TerryEnby
@terryenby.bsky.social
They/Them
I’m AuDHD, have PTSD, and various disabilities. Nonbinary, bi/pan and aromantic. I am happily married with amazing kids. I like watercolours, crafting, playing with words, naps with Mako the dog, and playing BG3.
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I’m AuDHD, have PTSD, and various disabilities. Nonbinary, bi/pan and aromantic. I am happily married with amazing kids. I like watercolours, crafting, playing with words, naps with Mako the dog, and playing BG3.
🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🇺🇦🇵🇸
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TerryEnby
@terryenby.bsky.social
· May 4
Hey lovely folks,
Just a reminder that regardless of my clothes/hair/makeup style I am still nonbinary. Please avoid gendered terms, especially feminine ones (eg. Woman/Girl/Lady/Sis etc.)
Thanks! 💜
(Pet names are usually fine though! If you want to clarify anything I’m happy to chat here or in DMs)
Just a reminder that regardless of my clothes/hair/makeup style I am still nonbinary. Please avoid gendered terms, especially feminine ones (eg. Woman/Girl/Lady/Sis etc.)
Thanks! 💜
(Pet names are usually fine though! If you want to clarify anything I’m happy to chat here or in DMs)
First Small steals my smart coat, then she steals my cuddles 🤣
Seriously though, could they be any more adorable together??
Seriously though, could they be any more adorable together??
December 20, 2025 at 12:54 PM
First Small steals my smart coat, then she steals my cuddles 🤣
Seriously though, could they be any more adorable together??
Seriously though, could they be any more adorable together??
Ordered some books as a cheeky last minute treat (for me, but also everyone in my house who I can convince to read them!)
Cuckoo - Gretchen Felker-Martin (as recently recommended!)
Bad Words - So Mayer
Little Town of Marrowville - John Robertson
Maybe 2026 is when I get back into reading books?🤞
Cuckoo - Gretchen Felker-Martin (as recently recommended!)
Bad Words - So Mayer
Little Town of Marrowville - John Robertson
Maybe 2026 is when I get back into reading books?🤞
December 20, 2025 at 1:12 AM
Ordered some books as a cheeky last minute treat (for me, but also everyone in my house who I can convince to read them!)
Cuckoo - Gretchen Felker-Martin (as recently recommended!)
Bad Words - So Mayer
Little Town of Marrowville - John Robertson
Maybe 2026 is when I get back into reading books?🤞
Cuckoo - Gretchen Felker-Martin (as recently recommended!)
Bad Words - So Mayer
Little Town of Marrowville - John Robertson
Maybe 2026 is when I get back into reading books?🤞
I just had an actual fucking miracle discovery.
One of my many digestive pains might in fact be referred oesophageal spasms… which improve a bit with cold water.
This could massively improve my quality of life!! Cold water!! 🤣 fuck yeah! 🤘
One of my many digestive pains might in fact be referred oesophageal spasms… which improve a bit with cold water.
This could massively improve my quality of life!! Cold water!! 🤣 fuck yeah! 🤘
December 19, 2025 at 6:11 PM
I just had an actual fucking miracle discovery.
One of my many digestive pains might in fact be referred oesophageal spasms… which improve a bit with cold water.
This could massively improve my quality of life!! Cold water!! 🤣 fuck yeah! 🤘
One of my many digestive pains might in fact be referred oesophageal spasms… which improve a bit with cold water.
This could massively improve my quality of life!! Cold water!! 🤣 fuck yeah! 🤘
Match made in smelly heaven?? 🤨
December 19, 2025 at 1:51 PM
Match made in smelly heaven?? 🤨
Adventure successful! Found the hospital (never been to this one before… I should start a hossy rating site!) and staff were lovely.
Should be my last appointment of the year 🤞👀
Should be my last appointment of the year 🤞👀
December 19, 2025 at 1:24 PM
Adventure successful! Found the hospital (never been to this one before… I should start a hossy rating site!) and staff were lovely.
Should be my last appointment of the year 🤞👀
Should be my last appointment of the year 🤞👀
Reposted by TerryEnby
Last call for stickers. I’mma close it this afternoon so I can do them all in a big batch.
(Converting the orders into postage and packing slips involves some dodgy scripts calling the stripe API because that was cheaper and less effort than setting up a proper web shop integration)
(Converting the orders into postage and packing slips involves some dodgy scripts calling the stripe API because that was cheaper and less effort than setting up a proper web shop integration)
My limited edition sticker shop is currently open for orders until Friday 19th December.
Orders are UK-only, and likely to arrive before Christmas if you choose First Class postage.
mattg.co.uk/stickers/
Orders are UK-only, and likely to arrive before Christmas if you choose First Class postage.
mattg.co.uk/stickers/
Limited Edition Sticker Shop
My sticker shop is currently open for orders until Friday 19th December.
Orders are UK-only, and I can’t guarantee delivery before Christmas.
Click below to buy an I got my x at… sticker, and you can add from my range of 5 other stickers to your order!
FAQ
How
mattg.co.uk
December 19, 2025 at 11:41 AM
Last call for stickers. I’mma close it this afternoon so I can do them all in a big batch.
(Converting the orders into postage and packing slips involves some dodgy scripts calling the stripe API because that was cheaper and less effort than setting up a proper web shop integration)
(Converting the orders into postage and packing slips involves some dodgy scripts calling the stripe API because that was cheaper and less effort than setting up a proper web shop integration)
GM!
Winter sun again!
Winter sun again!
December 19, 2025 at 10:45 AM
GM!
Winter sun again!
Winter sun again!
Trans/nonbinary friends: how do you decide what to wear when you want something “pretty” AND “masc”?
Specifically in this case, piercing jewellery, but in general too… I want the pretty sparkles AND I want it to be read as more masculine leaning.
Is there a magic trick I’m missing??
Specifically in this case, piercing jewellery, but in general too… I want the pretty sparkles AND I want it to be read as more masculine leaning.
Is there a magic trick I’m missing??
December 18, 2025 at 7:19 PM
Trans/nonbinary friends: how do you decide what to wear when you want something “pretty” AND “masc”?
Specifically in this case, piercing jewellery, but in general too… I want the pretty sparkles AND I want it to be read as more masculine leaning.
Is there a magic trick I’m missing??
Specifically in this case, piercing jewellery, but in general too… I want the pretty sparkles AND I want it to be read as more masculine leaning.
Is there a magic trick I’m missing??
Just in case you were unaware of the weather, from the large puddles, my joints would like to inform you it’s rather wet and windy!
Have I ever mentioned how grateful I am for my bed and my blankets?? 🥶
Have I ever mentioned how grateful I am for my bed and my blankets?? 🥶
December 18, 2025 at 3:09 PM
Just in case you were unaware of the weather, from the large puddles, my joints would like to inform you it’s rather wet and windy!
Have I ever mentioned how grateful I am for my bed and my blankets?? 🥶
Have I ever mentioned how grateful I am for my bed and my blankets?? 🥶
Woke up to breakfast in bed because of my sweet hubs.
Now just trying to distract through the pain&nausea and hope it stays in 🤞
He’s also getting me a smaller binder for Christmas as I’ve gone down a size 🥹 sweetheart.
Now just trying to distract through the pain&nausea and hope it stays in 🤞
He’s also getting me a smaller binder for Christmas as I’ve gone down a size 🥹 sweetheart.
December 18, 2025 at 10:09 AM
Woke up to breakfast in bed because of my sweet hubs.
Now just trying to distract through the pain&nausea and hope it stays in 🤞
He’s also getting me a smaller binder for Christmas as I’ve gone down a size 🥹 sweetheart.
Now just trying to distract through the pain&nausea and hope it stays in 🤞
He’s also getting me a smaller binder for Christmas as I’ve gone down a size 🥹 sweetheart.
Reposted by TerryEnby
"Because understanding speech is harder for people with auditory processing disorder, we need a clearer signal and less noise. We have a lot more trouble with conditions that muffle, distort, or distract from the speech signal." From @mosaicofminds.bsky.social:
open.substack.com/pub/mosaicof...
open.substack.com/pub/mosaicof...
What it's Like to Have Auditory Processing Disorder
and Why Understanding Speech is More Complicated than You Think
open.substack.com
December 11, 2025 at 7:28 PM
"Because understanding speech is harder for people with auditory processing disorder, we need a clearer signal and less noise. We have a lot more trouble with conditions that muffle, distort, or distract from the speech signal." From @mosaicofminds.bsky.social:
open.substack.com/pub/mosaicof...
open.substack.com/pub/mosaicof...
Inconsolable grief
Lights fade away
Shattered any belief
Worn thin today
Keep on crawling forwards
Hope for the spark
Joy worth moving towards
Brighten the dark
Lights fade away
Shattered any belief
Worn thin today
Keep on crawling forwards
Hope for the spark
Joy worth moving towards
Brighten the dark
December 17, 2025 at 12:14 PM
Inconsolable grief
Lights fade away
Shattered any belief
Worn thin today
Keep on crawling forwards
Hope for the spark
Joy worth moving towards
Brighten the dark
Lights fade away
Shattered any belief
Worn thin today
Keep on crawling forwards
Hope for the spark
Joy worth moving towards
Brighten the dark
Might deed poll myself into Pukey McPukeface at this rate. So exhausted.
But hey, the chamomile&fennel tea seems to help, and it’s a good excuse to hide in bed and sip tea for hours!
But hey, the chamomile&fennel tea seems to help, and it’s a good excuse to hide in bed and sip tea for hours!
December 16, 2025 at 11:46 PM
Might deed poll myself into Pukey McPukeface at this rate. So exhausted.
But hey, the chamomile&fennel tea seems to help, and it’s a good excuse to hide in bed and sip tea for hours!
But hey, the chamomile&fennel tea seems to help, and it’s a good excuse to hide in bed and sip tea for hours!
Planning a lot of fun stuff for 2026!
Already booked a hotel for MCM October, and found several comedy events throughout the early months.
Don’t rely on nice things to just happen, squeeze the joy from the year and ram it full of happiness.
Already booked a hotel for MCM October, and found several comedy events throughout the early months.
Don’t rely on nice things to just happen, squeeze the joy from the year and ram it full of happiness.
December 16, 2025 at 6:34 PM
Planning a lot of fun stuff for 2026!
Already booked a hotel for MCM October, and found several comedy events throughout the early months.
Don’t rely on nice things to just happen, squeeze the joy from the year and ram it full of happiness.
Already booked a hotel for MCM October, and found several comedy events throughout the early months.
Don’t rely on nice things to just happen, squeeze the joy from the year and ram it full of happiness.
Today’s “fake it till you make it” is brought to you by Chuckie Finster (Rugrats).
December 16, 2025 at 2:27 PM
Today’s “fake it till you make it” is brought to you by Chuckie Finster (Rugrats).
Slept nearly 14hrs, feeling much better!!
Might take a nap to celebrate 😅
Might take a nap to celebrate 😅
December 16, 2025 at 11:30 AM
Slept nearly 14hrs, feeling much better!!
Might take a nap to celebrate 😅
Might take a nap to celebrate 😅
Cuddled up in bed with chamomile&fennel tea.
Hopefully tonight is less gross.
If I can get food in better by January, I can probably avoid having to bug my consultant 🤞
Hopefully tonight is less gross.
If I can get food in better by January, I can probably avoid having to bug my consultant 🤞
December 15, 2025 at 8:40 PM
Cuddled up in bed with chamomile&fennel tea.
Hopefully tonight is less gross.
If I can get food in better by January, I can probably avoid having to bug my consultant 🤞
Hopefully tonight is less gross.
If I can get food in better by January, I can probably avoid having to bug my consultant 🤞
Captain Picard sings "Let it Snow!"
YouTube video by James Covenant
youtu.be
December 15, 2025 at 6:18 PM
Nothing like a hot bath after a rough night!
Fuck all the bad stuff. I’m gonna feel like luxury mulled wine and smell amazing. And technically festive?
Then some hugs.
And later a nap.
Fuck all the bad stuff. I’m gonna feel like luxury mulled wine and smell amazing. And technically festive?
Then some hugs.
And later a nap.
December 15, 2025 at 2:57 PM
Nothing like a hot bath after a rough night!
Fuck all the bad stuff. I’m gonna feel like luxury mulled wine and smell amazing. And technically festive?
Then some hugs.
And later a nap.
Fuck all the bad stuff. I’m gonna feel like luxury mulled wine and smell amazing. And technically festive?
Then some hugs.
And later a nap.
I think my stomach might finally let me sleep 😌
December 15, 2025 at 5:55 AM
I think my stomach might finally let me sleep 😌
Flesh is so frustratingly fragile and frequently malfunctions.
December 15, 2025 at 4:44 AM
Flesh is so frustratingly fragile and frequently malfunctions.
I’m really grateful I’m
not emetophobic or anything, but it’s still fucking annoying when I want to be sleeping.
Entirely my own choice for eating I guess 🙄
not emetophobic or anything, but it’s still fucking annoying when I want to be sleeping.
Entirely my own choice for eating I guess 🙄
December 15, 2025 at 1:46 AM
I’m really grateful I’m
not emetophobic or anything, but it’s still fucking annoying when I want to be sleeping.
Entirely my own choice for eating I guess 🙄
not emetophobic or anything, but it’s still fucking annoying when I want to be sleeping.
Entirely my own choice for eating I guess 🙄
David Hoare | 1000% Musical Comedy! (Full Comedy Special)
YouTube video by David Hoare
youtu.be
December 15, 2025 at 12:38 AM
So grateful for lovely communities and fun films today 💜
“But while there’s hope, while I still breathe, I will believe” 😭💜
“But while there’s hope, while I still breathe, I will believe” 😭💜
December 14, 2025 at 9:36 PM
So grateful for lovely communities and fun films today 💜
“But while there’s hope, while I still breathe, I will believe” 😭💜
“But while there’s hope, while I still breathe, I will believe” 😭💜