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The Stockroom is the original internet source for quality sex toys, online since 1990. We've now been selling sex toys, bondage gear, and restraints online for over 30 years, catering to curious novices and extreme BDSM players alike.
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Safiya knows restraints. Let her show you in A Complete Guide to Restraints, either in-person or online on Jan. 17.

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December 13, 2025 at 10:45 PM
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Coming Jan. 31: Mistress Wicked at Stockroom University shows you the joys of Impact Play. Attend in-person or virtually.

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December 13, 2025 at 10:45 PM
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How do you bind your partner? Let Safiya show you all the best ways of restraint at Stockroom University. Coming Jan 17.

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December 12, 2025 at 11:31 PM
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Not only is the main point about how to identify your own sexual desires essential, but they go into even more depth about different KINDS of attraction, from sexual to aesthetic. You can admire someone's style without wanting to do them.
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Calling yourself bi or pansexual isn't validated by how many dicks you've sucked or pussies you've eaten or any other combination of orifices you've mashed together. It's about about... ATTRACTION. But what does that even mean??? By @erikamoen.bsky.social & Matt Nolan
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PAGE 1 A person sits down on a park bench, looking frustrated as they text on their phone. Two familiar silhouettes appear to be chatting and eating in the background. The next panel reveals the two silhouettes to be Matthew and Erika, who are enjoying a romantic picnic date together with cubes of ham. “More ham?” Matthew asks, holding up a forkful of ham up to Erika. A pleased Erika responds, “Don’t mind if I do!” The exchange is quickly interrupted by the person yelling out a distraught “AUGH” as they flop sadly on the bench. Matthew holds up a hand to his ear. “Oooh! I know that sound!”, he says. Matthew gets up real close to the person on the bench. He squints and puts a finger on his chin as he guesses, “You’re… struggling with the complexities of attraction… and… mmm… nailing down a sexual identity?” Surprised, the person sits up and looks at him. “How did you… uh, well yes, I am!” Matthew props one leg up on the edge of the bench and makes his best attempt at posing like Riker from Star Trek, leaning down on his elevated knee with his elbow. “Wanna talk about it?” The person responds, “Yeah, I guess. I just… Do you really NEED to have S-E-X with someone in order to know if you’re *really* bisexual or gay or whatever?” It’s Erika’s turn to pop up behind the bench and startle the person as she answers, “Nope! Not at all. Your sexuality isn’t defined by *who* you’ve *had* (or not had) *sex with*. It’s about *who you find attractive!*” The person turns away, still looking troubled. “Blarp. It’s just - my friends keep saying I can’t *really* be bisexual because I’ve never hooked up with the same sex before. They say I’m straight and just, like, looking for attention or something.” Erika looks stern as she puts her hands on her hips. She says, “Well, whoever’s saying that is a doofus,” as Matthew nods his head in agreement. Erika and Matthew start eating from their plate of ham cubes again. “That sounds like a case of projection to me!” Matthew says around a mouthful of said ham cubes. Erika thoughtfully spears another cube with her fork. “It says more about *them* and *their* limited understanding of sexuality, than it does about *you* and *your* attractions.” Matthew leans in towards the person. He offers up a plate as he says, “Oh, where are my manners. Want some ham?” The person holds up their hands as they awkwardly lean away. “Th-that’s okay. I’m good.” Erika stands next to a sign that says, “YOU MUST SUCK THIS MUCH DICK TO ENTER” with a standing height scale of a smiling cartoon penis with measurement lines along its shaft. She says, “Who you’re attracted to isn’t about hard rules or taking specific actions. It’s not about how many dicks you’ve sucked or pussies you’ve eaten or any other combination of orifices you’ve mashed together.” Erika and the person float in the air with a giant radiating heart background, with individual hearts floating over their chests. Erika announces in a big heart shaped speech bubble, “Your sexual orientation is about your FEELINGS.” She says, “If you got the feels for a specific type of person, then you’ve got *the feels!* If you want to announce those feelings through a sexual identity title - like Bisexual, Ace, Pansexual, Straight, Gay, or whatever - then go for it! Nobody has any say in YOUR identity.” Matthew appears next to the person as Erika is talking. He pops an olive in his mouth. “(CHOMP) Olive?” He kindly offers the person a jar. Still weirded out, the person says, “Uh, no.” Erika continues, leaning on Matthew’s shoulder. “And likewise, if you want to keep it all to yourself, that’s fine too! Do what’s right for you.” Full transcript: https://www.ohjoysextoy.com/attraction Erika answers, “Well, that’s one form of attraction - *sexual attraction* - but there are a bunch of different types, too. Attraction can be summed up as being *strongly drawn to someone or something.* Like gravity! It’s feeling a pull, or interest, or pleasure from that person or thing. Erika and the person hold up two giant magnets in their arms that pull towards each other. The word “ATTRACTION” can be read between the magnets. We can feel it in different ways for different people and even things. It doesn’t need to be a strictly *sexual* feeling, either! Some forms of attraction can include (but are not limited to!)... *Sexual Attraction (AKA Physical Attraction)* Finding someone (or thing) sexually appealing, being physically excited and desiring some kind of sexual touching or activity with them. *Romantic Attraction (AKA Interpersonal Attraction)* The strong desire to be in a relationship with another person as a partnership, with a degree of emotional intimacy and commitment that is different or maybe even more intense than friendship. *Sensual Attraction* The desire for non-sexual physical contact and caregiving with somebody else, such as hugs, cuddles, and general love and affection. *Aesthetic Attraction* Just finding someone visually pleasing without necessarily having any desire for a physical, romantic, or emotional connection. Like seeing a beautiful model in an ad. There’s lots of different combinations and overlaps that can play out. Like, you could be *Romantically Attracted* to someone, so you want to be in a relationship with them, but you aren’t *Sexually Attracted* to them, so you don’t wanna bang ‘em. Or you could feel Romantically, Sexually, Aesthetically, and Sensually Attracted all at the same time to the same person! People can figure out loving, creative ways to accommodate each other’s needs if their attractions don’t perfectly sync up and they do want to be together in a relationship. Erika, Matthew, and the person all end up sitting back down on the bench together. Erika places one hand on her chest and one on the other person’s chest reassuringly. She says, “The skinny of it all is that your attraction to others - *your sexuality* - is a deeply personal thing that only you can know for yourself. And it’s okay *NOT* “to know” for sure! You don’t need to commit yourself to a label right now or ever. The most important thing is to be with people who make you happy and you do the same for them. What you decide to call yourself is up to you and you can change and mix it up as much and as many times as you like. Whatever attractions you do or don’t have, *your feelings are hella valid*, even if your friends are too much of a bunch of doofuses to understand that right now.” The person looks comforted by this. Matthew suddenly leans over the side of the bench to grab something. “... Sardines?” he offers, whipping a smelly can out of a picnic bag. Unsettled, the person finally hollers, “WHAT did you pack for your picnic?!” as Erika does a polite *ham munch* to end the comic. This comic was posted on July 7, 2020 and transcribed May 15, 2022, by Dennie Park, who can be found at linktr.ee/DeepBeeps
December 12, 2025 at 8:41 PM
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Jamie Joy's workshop on building the perfect scene comes to Stockroom University tomorrow. If you haven't gotten your tickets already, do it now!

Zoom - Fulfilling the Fantasy: From Negotiation to Scene Creation
Ready to turn your k inky fantasies into reality? Negotiation is foundational to fulfilling desires.
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December 12, 2025 at 4:02 PM
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This is the last day of our gift guide discounts, so if you want to save, get in there now!

But don't worry — for your convenience, the guides themselves will stay up all month!

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December 11, 2025 at 5:15 PM
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Stockroom University starts the new year with a primer course on restraints. Let Safiya help you figure out whether you like cuffs, ropes, straps, or something else entirely.

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December 10, 2025 at 5:31 PM
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Jamie Joy comes to Stockroom University this week for a virtual workshop on how to build the perfect scene through negotiation and imagination. l

Zoom - Fulfilling the Fantasy: From Negotiation to Scene Creation
Ready to turn your k inky fantasies into reality? Negotiation is foundational to fulfilling desires.
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December 9, 2025 at 10:31 PM
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We have a new way for you to become One with the universe, and you don't even have to chant. (Feel free if you want to, though!) Check out our new Cosmos Collection! 

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A butt plug made of transparent PVC filled with green and yellow sparkles against a black background. Anal beads made of transparent PVC, shown on a black background. The beads are tapered and curvy, filed with iridescent sparkles of blue, purple, and yellow. A ball gag made of transparent PVC, with a strap made of the same material. The ball is filled with blue-green sparkles. Ball gag made of transparent PVC, filled with pink sparkles in the ball section. The strap is made of dusty-pink leather.
December 9, 2025 at 7:53 PM
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Come shopping with us! The holidays can be sweet, sour, stingy, or thuddy, depending on your tastes. Our Holiday Shopping Guide will help you get just the right gear at up to 30% off. 

https://stockroom.com/pages/gift-guide-sale-2025?utm_source=bsky&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=giftguide
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December 8, 2025 at 10:30 PM
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"Top" and "Bottom" take on entirely new meanings when you're operating an elevator.
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Song #49/52
"Operator"
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My assigned theme this week was "elevator," so here's a sexy song about an elevator operator... although it's really a song about dominance, I would say!
Operator
YouTube video by Kate Sloan
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December 8, 2025 at 10:29 PM
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Don't let negotiating a scene feel like a chore. Come to Stockroom University on Saturday for this workshop about creating the perfect scene.

Zoom - Fulfilling the Fantasy: From Negotiation to Scene Creation
Ready to turn your k inky fantasies into reality? Negotiation is foundational to fulfilling desires.
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December 7, 2025 at 8:46 PM
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Dr. Nicole launches her Midlife and Kink workshop in a couple hours. If you've waited to sign up, there's still time.

Zoom: Midlife & K/nk Part 1 & 2
Join Dr. Nicole in this two-part, interactive, deep dive workshop as she explores the connection between s exuality and aging optimally
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December 6, 2025 at 6:16 PM
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Tomorrow, our 2-part virtual workshop on Midlife and Kink launches with Dr. Nicole! Get tickets while you can.

Zoom: Midlife & K/nk Part 1 & 2
Join Dr. Nicole in this two-part, interactive, deep dive workshop as she explores the connection between s exuality and aging optimally
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December 5, 2025 at 10:02 PM
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Just in time for our own Gift Guide, The Crash Pad folks have included us in theirs! Check out their guide — and their movies! These people really know their sex toys and how to use them to greatest effect.
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Tis the season... for CrashPad's NSFW Holiday Shopping Guide!

A few of our favorite things, like the hottest sex toys and kinky gear to appear on our queer porn set, and where to find them.
(Ft. @zariahaura.bsky.social & @nickyzeal.bsky.social & more!)

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Zariah Aura licks Nicky Zeal's armpits in this NSFW holiday sex toy shopping guide on queer and trans porn site CrashPad Series.
December 4, 2025 at 6:07 PM
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Dr. Nicole brings you solid advice on how to live out a healthy, kinky middle age. Dec. 6 and 7!

Zoom: Midlife & K/nk Part 1 & 2
Join Dr. Nicole in this two-part, interactive, deep dive workshop as she explores the connection between s exuality and aging optimally
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December 4, 2025 at 6:02 PM
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Struggling what to buy the kinky ones on your gift list? Our Holiday Gift Guide has suggestions with steep discounts!

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December 4, 2025 at 5:03 PM
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12/13: How do you bring that hot fantasy to life? Jamie Joy shows you how to make your negotiation sessions hot and productive in this virtual workshop.

Zoom - Fulfilling the Fantasy: From Negotiation to Scene Creation
Ready to turn your k inky fantasies into reality? Negotiation is foundational to fulfilling desires.
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December 3, 2025 at 10:46 PM
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Announcement Incoming...

Get first access to Early Registration rates when you sign up for the ForteFemme Waitlist.

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December 2, 2025 at 9:21 PM
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When you can find an article about shallowing on Forbes of all places, the world is getting stranger than expected.

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‘Shallowing’ Is A Sex Trend. Here’s What It Is
You may have seen the term “shallowing” trending on TikTok and other social media. It refers to a sex act that around 84% of women surveyed use to increase pleasure.
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December 2, 2025 at 10:07 PM
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Got your tickets for our Midlife and Kink workshop? It's happening this Sat. & Sun, so act now!

Zoom: Midlife & K/nk Part 1 & 2
Join Dr. Nicole in this two-part, interactive, deep dive workshop as she explores the connection between s exuality and aging optimally
www.eventbrite.com
December 2, 2025 at 10:02 PM
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We're  taking #CyberMonday beyond all reasonable limits — right into Tuesday! Fill your toybox with kinky gear for 25% off when you use CYBER as your checkout safeword. 

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December 2, 2025 at 4:03 PM
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Today is Cyber-Monday, with 25% off when you enter CYBER at checkout! Why not celebrate with this fabulous flogger? 

Stockroom | Stockroom Essentials Long Wood Flogger
With 45 leather falls and a handle made of Sissoo Rosewood, this high-quality flogger reflects old-fashioned craftsmanship for your next impact play scene.
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December 1, 2025 at 10:13 PM
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Negotiation is one of the most important parts of BDSM. Jamie Joy comes to Stockroom University for a virtual class on how to negotiate  the scene of your dreams.

Zoom - Fulfilling the Fantasy: From Negotiation to Scene Creation
Ready to turn your k inky fantasies into reality? Negotiation is foundational to fulfilling desires.
www.eventbrite.com
December 1, 2025 at 9:02 PM
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Packing for a post-Thanksgiving orgy? Don't forget that the Kink Travel Bag is now $50 off till the end of November. AND you get a free Bondage Bearz plushie. 

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A wide view of the KinkBag spread open to show its full width. There are an assortment of BDSM toys in the pouches and straps. The KinkBag laid out flat with an assortment of toys in the pockets and straps. The inside is red cloth with a black exterior.
November 28, 2025 at 10:30 PM