Recovery