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SophicSiren
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Nail polish princess in a grease stained jersey. Rural Chicagoish. Steak rare, bourbon neat. Pan demi poly sub, often NSFW. Elder kinkster. Real writer. Mediocre triathlete. Adorkable geek. Anxious mess. Beautiful disaster. She/her. Namaste, bitches.
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I'm the kind of submissive that vanilla people always assume is a Dominatrix
First time back on the bike since the nerve pain situation

Slow and short but it went well, no pain and only a little numb

This might mean I can ease back to Ironman training, at least on the bike trainer

Don't feel like myself after so many months of post op recovery, but I can see a way back
December 17, 2025 at 11:51 PM
Madison guy is back to flirty sexy banter and uuugghhh you guuuyysss I have to wait like 11 more days to see him again waiting is hard I wanna get laid noooowwww
December 17, 2025 at 5:59 AM
So my friend with 3 terminal illnesses just had surgery for a retinal detachment and got her hip replaced two weeks ago so obviously last night she asked me to do part of RAGBRAI with her in July

Do I have time? No

Am I going? Hell yes

We're both medical train wrecks

We said fuck it

Carpe diem
December 16, 2025 at 5:18 PM
I know it's pathetic but when I haven't heard from Madison guy when he usually talks to me in the morning it's a relief to see the last time he was online was saying good night to me

With both my significant exes they'd be online a ton but leave me on read for hours as I got more and more anxious
December 16, 2025 at 5:12 PM
Two of my hardest limits are needles and electricity so it's super great when I have to start my day with the neurologist, needles, and electricity
December 15, 2025 at 4:22 PM
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horny but like for affection
December 12, 2025 at 9:21 PM
Just found out Madison guy doesn't have his kids the Saturday night of my birthday weekend and he invited me to come up 😍

I've been secretly hoping for this while trying not to admit to myself I was hoping for this since anything I want doesn't generally happen if the universe knows I want it
December 13, 2025 at 10:54 PM
Any of my mixology peeps also obsessed with Anders Erickson?

I'm gonna need a bigger booze budget if I keep watching his channel
December 13, 2025 at 6:06 PM
Madison guy is now fully moved into his own place

He's a train wreck from dealing with a job change, divorce decision and moving within 6 weeks

Trying soooo hard to be chill, supportive and follow his lead

Last thing I want to do is overwhelm him with wanting an Us when he's grieving
December 13, 2025 at 1:42 AM
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When you need to get plowed so bad you just start identifying as snow

#Nsfwthoughts
December 13, 2025 at 12:12 AM
It never stops being funny when my cat is miffed because I fed the snake a rat
December 11, 2025 at 11:35 PM
Unexpectedly comforting thing about Madison guy is that he has no socials but Insta, which he rarely uses

When I don't hear from him for a bit, I know he's busy with real life

There's no anxiety like with my ex bf

When he went quiet I'd often see he was on socials flirting with other women
December 11, 2025 at 3:25 AM
It is once again no one can tell I'm not wearing a bra because it's four degrees and I'm wearing a giant hoodie season
December 9, 2025 at 5:58 AM
Rough day in a death by a thousand paper cuts kind of way

Made a drink and put on a favorite paranormal romance for a comfort listen

Totally forgot this sexy snarky werewolf enemies to lovers tale includes the phrase mighty morphin power penis

So I got a good laugh out of it yet again
December 9, 2025 at 5:54 AM
I'm spend $45 on a memory foam bathtub pillow years old. Apparently.
December 8, 2025 at 3:54 PM
Late next year I'll be flying halfway across the country for a dear friend's vow renewal

Tonight she asked me if I would say something at the renewal, so I am both honored and wondering if 10 months is long enough to come up with something good enough for these beautiful souls I dearly love
December 8, 2025 at 4:32 AM
It's a bubble bath, bourbon cocktail and Bake Off kind of night
December 8, 2025 at 3:52 AM
I have some delicious little bruises on my breasts from last night's date and now I'm even more excited to see him again
December 7, 2025 at 6:51 AM
My date with Madison guy was amazing

He got the keys to his new place today, we stopped by there on the way to get a drink so I could see it

If there had been furniture... we would not have made it out for that drink

We would not have made it out of the bedroom

Cannot wait to see him again
December 6, 2025 at 6:47 AM
By this time tomorrow night my first date with Madison guy should be finishing up

I haven't been this excited for a first date since the one that ended up in a four year partnership with the ex I'm still in love with

I am going to be devastated if this doesn't go the way we expect it to
December 5, 2025 at 4:16 AM
Madison guy just said he's proud of me for starting training again today you guys I am doomed am soooooo gonna fall for this man
December 4, 2025 at 12:13 AM
Absolutely loving that Madison guy tells me first thing in the morning that he's got a busy work day and won't be able to chat

We usually message many times all day

We haven't even had our first date yet and he's being more thoughtful about my anxiety than maybe any other partner has been
December 2, 2025 at 4:13 PM
Husband and boychild are both sick and I'm going to be devastated if I get sick again and have to miss my rescheduled date with Madison guy
December 2, 2025 at 4:10 PM
Neurosurgeon update for those playing along at home...

He agrees new chronic shoulder pain and arm numbness is concerning, shouldn't be fusion related

Sending me for MRI, EMG, sports medicine consult in case it's from prior injury

If all that fails, next step is peripheral nerve specialist
December 2, 2025 at 4:49 AM
English Teacher Dom guy is a bit of an exhibitionist and now I get random messages saying he wants me to watch him get off

If I'm available, he does a video call

Definitely not mad about it
December 2, 2025 at 4:45 AM